So, you’ve got your FET profile set up. You’ve browsed a few kinky ads, maybe Spanked someone cute, or spent a late night exploring the forums.
So, you’ve got a kinky little profile. Maybe you've Spanked a few cuties, joined a Group, or even dabbled in a Kinky Ad. But if you’re not using VIP
You’ve probably seen the words “tech conference” and instantly checked out. We get it — harsh lighting, endless buzzwords, and nothing that actually
We've all heard misconceptions about kinky people, especially since That Unmentionable Book and Movie (UBM) launched BDSM into the mainstream and
Your kinky friends might seem a bit 'disturbed', but vanillas can learn a lot from the way their fetish friends communicate with each
The pleasures of the flesh have been celebrated in kinky art for millennia. In some paintings, the meanings are subtle and implied, but others are
In the second part of our series about consent in BDSM, Cameryn Moore explains how having conversations about consent during a kink or bondage scene
Most of us are probably familiar with the fetish play etiquette term ‘Safe, Sane and Consensual’ when it comes to BDSM safety. Even so, rules are
Some people think that a full-time D/s relationship is forever and ever, amen. “No more asking, we know the drill, and we certainly don’t need all
New to BDSM? Need BDSM advice? No fear, intimacy educator, sex coach and author Stella Starlight's monthly advice column is here to help. This month,
What drives a man to submit to a dominatrix in a BDSM scenario? Writer Caitlin explores the dom woman and her sexually submissive
Tightlacing (or corset training) is the practice of wearing a tightly laced corset to experience physical restriction or achieve long-term body
Bondage, BDSM versus Fetish, D/s - all this can be quite confusing once you decide to dig deeper into the scene. But hey, don't worry about all that,
Fed up with punishing your sub/slave with a simple whipping? Let’s spice things up a bit, in every sense of the word. Next time you're at the
It’s that time of year again, kinksters. The shops are full of Christmas decs, lights and gift ideas, but what if you’re looking for something
The FetLife app and site is well-known by kinksters. But if you don't yet have a FetLife login, is it worth joining this product that tries to bridge
A BDSM breakup can feel more intense than a vanilla split, but healing is possible. Whether you're a Dom, sub, or kinkster, this guide offers
We want you to get knotty! Whether you're new to ropes or a seasoned pro, catching up on the BDSM basics is always good. Here are the top five
BDSM isn’t just about dungeons and chains, sometimes you’re looking for sub-one covered in frilly lace, cleaning your house and pleasuring your