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From 1,000 to 11,500 followers in twelve months — FET's Instagram education series on BDSM grew not through virality, but by being genuinely useful
FET has been awarded Best Fetish App & Website at the UK Fetish Awards 2025. This win marks a major milestone for FET’s 400,000-strong global
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Body shaming is everywhere. Whether it’s in advertising or even friends and family commenting on our bodies – it can feel like the world's against
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Spend any amount of time in the kink community, and eventually someone will refer to 'Old Guard' when talking about BDSM, and specifically Dominance
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Our resident BDSM agony aunt Molly returns with advice for one FET member on the verge of exploring same-sex desires. Read on to discover more about
If the idea of wanking in the woods or jerking off in public turns you on, you’re not alone. Indeed, outdoor masturbation is a common fantasy that
As a diverse community of kinksters, we know that visibility matters. Here we present some incredible Black sex educators and Black-owned sex
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