Plus sized ADHD Dutchie that enjoys the kinky life. Still experimenting and figuring out my likes and limits. Also experimenting with my bi curious, swinger side.

I’m pretty new to this, and would love to find someone to experiment and explore with. Even though I don’t have a lot of experience yet… I do know what I care about : I’m not here for anything quick & fleeting. It’s very important for me to get to know each other — really get to know each other, build a strong connection and create safety. Communication, care, honesty and awareness (both of the self and the other) play a very big part in this. Creating the strong foundation I believe are needed for kinks > dom/sub dynamics for ***nce, or any/all relationships really, to truly flow and blossom. It asks for great vulnerability & surrender, and with that come responsibilities… that’s not something to treat lightly and meaningless. I want to build something. Something long term to both commit to and see where it will take us… I’m not necessarily expecting my partner for life, but who knows (; Someone who embraces the honor, respect and responsibility that come with intimacy shared, on a physical level AND beyond. Investing in the time & energy shared… taking things slow… letting connection and tension build. I believe there’s a certain rawness, and pureness to arise from a bond like that — which can be so magical and special. It can also create a beautiful playfield in which there’s loads of room to express, explore and experience. And to surrender into… I tend to be introverted, but if and once it “clicks” and I feel comfortable I can be pretty outgoing. Patience, open(minded)ness, deep connection, playfulness/humor, intention and actual interest in each other as a whole are quite the necessities in this. It’s important for me to connect on an emotional/spiritual level before anything else; which means that I’m open to talk a bit, see if we want to meet-up, then feel what it’s all like once we go on a date or two & whether we match, and if so we can take it from there! I also hope it goes without saying that, aside from the kink side of things, I very much so like to have a lot of autonomy, am strongly against anything disregarding & disrespecting or objectifying women (or anyone for that matter), and detest superiority (: ——— 💌 I’m not on my phone much & can be slow to respond… if I’m not on here for a day or two, know that it’s nothing personal — just me living life the way I know best : without too much distraction 🧚🏼🌞🌳

I’m pretty new to this, and would love to find someone to experiment and explore with. Even though I don’t have a lot of experience yet… I do know what I care about : I’m not here for anything quick & fleeting. It’s very important for me to get to know each other — really get to know each other, build a strong connection and create safety. Communication, care, honesty and awareness (both of the self and the other) play a very big part in this. Creating the strong foundation I believe are needed for kinks > dom/sub dynamics for ***nce, or any/all relationships really, to truly flow and blossom. It asks for great vulnerability & surrender, and with that come responsibilities… that’s not something to treat lightly and meaningless. I want to build something. Something long term to both commit to and see where it will take us… I’m not necessarily expecting my partner for life, but who knows (; Someone who embraces the honor, respect and responsibility that come with intimacy shared, on a physical level AND beyond. Investing in the time & energy shared… taking things slow… letting connection and tension build. I believe there’s a certain rawness, and pureness to arise from a bond like that — which can be so magical and special. It can also create a beautiful playfield in which there’s loads of room to express, explore and experience. And to surrender into… I tend to be introverted, but if and once it “clicks” and I feel comfortable I can be pretty outgoing. Patience, open(minded)ness, deep connection, playfulness/humor, intention and actual interest in each other as a whole are quite the necessities in this. It’s important for me to connect on an emotional/spiritual level before anything else; which means that I’m open to talk a bit, see if we want to meet-up, then feel what it’s all like once we go on a date or two & whether we match, and if so we can take it from there! I also hope it goes without saying that, aside from the kink side of things, I very much so like to have a lot of autonomy, am strongly against anything disregarding & disrespecting or objectifying women (or anyone for that matter), and detest superiority (: ——— 💌 I’m not on my phone much & can be slow to respond… if I’m not on here for a day or two, know that it’s nothing personal — just me living life the way I know best : without too much distraction 🧚🏼🌞🌳

Plus sized ADHD Dutchie that enjoys the kinky life. Still experimenting and figuring out my likes and limits. Also experimenting with my bi curious, swinger side.