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Who is me
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*Wannabe racer, hug enthusiast and overall meddler.
*Trying to elevate small talk to medium talk.
*Worshiper of dead book authors, wine, perfume and The Internets.
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Rules to Love by:
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*Safe, sane, consensual, informed
*KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
*Submission is not about authority and itβs not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.
Cute, curvy ginger, looking for a Dom or Daddy that can teach this brat a lesson.
I am not the app often, so have some patience pls.
I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A SUB
LONG DESCRIPTION ALERT! π¨
Somewhere in 2016 I was introduced to various kinks through my then boyfriend who had a fantasy of being humiliated by me. I thought that was totally fine, as long as I wasn't the one getting down on her knees and taking the beating. Unfortunately it never happened in the end because right after he shared his fantasies with me we broke up. After that I had some random contacts here and there via Tinder (yuck..) where I occasionally attracted some sissy boys. That didn't develop that much either but it's an experience to look back on. π
I left the BDSM world for a few years after that. Even while watching porn, BDSM wasn't my go-to. In 2022 I suddenly decided, without any real experience, to jump in with both feet and was looking for slaves to work out my frustrations on. (Still partially the case..). It was a stressful year for me and I was looking for an outlet. I was hungry for it.
I found out the hard way that for me personally that is not the way to go about it. I ran into time wasters who could almost smell how desperate I was to find a slave.. and that is not a good start. I kept it up for about half a year and actually learned a lot, for which I am grateful. I watched much more advanced Dommes at work and did some sessions online myself. In that short time I wasn't completely comfortable in my position. I was very focused on my appearance to the subs. I wanted every sub who encountered me to know that I was the ''dominant Domme'' in the dynamic and put more energy into portraying that role than actually being truly dominant. As a result I suffered from imposter syndrome, which was right and wrong. Right, because I was acting like a caricature version of a Domme, but wrong because I actually do have a naturally dominant personality. All that extra fuss was completely unnecessary and also brought me into contact with horny weirdos who just wanted my time and energy to be able to pull on their little dicks.
Now I open my doors again to the BDSM world and I'm starting completely over. Even though I have not had an official slave yet and I have not had any real-life 1on1 experience with a sub, I still want to make it clear that I am not willing to activate my switch side. I am open to learning but in the end I of course like things to go my way.
What exactly am I looking for? π€
I want subs who
-are looking for a purpose in life
-are not hellbent on wanting to do roll-play. (It makes me cringe but maybe that's because I'm not that experienced yet)
-have a high level of self control or are willing to be trained into that
-have decent comprehension skills
-are willing to assist me in daily tasks
-can handle a good deep conversation
-want to be humiliated
-are willing to give themselves to me completely and do whatever I want them to do
-want to see me win in life and dedicate their lives to it
-have few boundaries when it comes to kinks. I'm interested in pretty extreme things.
-are no younger than 25 years of age
FL: StarLuxOG
Introvert, very dark sense of humor, last place in the yearly smalltalk competition , what even is a conversation starter, local emo, in an open relationship
Weakness:
Goth/emo/alto style
Tattoos
Longer hair
I don't respond to profiles without own pictures
Quirky, clumsy, awkward, weird and ever so curiousπ¦ππ¦πππ
ENM partnered & poly π
Looking for genuine, meaningful & fun connections, to explore the emotional, the physical and more ππβ¨
-Overthinker with ADHD
-Bachelor in psychology (majored in neuropsychology)
-Studying research master DNA in Behavior and Health as of sept '25
- Into introspection π§
-Love to deep dive into any topic
- Not uncomplicated but very educational πππ
I appreciate good communication, so let's be open and honest about our wants and needs! π£οΈβ¨
For instance: I need time to answer messages due to anxiety and difficulty finding my words.
Likes πβΊοΈ
Learning new things, researching, people, being outside (eg my gardenπ) self-expression, glitterβ¨, stories, enthousiasm, ***ting (like all the clothes in my wardrobe πποΈ), nerdy stuff (D&D, Dr Who, Professor Layton, Studio Ghibli, etc π), binge watching anything and so much more!
Nederlands with tendency to switch randomly between Engels and Dutch π
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Who is me
.
*Wannabe racer, hug enthusiast and overall meddler.
*Trying to elevate small talk to medium talk.
*Worshiper of dead book authors, wine, perfume and The Internets.
_____________
Rules to Love by:
.
*Safe, sane, consensual, informed
*KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
*Submission is not about authority and itβs not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.
LONG DESCRIPTION ALERT! π¨
Somewhere in 2016 I was introduced to various kinks through my then boyfriend who had a fantasy of being humiliated by me. I thought that was totally fine, as long as I wasn't the one getting down on her knees and taking the beating. Unfortunately it never happened in the end because right after he shared his fantasies with me we broke up. After that I had some random contacts here and there via Tinder (yuck..) where I occasionally attracted some sissy boys. That didn't develop that much either but it's an experience to look back on. π
I left the BDSM world for a few years after that. Even while watching porn, BDSM wasn't my go-to. In 2022 I suddenly decided, without any real experience, to jump in with both feet and was looking for slaves to work out my frustrations on. (Still partially the case..). It was a stressful year for me and I was looking for an outlet. I was hungry for it.
I found out the hard way that for me personally that is not the way to go about it. I ran into time wasters who could almost smell how desperate I was to find a slave.. and that is not a good start. I kept it up for about half a year and actually learned a lot, for which I am grateful. I watched much more advanced Dommes at work and did some sessions online myself. In that short time I wasn't completely comfortable in my position. I was very focused on my appearance to the subs. I wanted every sub who encountered me to know that I was the ''dominant Domme'' in the dynamic and put more energy into portraying that role than actually being truly dominant. As a result I suffered from imposter syndrome, which was right and wrong. Right, because I was acting like a caricature version of a Domme, but wrong because I actually do have a naturally dominant personality. All that extra fuss was completely unnecessary and also brought me into contact with horny weirdos who just wanted my time and energy to be able to pull on their little dicks.
Now I open my doors again to the BDSM world and I'm starting completely over. Even though I have not had an official slave yet and I have not had any real-life 1on1 experience with a sub, I still want to make it clear that I am not willing to activate my switch side. I am open to learning but in the end I of course like things to go my way.
What exactly am I looking for? π€
I want subs who
-are looking for a purpose in life
-are not hellbent on wanting to do roll-play. (It makes me cringe but maybe that's because I'm not that experienced yet)
-have a high level of self control or are willing to be trained into that
-have decent comprehension skills
-are willing to assist me in daily tasks
-can handle a good deep conversation
-want to be humiliated
-are willing to give themselves to me completely and do whatever I want them to do
-want to see me win in life and dedicate their lives to it
-have few boundaries when it comes to kinks. I'm interested in pretty extreme things.
-are no younger than 25 years of age
FL: StarLuxOG
Quirky, clumsy, awkward, weird and ever so curiousπ¦ππ¦πππ
ENM partnered & poly π
Looking for genuine, meaningful & fun connections, to explore the emotional, the physical and more ππβ¨
-Overthinker with ADHD
-Bachelor in psychology (majored in neuropsychology)
-Studying research master DNA in Behavior and Health as of sept '25
- Into introspection π§
-Love to deep dive into any topic
- Not uncomplicated but very educational πππ
I appreciate good communication, so let's be open and honest about our wants and needs! π£οΈβ¨
For instance: I need time to answer messages due to anxiety and difficulty finding my words.
Likes πβΊοΈ
Learning new things, researching, people, being outside (eg my gardenπ) self-expression, glitterβ¨, stories, enthousiasm, ***ting (like all the clothes in my wardrobe πποΈ), nerdy stuff (D&D, Dr Who, Professor Layton, Studio Ghibli, etc π), binge watching anything and so much more!
Nederlands with tendency to switch randomly between Engels and Dutch π
Cute, curvy ginger, looking for a Dom or Daddy that can teach this brat a lesson.
I am not the app often, so have some patience pls.
I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A SUB
Introvert, very dark sense of humor, last place in the yearly smalltalk competition , what even is a conversation starter, local emo, in an open relationship
Weakness:
Goth/emo/alto style
Tattoos
Longer hair
I don't respond to profiles without own pictures
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