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I like to try new things but be a bit patient with me – kind of my first time I am really trying this. I am sub but just in bed, like to be controlled. I am not into pain too much but happy to be told what to do and dominated. Friendship is ok but I am not interested in any serious relationship. In normal life I need eye level and no toxic shit. Well, sarcasm is welcome and given. Love metal music and geek movies. I own a cat that is my life saver (Lemmy). I will show my face when I feel a connection. Languages are English and German, I can read and understand Dutch. Not looking for guys below 35 and not above 55. No interest in women. Let’s see and explore.
Female (46) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
## Note #### 1. Let's get this out of the way first to avoid any confusion, I'm a trans woman and post-op. Curious what I look like while photos are still out? Scroll down and read about it in "Visuals". I have a problem being used as someone's trans kink/fetish/fantasy, so don't send me a message if you wanna focus on that. **Try and you'll get blocked.** #### 2. Don't send me a friend request if we haven't met in real life or have had a proper conversation online ## About me INFP-T | ☀ ♌ | ☾ ♍ | ️↑ ♏ | Neurodivergent | LGBTQIA+ My name is Nyla (she/they), I'm a strong-minded woman that knows what she wants and can have a very strong opinion. I'm a beginning soft Domme, Rigger and Owner, with a focus on a personal approach. I'm driven and committed to educate myself, to keep learning and keep on improving. I value respect, open communication and honesty. I'm considered to be a very calm and in control person. I got quite some kinks and a few fetishes I'm looking to explore further. And while I seem to stay on the Domme side of a D/s dynamic, I do notice to switch in a top/bottom sense. I'm looking to learn and experience, to expand my social circles within the kink/fetish community, meet new people and if things click, perhaps even some kind of dynamic. For me my attraction goes deeper and wider than just sexual attraction, so please note my **sexuality** when you want to contact me. A mental/emotional connection is important to me to be able to have any type of dynamic. I'm homoflexible pansexual with primarily a sexual and sensual attraction towards women and non-binary & trans people. So, apparently I'm 49% a Switch, is that like a true switch or just half a switch? ## Outside of Kink I'm a very creative person and enjoy creativity in the broadest sense of the word. I'm a programmer, so creating solutions through hardware, soldering and programming is a fun way to incorporate my profession into my hobbies. Sewing, crafting, painting, drawing, digital design, 3D modelling and printing, electronics and much more are things I enjoy doing. I'm very ambitious and always try to learn a new skill or strengthen and improve upon the skills I already have. Besides that, I enjoy socialising with friends, meeting new people, staying in to watch a series or a film, going out for drinks and food, attend a festival or go to a concert. My music taste is almost as broad as my creative interests, but my main genres are hard/rock, country, trance, melodic/film and certain kinds of electronic. Just as within Kink, in the vanilla day-to-day life I invest in the people dear to me. Truly get to know them, help uplift their lives and focus on the integral connection between people. ## Visuals While there currently isn't a picture, let me describe myself: I'm 5'10", with a bit wider build structurally and an average body, where as I'm currently working towards a more slim/athletic build, as far as that's possible. Firm trained legs, a well rounded firm bottom and flat hips. B-cup breasts, but that's planned on changing in the near future ;) A soft feminine, bit more rounded oval face with a softer facial structure, brown/green eyes with a grey accent, long bra strap length hair which through the seasons fluctuates between brown and dark blonde with natural highlights. My every day dress sense is between classical feminine and athletic-comfy. ## For anyone: **DON'T** try to force me into being your Domme. Also, don't be rude and bombard me with honorifics I did not ask for. **DON'T** try and absorb and abuse my time for your own pleasure. **DON'T** force your service onto me. If I'm interested, trust me, I'll let you know. **DO** put in the effort to get to actually know me, what I'm looking for and what my wishes and needs are, as I'll invest my time into you to get to know you. **DO** show why you are worth my time. I'm a very busy person, but I always try to make time for people that show they are worth it. If you are a sub, rope model, pet or little looking for a Domme, Rigger, Owner or Mommy/Caregiver, and are interested in me, come and get to know me! I'm open for new contacts, so let's find out if we would be a good fit for each other. ## Chat #### Before you messsage me: Please put some effort in your messages. Leave your one-liner and empty 'hey', 'hi', 'you alright' at the door. Those will most likely be ignored or at most be answered in a very short and distanced manner. EN or NL. I'm very openminded, can be sweet and soft, but can also hard, stern and dominant. Send me a message and find out which side of me you will bring up. #### Results from bdsmtest.org (05-01-'22) 1. **87% Dominant** 2. **86% Rigger** 3. **85% Owner** 4. **85% Mommy** 5. **84% Experimentalist** 6. **76% Mistress** 7. **73% Voyeur** 8. **70% Sadist** 9. **65% Brat tamer** 10. **64% Non-monogamist** 11. *51% Primal (Hunter)* 12. *49% Vanilla* 13. *49% Switch* 14. *22% Masochist* 15. *21% Exhibitionist* 16. *11% Submissive* 17. *9% Pet* 18. *8% Degrader* 19. *0% Brat* 20. *0% Primal (Prey)* 21. *0% Girl* 22. *0% Rope bunny* 23. *0% Degradee* 24. *0% Slave* 25. *0% Ageplayer*
Female (29) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Hey! I am very new to the fetish world and would love to explore all about it! I've read quite a bit about kinks and the scene so I definitely have some knowledge but no experience and my goal is to change that :)) Definitely leaning into the submissive side of things and also heavily into older man♡
Female (25) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Here to explore BDSM with fellow deviants. I'm a rope bunny, princess and brat. will you be able to handle me?
Female (37) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Brazilian doctor living in Brazil. I move my app location around to meet different people that are far from home. I'm a switch. Openly married. Curvy. Looking for an online playful, trusting and meaningful relationship with another switch or a female sub. Meeting in person is not out of question. I don't appreciate being approached disrespectfully. I believe submission is a gift to be earned, not the other way around.
Female (39) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Im not searching anymore.. But like minded people can write! I have an open relationship. My partner is fully aware of what im doing. I expect this also from you. I dont like to do things in hiding. Personally i dont have a mommy fetish so be aware of the age difference. Note: with only saying hi to me, you don't trigger me to respond. Niet meer op zoek... Maar gelijkgestemden kunnen altijd schrijven. Ik heb een open relatie waarbij mijn partner volledig op de hoogte is, dit verwacht ik ook van jou. Ik hou niet van stiekem doen. Persoonlijk heb ik geen mamma fetish, kijk alsjeblieft een beetje naar het leeftijdsverschil. Een tip: met alleen hoi zeggen word ik niet getriggerd om te reageren.
Female (50) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Newbie trying to figure things out. The BDSM test says I am mostly a brat and I could relate. I like being dominated respectfully and preyed on like I am the ultimate prize. Also like to be spoiled with attention, gifts and love like a princess (but don’t be desperate). Big sucker for a (sigma) leader with sensuality and passion. However, also love to get a bit of control back and tease here and there. Love to act immature and innocent. In everyday life an independent and intelligent, yet emotionally unstable and strongly coping lady that loves a luxury lifestyle and collecting experiences. It would be nice if I don’t have to (pretend) to be strong and can transfer my power, receive care, be clingy and needy. If i were to take a guess, I am 80% into praising kinks, 20% degrading kinks. For myself I am kinda demisexual so appreciate being charmed and building an emotional connection first.
Female (29) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
I am looking for am dominant/ caregiver in real life. Online doesnt work for me because i feel like it isnt serious enough like I can be a brat but they cant punish me. It takes the thrill away (for me). I like texting but I tend to go into periods where I have limited energy and I would like to have someone (a caregiver) so help me with that. In those periods I neglect myself and everyone around me. that and I am not interester in men older than 26
Female (19) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
i’ve been out of the game for a while so i wanna meet new handsome people to have fun with! i am not dominant more submissive but not in a extreme way and i like it more vanilla but i need a men that takes the lead.
Female (25) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
heyya! I am an introverted anime lover who also enjoys travel. Although I feel very comfy in my bed watching anime I really love to travel and go hiking (slowly XD). I wanna meet someone who wants a serious relationship and will binge anime and go on the occasional hike with me or just walk around a park. to shy to send the first message
Female (18) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland

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I like to try new things but be a bit patient with me – kind of my first time I am really trying this. I am sub but just in bed, like to be controlled. I am not into pain too much but happy to be told what to do and dominated. Friendship is ok but I am not interested in any serious relationship. In normal life I need eye level and no toxic shit. Well, sarcasm is welcome and given. Love metal music and geek movies. I own a cat that is my life saver (Lemmy). I will show my face when I feel a connection. Languages are English and German, I can read and understand Dutch. Not looking for guys below 35 and not above 55. No interest in women. Let’s see and explore.
Female (46) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
## Note #### 1. Let's get this out of the way first to avoid any confusion, I'm a trans woman and post-op. Curious what I look like while photos are still out? Scroll down and read about it in "Visuals". I have a problem being used as someone's trans kink/fetish/fantasy, so don't send me a message if you wanna focus on that. **Try and you'll get blocked.** #### 2. Don't send me a friend request if we haven't met in real life or have had a proper conversation online ## About me INFP-T | ☀ ♌ | ☾ ♍ | ️↑ ♏ | Neurodivergent | LGBTQIA+ My name is Nyla (she/they), I'm a strong-minded woman that knows what she wants and can have a very strong opinion. I'm a beginning soft Domme, Rigger and Owner, with a focus on a personal approach. I'm driven and committed to educate myself, to keep learning and keep on improving. I value respect, open communication and honesty. I'm considered to be a very calm and in control person. I got quite some kinks and a few fetishes I'm looking to explore further. And while I seem to stay on the Domme side of a D/s dynamic, I do notice to switch in a top/bottom sense. I'm looking to learn and experience, to expand my social circles within the kink/fetish community, meet new people and if things click, perhaps even some kind of dynamic. For me my attraction goes deeper and wider than just sexual attraction, so please note my **sexuality** when you want to contact me. A mental/emotional connection is important to me to be able to have any type of dynamic. I'm homoflexible pansexual with primarily a sexual and sensual attraction towards women and non-binary & trans people. So, apparently I'm 49% a Switch, is that like a true switch or just half a switch? ## Outside of Kink I'm a very creative person and enjoy creativity in the broadest sense of the word. I'm a programmer, so creating solutions through hardware, soldering and programming is a fun way to incorporate my profession into my hobbies. Sewing, crafting, painting, drawing, digital design, 3D modelling and printing, electronics and much more are things I enjoy doing. I'm very ambitious and always try to learn a new skill or strengthen and improve upon the skills I already have. Besides that, I enjoy socialising with friends, meeting new people, staying in to watch a series or a film, going out for drinks and food, attend a festival or go to a concert. My music taste is almost as broad as my creative interests, but my main genres are hard/rock, country, trance, melodic/film and certain kinds of electronic. Just as within Kink, in the vanilla day-to-day life I invest in the people dear to me. Truly get to know them, help uplift their lives and focus on the integral connection between people. ## Visuals While there currently isn't a picture, let me describe myself: I'm 5'10", with a bit wider build structurally and an average body, where as I'm currently working towards a more slim/athletic build, as far as that's possible. Firm trained legs, a well rounded firm bottom and flat hips. B-cup breasts, but that's planned on changing in the near future ;) A soft feminine, bit more rounded oval face with a softer facial structure, brown/green eyes with a grey accent, long bra strap length hair which through the seasons fluctuates between brown and dark blonde with natural highlights. My every day dress sense is between classical feminine and athletic-comfy. ## For anyone: **DON'T** try to force me into being your Domme. Also, don't be rude and bombard me with honorifics I did not ask for. **DON'T** try and absorb and abuse my time for your own pleasure. **DON'T** force your service onto me. If I'm interested, trust me, I'll let you know. **DO** put in the effort to get to actually know me, what I'm looking for and what my wishes and needs are, as I'll invest my time into you to get to know you. **DO** show why you are worth my time. I'm a very busy person, but I always try to make time for people that show they are worth it. If you are a sub, rope model, pet or little looking for a Domme, Rigger, Owner or Mommy/Caregiver, and are interested in me, come and get to know me! I'm open for new contacts, so let's find out if we would be a good fit for each other. ## Chat #### Before you messsage me: Please put some effort in your messages. Leave your one-liner and empty 'hey', 'hi', 'you alright' at the door. Those will most likely be ignored or at most be answered in a very short and distanced manner. EN or NL. I'm very openminded, can be sweet and soft, but can also hard, stern and dominant. Send me a message and find out which side of me you will bring up. #### Results from bdsmtest.org (05-01-'22) 1. **87% Dominant** 2. **86% Rigger** 3. **85% Owner** 4. **85% Mommy** 5. **84% Experimentalist** 6. **76% Mistress** 7. **73% Voyeur** 8. **70% Sadist** 9. **65% Brat tamer** 10. **64% Non-monogamist** 11. *51% Primal (Hunter)* 12. *49% Vanilla* 13. *49% Switch* 14. *22% Masochist* 15. *21% Exhibitionist* 16. *11% Submissive* 17. *9% Pet* 18. *8% Degrader* 19. *0% Brat* 20. *0% Primal (Prey)* 21. *0% Girl* 22. *0% Rope bunny* 23. *0% Degradee* 24. *0% Slave* 25. *0% Ageplayer*
Female (29) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Hey! I am very new to the fetish world and would love to explore all about it! I've read quite a bit about kinks and the scene so I definitely have some knowledge but no experience and my goal is to change that :)) Definitely leaning into the submissive side of things and also heavily into older man♡
Female (25) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Here to explore BDSM with fellow deviants. I'm a rope bunny, princess and brat. will you be able to handle me?
Female (37) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
heyya! I am an introverted anime lover who also enjoys travel. Although I feel very comfy in my bed watching anime I really love to travel and go hiking (slowly XD). I wanna meet someone who wants a serious relationship and will binge anime and go on the occasional hike with me or just walk around a park. to shy to send the first message
Female (18) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
I am looking for am dominant/ caregiver in real life. Online doesnt work for me because i feel like it isnt serious enough like I can be a brat but they cant punish me. It takes the thrill away (for me). I like texting but I tend to go into periods where I have limited energy and I would like to have someone (a caregiver) so help me with that. In those periods I neglect myself and everyone around me. that and I am not interester in men older than 26
Female (19) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Im not searching anymore.. But like minded people can write! I have an open relationship. My partner is fully aware of what im doing. I expect this also from you. I dont like to do things in hiding. Personally i dont have a mommy fetish so be aware of the age difference. Note: with only saying hi to me, you don't trigger me to respond. Niet meer op zoek... Maar gelijkgestemden kunnen altijd schrijven. Ik heb een open relatie waarbij mijn partner volledig op de hoogte is, dit verwacht ik ook van jou. Ik hou niet van stiekem doen. Persoonlijk heb ik geen mamma fetish, kijk alsjeblieft een beetje naar het leeftijdsverschil. Een tip: met alleen hoi zeggen word ik niet getriggerd om te reageren.
Female (50) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
i’ve been out of the game for a while so i wanna meet new handsome people to have fun with! i am not dominant more submissive but not in a extreme way and i like it more vanilla but i need a men that takes the lead.
Female (25) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Brazilian doctor living in Brazil. I move my app location around to meet different people that are far from home. I'm a switch. Openly married. Curvy. Looking for an online playful, trusting and meaningful relationship with another switch or a female sub. Meeting in person is not out of question. I don't appreciate being approached disrespectfully. I believe submission is a gift to be earned, not the other way around.
Female (39) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Newbie trying to figure things out. The BDSM test says I am mostly a brat and I could relate. I like being dominated respectfully and preyed on like I am the ultimate prize. Also like to be spoiled with attention, gifts and love like a princess (but don’t be desperate). Big sucker for a (sigma) leader with sensuality and passion. However, also love to get a bit of control back and tease here and there. Love to act immature and innocent. In everyday life an independent and intelligent, yet emotionally unstable and strongly coping lady that loves a luxury lifestyle and collecting experiences. It would be nice if I don’t have to (pretend) to be strong and can transfer my power, receive care, be clingy and needy. If i were to take a guess, I am 80% into praising kinks, 20% degrading kinks. For myself I am kinda demisexual so appreciate being charmed and building an emotional connection first.
Female (29) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland

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