Keywords: Free use, service sub, couples, recurring/ steady playmates
An oddly specific fantasy I would love to fullfill in real life:
You = a couple (mf, mm, ff, or polycule, or friends, anything works as long as we all vibe) preferably older than me, social clean respectful and above all adventurous. You love to get indulged, being in control, pampering someone who makes you feel like they deserve to be pampered in whatever way that feels natural to you.
Me = A bit of a slut. Feminine, submissive people pleaser. I want to feel exhaustingly, suffocatingly desired, and I am willing to tease&please to make it happen. I want to have an extended, relaxed free use session maybe for one weekend or so, where I am your house keeper gardener cook cleaner service girl sex object. I want to be casually used without necessarily being addressed beyond simple instructions. Maybe I am wearing headphones and can't even hear. I will cook all meals for you, perform light house work as requested, perhaps even entertain your guests, all in platform stilettos, apron, tiny tiny skirt, a collar & chain, possibly some amount of restraints, rope harnesses etc. Between the various tasks you appoint me, am hoping to give oral for hours, to get bent over and taken as it pleases (love being topped by women too!), perhaps I will simply do some stretches in my down time or play with my own ropes, fuck your neighbour chat with random people online (I would love to live stream something like this!), watching porn and playing with myself, and so on. Maybe you bring me to a party (and after!!), or any other event, to a location or an activity, for drinks at your local or for a walk in the city center. Perhaps you want to take me shopping for a specific outfit you want me to wear, or toys that you'd like to use with me. There's also version of this that turns me on more than I care to admit - We pretend that neither of you knows that I am sleeping with one (or both, or all..) of you, so essentially roleplaying you cheating on each other with me. This could play out in many dynamics, perhaps one of you is into cnc and ***s their self on me, while the other one is really into big asses and gets seduced by me, perhaps we are found out by one of you walking in on us in the middle of it, or as a result of "risky" sex, or whatever else, this could include for example cuckold type play etc...

BDSM Play Partner18 to 79 years ● 140km around Netherlands 's-Hertogenbosch

Hi there, thanks for reading my ad.
The title already says a lot. The primary things I'm looking for are:
A smart ass who likes discussing ideas as much as I do and
A Godess who complements my desire for worship.

For the first point:

I'm a huge nerd (1,91m to be exact) who gets a lot of energy from exploring ideas. I have a wide range of interests, ranging from philosophy to science to plans for world domination. I occasionally stumble across women with a similar mindset, but I haven't had the luck of dating one long-term yet. It would be great if I could meet someone with a strong sense of curiosity for dating, friendship, or networking through this ad.

For the second point:
After doing a bit of soul-searching in the BDSM scene, I feel like the label "worshipper" resonates most with what I desire. Basically, I want to spoil you and make you comfortable while you act like a sadistic diva.

I suppose my username already betrays my main kink. I've had a major facesitting fetish for as long as I remember. I came to Fetish.com to meet a girl with the same kink. From what I've seen on this website, there's a pretty major oversupply for guys like me. I would like to address the main complaints I've been reading about.

1: I'm not just here to "scratch my itch". I've already had my first experiences with my kink, and I don't see you as a kink-dispenser. I'd love to focus on your kinks as well as my own.
2: While I'm new, I'm no coward. It sounds like many men on here are just living their fantasies online. If we are compatible, I intend to meet in real life. I've already done so before.
"Stupid risks make life worth living."
3: I don't mind taking it slow. You set the pace for how quickly you want to move the conversation towards the sexual/kinky. I'll respect your boundaries.

For the unsaid points

As for the rest of my kinky mind, I'm open to trying a lot. I'd like to put my potential play partner's wishes above my own, so it's hard to define exactly what else I want. This may be a bit vague, but I consider myself very flexible, as few things are set in stone for me. I do have some limits, which are listed in my bio. Feel free to ask me for a more detailed account.

Do you recognize yourself in either point? Please get in touch, and let's see where things go.
Do you recognize yourself in both points? Please spit out whatever you were drinking, drop everything you're doing, and send me a frenzied DM as soon as possible ;-)

Update as of 11-1-2026: I'm considering taking a vacation somewhere in Europe. I haven't decided on the location yet, but I'm thinking about picking the location based on where I find a great match. So feel free to reply from anywhere on the continent if this ad piques your interest.

I'm able to host.
Ook beschikbaar in Nederlands.
FL account: RelaxedDevotion

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