Dutch translation, please scroll down.
For a week now, a fantastic woman has taken me under Her wing to teach me to identify my true feelings. A lot has already happened, and I'm really starting to turn into a slut in terms of my feelings. A true bimbo. A pure sex toy who is no longer focused on her own pleasure and orgasms. I wear a cage permanently and have to justify myself regularly. We also buy lingerie and women's clothes together. She then goes online with me to the women's store, or we order something online together. But above all, She is educating and guiding me, bringing me back to the origins of my life and my feelings. A very exciting, yet satisfying, and beautiful journey. I feel completely at ease with Her. I'm lucky that She found me and wants to educate, guide, and train me. It will be a very long process, but eventually I will be ready for it. I'm really starting to long for it.

She also wants me to seek out others who can and want to help me further in this process in real life, even though I still need to be patient because I'm not there yet. And of course, I have to present those requests and invitations to Her. I still have a mind of my own, and that space is welcome. I can express what I want, but I'm no longer in charge. I've voluntarily surrendered myself to her wisdom, love, and nurturing.

So if you're interested in me as a sissy, feel free to send me a message. If you'd like to follow me, feel free.

(Bi)subs are also very welcome to respond.

Nederlands
Sinds een week heeft een fantastische vrouw mij onder Haar hoede genomen om mij te leren kijken waar mijn gevoelens echt liggen. Daarin is al heel veel gebeurd en begin ik qua gevoelens al echt te veranderen in een sletje. Een echte bimbo. Een pure sextoy die niet meer met haar eigen plezier en orgasmes bezig is. Ik draag permanent een kooitje en moet mij regelmatig verantwoorden. Ook kopen wij samen lingerie en dameskleren voor mij. Zij gaat dan online met mij de dameswinkel in of we bestellen samen iets online. Maar Zij is mij vooral aan het opvoeden en begeleiden en mij terug aan het brengen naar de oorsprong van mijn leven en mijn gevoel. Een zeer spannende maar bevredigende en mooie reis. Ik voel mij volledig op mijin gemak bij Haar. Ik heb geluk dat Ze mij gevonden heeft en mij wil opvoeden, begeleiden en trainen. Dat wordt een heel langdurig traject maar uiteindelijk zal ik er klaar voor zijn. Ik begin er dan ook al echt naar te verlangen.

Ze wil ook dat ik op zoek ga naar anderen die mij in dit proces in real life verder kunnen en willen helpen ook al moet ik daar nog geduld in hebben want zover ben ik nog niet. En uiteraard moet ik dat aan Haar voorleggen. Ik heb nog wel een eigen wil en die ruimte mag er zijn en wat ik wil mag ik aangeven maar ik ga daar niet meer over. Ik heb me vrijwillig overgeleverd aan haar wijsheid, liefde en opvoeding.

Hi there, thanks for reading my ad.
The title already says a lot. The primary things I'm looking for are:
A smart ass who likes discussing ideas as much as I do and
A Godess who complements my desire for worship.

For the first point:

I'm a huge nerd (1,91m to be exact) who gets a lot of energy from exploring ideas. I have a wide range of interests, ranging from philosophy to science to plans for world domination. I occasionally stumble across women with a similar mindset, but I haven't had the luck of dating one long-term yet. It would be great if I could meet someone with a strong sense of curiosity for dating, friendship, or networking through this ad.

For the second point:
After doing a bit of soul-searching in the BDSM scene, I feel like the label "worshipper" resonates most with what I desire. Basically, I want to spoil you and make you comfortable while you act like a sadistic diva.

I suppose my username already betrays my main kink. I've had a major facesitting fetish for as long as I remember. I came to Fetish.com to meet a girl with the same kink. From what I've seen on this website, there's a pretty major oversupply for guys like me. I would like to address the main complaints I've been reading about.

1: I'm not just here to "scratch my itch". I've already had my first experiences with my kink, and I don't see you as a kink-dispenser. I'd love to focus on your kinks as well as my own.
2: While I'm new, I'm no coward. It sounds like many men on here are just living their fantasies online. If we are compatible, I intend to meet in real life. I've already done so before.
"Stupid risks make life worth living."
3: I don't mind taking it slow. You set the pace for how quickly you want to move the conversation towards the sexual/kinky. I'll respect your boundaries.

For the unsaid points

As for the rest of my kinky mind, I'm open to trying a lot. I'd like to put my potential play partner's wishes above my own, so it's hard to define exactly what else I want. This may be a bit vague, but I consider myself very flexible, as few things are set in stone for me. I do have some limits, which are listed in my bio. Feel free to ask me for a more detailed account.

Do you recognize yourself in either point? Please get in touch, and let's see where things go.
Do you recognize yourself in both points? Please spit out whatever you were drinking, drop everything you're doing, and send me a frenzied DM as soon as possible ;-)

Update as of 11-1-2026: I'm considering taking a vacation somewhere in Europe. I haven't decided on the location yet, but I'm thinking about picking the location based on where I find a great match. So feel free to reply from anywhere on the continent if this ad piques your interest.

I'm able to host.
Ook beschikbaar in Nederlands.
FL account: RelaxedDevotion

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