Kinky women in New Zealand

Ya'll, I am a demi-sexual. I will not reply to messages asking about my prefences. I sure as hell don't mind a nice compliment but I delete the majority of messages I get. Side note: If I get any more DM's starting with "Hey" I may very well jump off a cliff. Broaden your vocabulary and get back to me then.

Not really sure what to put? My DM's always open to friendly conversations : ) But if you're reading this, please note; I am autistic and subtext is not my strong suit so I may not always understand what you mean.

Mistress looking for a fetish relationship with a submissive.Mistress into Spanking,collar,pegs,gags,chastity,plugs,foot-worship,face-sitting and many more.

Honestly I just wanna have some fun and experience some of my kinks. But more then anything I do want a Daddy to take care of me. I really hate to make my own decisions for the most part. But at the end of the day I just want someone who is willing to have some fun with me I also have a master who lets me play with others, with his knowledge of everything of course xx

Inexperienced lesbian looking for someone to teach me 👀

I’m seeking a submissive who craves direction, thrives under structure, and finds fulfillment in service, devotion, and the beautiful complexities of D/s dynamics.

I'm looking to explore and experiment, I don't have much experience in this community but I tend to follow my curiosity hence why I'm here. I like the idea of powerplay (taking it or losing it), I think I would be a switch--and if I were a sub I'd definitely be bratty. Teach me a few things and we can put it to practice. I'd love to have a mentor. Message me and maybe we can get to know each other?

I am the most honest and open person you ever met. I am the most sincere and positive, open-minded, hot, and passionate woman for one man). My goal is to find true love and create a harmonious relationship! My heart is full of emotions that I want to share. I believe that we make happiness ourselves! My nature is optimistic, tender and joyful! I live positively and always try to keep a smile on my lips.

Hey there! So I figured out I’m continually evolving…as we should be! Still relatively new, with lots to learn and navigate. New moods, new kinks, new lessons. So this profile prob changes as often as I do. Push me. Tease me. Test me. Make me beg. Tie me up, take control, and let the sting of impact remind me who owns me in the moment. I adore the quiet tension of a good flirt. I might be shy at first, but if the vibe is there, I’m all in. Natural chemistry is everything. Respect, trust, and clear communication are non-negotiable. Be real, show up, and don’t waste my time. Privacy matters. My space, my pace. Not here for just sex. If you can’t offer more ..as in connection, creativity, and actual effort..keep scrolling. 🖤 Bondage + impact play 🖤 Edging & orgasm control 🖤 Threesomes 🖤 Wax play 🖤 Exploring with Woman Things I’d like to explore… • Group fun (Bi MMF especially) • Pegging (there might be a little switch hidden in me) • Attending an event CP 🎀 x

have been in the lifestyle for a good while and naturally submissive. dm me if you have any questions. communication is a must

Hi I a experienced female cuckquean slave whore from auckland new Zealand. Luv role-playing, ***, ***, cnc corruption, worship, mantras, more hardcore stuff. I am owned by my King..

> # **♥ About Me ♥** Chubby girl with **36** years old, living in a new country with no friends and with nothing better to do than take pictures of myself to boost my low steem and get in the way of loving the only body i have. #### **♥ What i like & Love ♥** I love to play videogames, watch films/tv shows, go out for lunch/dinner, i don't cook, i'm active and horny all time 24/7, i dress comfortable nothing fancy and i love being spoiled a lot. > #### **♥ My Links / Follow them ♥** *♥ Uplust - Posts everyday ♥* [https://uplust.com/soulseeker] *♥ *** / X - more active + posts everyday ♥* [https://x.com/seeker_voyager] *♥ Fetlife - Posts everyday ♥* [https://fetlife.com/users/6357242] ♥ Paypal ♥ [https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/SoulSeekerGalaxyVoya] Follow me in all of them ;) Thank you very much, lots of kisses and licks in your pussy/cock/ass

Things keep changing and i want to try abit of everything. But I want to be spoiled like a sugar baby and treated like a freak in the sheets💋 Any sugar daddy honeys around 😏😘

Petite Blonde Sub-Pony Seeking Experienced, Caring Handler I'm relatively new to the BDSM community and can be quite shy and even trembly at first, with guide&praise I become a (sometimes bratty) obedient submissive who delights in pleasing and being pleased. I'm looking for a confident, experienced, and caring dominant to guide me in exploring my kinks and discovering new ones. I crave a dynamic that balances intimacy with elements of ***, where earned affection and thoughtful aftercare are integral. I have a particular interest in consensual non-consent, sexy talk, being belted but also being sensually touched, & kissed.. . I have had one short term Dom/handler/owner. I recently discovered pony play, &, look forward to exploring this more. Hence the name Champette(petite champagne pony in training) I come equipped with my own belt & tail, enjoying being petted, ridden, and broken in. While I can be skittish initially, I warm up with patience and care, eager to be molded into the perfect pony through the right mix of praise and discipline. I'm definately a sub I wouldn't mind trying to switch as I get more comfortable. Im also interested in group play and just meeting like-minded people in the community😁💃

Hello ~ Ruin me not my schedule and fuck around and find out since you don't wanna read a whole book about me smh... hehe xoxo Maybe I work here a little, but you'll get me the most on f*tlife ~

I am new to exploring kinks but have been wanting to experience these for many years. I love the idea of not being in control, to get out of my headspace and not worry about anything, to have someone else decide when, and how, I receive pleasure. I want to be completely overwhelmed by sensations and their dominance as I’ve never had an orgasm with a partner because I can’t let go enough to fully be in the moment. Light bondage. Toys. D/s curious. Sensation play. Spanking? Edging? Vaginal fisting? Must truely enjoy plus-sized women.

I am looking for a man who wants to have a serious relationship. He dreams of family holidays and a beautiful joint cozy quiet life together. I am looking for a man who will be my strong shoulder. I am dreaming to find a man who I can rely on. I am absolutely ready to move to another country and I hope to do that very soon.

# **_Hello Beloved Wildlings_**, 〰️➰〰️ # PROLOGUE Ant¡Z¡on¡st, ProPalest¡ne Connections/People Only. MEN: Tall, Handsome, Hung (Scotsmen/Irishmen/TangataWhenua/ProgressiveArabicMen to the Front) # DISCLAIMER: Before engaging with me, consider this Disclosure-- **I’m predominantly and primarily on FET because I'm ready for my life partner/King/Daddy Dom to find me**. Finding/attending events and the making of good platonic friends, networking, community, is deeply welcomed and needed too, as is being in service for people who want to be clients because they need my the***utic services. _I am uninterested and unavailable for "Takeaway"/Casual Interactions/Connections._ **YES** ✅ _**Conscious Dating/Courtship/Flirting/Intentional Connections/Networking/Community/Platonic Friendships**_ **NO** ❌ **NSA/ONS/Cybersex/Casual Connections/Couples** ❌ submissive men [_for any kind of *personal* contexts/connections_] If your interest/search &/or identity is any of the: “❌”s above, then this is not the connection for you, and I am not the person you're looking for. “✅“ above, then You're welcome to continue reading my profile below, and to connect with me otherwise. 〰️➰〰️ # MOI: Kinky/Tantric/Spiritual/Witchy/Progressive af, **and**, an Old School Romantic+Protocol Lover who needs intentional Relationship Polarity in my partnership. Progressive Left Libertarian. ProChoice Af *across the board* Creative. Nerd. Intuitive. Performer [Actor/Singer/Dancer]. Spiritual. Flirt Sensitive, Strong, Sweet, Sassy, Smart, Seer, Spoiled. Fierce as I am Tender, Compassionate as I am 'Judgmental" LOVER of the arts, good food, music, dancing, theatre shows, musicals, books/reading, romance, words/language, science, communing with/in nature, tech, sex, festivals, flirting, holistic medicine, kink, beaches, water, epigenetics, social justice. Emotionally Polyamorous + Sexually Selective/Monogamous/ish. PRINCIPLES+FOUNDATIONS: Truth, Authenticity, Attunement, Integrity, Devotion, Conscious Communication, *Human Design *[being Recognised/Seen + Invited are my staples of connection+relating]. 〰️➰〰️ #BDSM ~ is **Sacred** to me, and an inherent part of who and how I am. ~ For many kink/BDSM is limited to bedrooms/sex/dungeons/attire, and/or that begins with that/them. For me, it begins ZoomedAllTheWayOut; from the energy, polarity, intention, tension, conduction, between people, sometimes even before words are uttered, followed by the threads of connection, play, and dancing that ensues. That's how the best fires start, and how we keep them burning. Whether the fires we're playing with have what it takes to be 'serious', and worthy of commitment however, is a different matter. That depends on desire and intention of all parties involved, alignment, and what's created to seed safety, trust, and integrity, especially but not exclusively, by the Dom/Top/LeftSideOfTheSlash. ~ Weaving threads of polarity/BDSM/Tantra throughout, not just scenes, but the entirety of a dynamic/relationship, is where it's at for it, and IMO, makes a dynamic (and the people in it) thrive. ~ Exploring/finding/getting curious about new and/or deeper ways to dance and play, keeps relationships alive. This makes all the more sense when we consider that Kink is only one of the ways that we plug into intimacy/turn on; eg. 5 Erotic Blueprints (Energy, Sensuality, Kink, Sex, Shapeshifting), Tantra. 〰️➰〰️ Where I identify and exist on the vast, rich, multitudinous spectrum of kink and BDSM these days, isn't something I could have foreseen, when I happened upon it by accident, in glimpses here and there, almost 20 years ago. Nor could I have imagined the evolution of the journey I would go on, from what I was into, to why, and how that would expand, deepen, shift, and/or change completely. It's fascinating to me to also notice, what's "stayed the same". _If I was to use generic words I'd say_, I'm a **switch** (_sub preferring/leaning_), **sadomasochist**, **depth player**. _If I was to describe how my energy authentically shows up in personal relationships_, I'd say that predominantly: --with men/masc folk, I need to be in my yin; in the 'feminine pole', and the **s** aspects of my being --with women/fem folk, I go into yang; hold the masc pole, and the D sides of me take over [see #RelationshipPolarity] _If I was to describe the facets of,_ ~ my **s** side, I would use words like: devotional, dedicated, detailed, loyal sub, #SuperSub, service, shy, greedy, prey, #DDLg, Lana Del Rey, Lolita, Brat, Spoiled Princess ~my D side depends on whether the context is personal or professional, as those versions are very different to one another #Mistress #Goddess #Sir # [PLEASE NOTE: the only context in which the D side of me is currently available, is Professionally.] 〰️➰〰️ #ON FET: — Personally, I’m here for my life partner/King/DD to find me, as well as for good friends, networking, and community :tada: — Professionally, you may enquire about -> The***utic services (Trauma Informed, Somatic, Attachment Therapy & Coaching in Sex, Love, and Relationships) — Both Personally & Professionally, an ever evolving, interactive, and curated Wish List, is available for anyone it may interest, be your pleasure spoiling me &/or yourself 〰️➰〰️ 〰️➰〰️ #LAST WORDS: ~Witnessing & Receiving Vulnerability is a Privilege ~Submission is not entitled, it's earned. Not once, over and over. ~Courage is following and honouring _**What's True**_, in any given moment, not the 'plan', not 'shoulds', not conditioning, expectations, niceties, or obligation- but What's True/Correct/Alive. Integrity is how we implement it. BRAVING, (as per Brené Brown) is our foundational OS (operating system) _**As wild as I am romantic, as spiritual as I am kinky.**_ _Love Yourselves_, ~ B

looking for a beautiful lady to come share my bed and explore each others bodies . love to become fwb or just keen to be a little naughty with me and my husband??

Easy going playful couple keen to meet fun open minded people Looking to meet other couples or singles Always ready for an adventure Total nature lovers Love to curl up with a good book We play together Let’s grab a drink and make out 30M 6.7ft 29F 5.2ft

On a journey to discover what turns curiosity into passion. Not rushing, just exploring, and open to meeting people who appreciate good conversation, mutual respect, and shared experiences

kinks: cnc somno free use breeding praise older men orgasm control basically anything where I’m not in control and probably a whole lot more

Quiet, reserved, kind of shy but very curious. I love to learn new things therefore I am always watching documentaries and reading. I enjoy good series and movies, especially sci-fi, fantasy, thrillers and adventure. I also enjoy learning about history. For me intelligence is a must. I respect someone who respects me. With me trust is definitely something that needs to be earned... I am new to the scene thrust inexperienced.

Hey kittens ✨ looking to explore new things and need a teacher ?

Ya'll, I am a demi-sexual. I will not reply to messages asking about my prefences. I sure as hell don't mind a nice compliment but I delete the majority of messages I get. Side note: If I get any more DM's starting with "Hey" I may very well jump off a cliff. Broaden your vocabulary and get back to me then.

Not really sure what to put? My DM's always open to friendly conversations : ) But if you're reading this, please note; I am autistic and subtext is not my strong suit so I may not always understand what you mean.

I am new to exploring kinks but have been wanting to experience these for many years. I love the idea of not being in control, to get out of my headspace and not worry about anything, to have someone else decide when, and how, I receive pleasure. I want to be completely overwhelmed by sensations and their dominance as I’ve never had an orgasm with a partner because I can’t let go enough to fully be in the moment. Light bondage. Toys. D/s curious. Sensation play. Spanking? Edging? Vaginal fisting? Must truely enjoy plus-sized women.

Hi I a experienced female cuckquean slave whore from auckland new Zealand. Luv role-playing, ***, ***, cnc corruption, worship, mantras, more hardcore stuff. I am owned by my King..

Inexperienced lesbian looking for someone to teach me 👀

Hey there! So I figured out I’m continually evolving…as we should be! Still relatively new, with lots to learn and navigate. New moods, new kinks, new lessons. So this profile prob changes as often as I do. Push me. Tease me. Test me. Make me beg. Tie me up, take control, and let the sting of impact remind me who owns me in the moment. I adore the quiet tension of a good flirt. I might be shy at first, but if the vibe is there, I’m all in. Natural chemistry is everything. Respect, trust, and clear communication are non-negotiable. Be real, show up, and don’t waste my time. Privacy matters. My space, my pace. Not here for just sex. If you can’t offer more ..as in connection, creativity, and actual effort..keep scrolling. 🖤 Bondage + impact play 🖤 Edging & orgasm control 🖤 Threesomes 🖤 Wax play 🖤 Exploring with Woman Things I’d like to explore… • Group fun (Bi MMF especially) • Pegging (there might be a little switch hidden in me) • Attending an event CP 🎀 x

I am looking for a man who wants to have a serious relationship. He dreams of family holidays and a beautiful joint cozy quiet life together. I am looking for a man who will be my strong shoulder. I am dreaming to find a man who I can rely on. I am absolutely ready to move to another country and I hope to do that very soon.

Hello ~ Ruin me not my schedule and fuck around and find out since you don't wanna read a whole book about me smh... hehe xoxo Maybe I work here a little, but you'll get me the most on f*tlife ~

I’m seeking a submissive who craves direction, thrives under structure, and finds fulfillment in service, devotion, and the beautiful complexities of D/s dynamics.

Petite Blonde Sub-Pony Seeking Experienced, Caring Handler I'm relatively new to the BDSM community and can be quite shy and even trembly at first, with guide&praise I become a (sometimes bratty) obedient submissive who delights in pleasing and being pleased. I'm looking for a confident, experienced, and caring dominant to guide me in exploring my kinks and discovering new ones. I crave a dynamic that balances intimacy with elements of ***, where earned affection and thoughtful aftercare are integral. I have a particular interest in consensual non-consent, sexy talk, being belted but also being sensually touched, & kissed.. . I have had one short term Dom/handler/owner. I recently discovered pony play, &, look forward to exploring this more. Hence the name Champette(petite champagne pony in training) I come equipped with my own belt & tail, enjoying being petted, ridden, and broken in. While I can be skittish initially, I warm up with patience and care, eager to be molded into the perfect pony through the right mix of praise and discipline. I'm definately a sub I wouldn't mind trying to switch as I get more comfortable. Im also interested in group play and just meeting like-minded people in the community😁💃

Things keep changing and i want to try abit of everything. But I want to be spoiled like a sugar baby and treated like a freak in the sheets💋 Any sugar daddy honeys around 😏😘

I am the most honest and open person you ever met. I am the most sincere and positive, open-minded, hot, and passionate woman for one man). My goal is to find true love and create a harmonious relationship! My heart is full of emotions that I want to share. I believe that we make happiness ourselves! My nature is optimistic, tender and joyful! I live positively and always try to keep a smile on my lips.

Honestly I just wanna have some fun and experience some of my kinks. But more then anything I do want a Daddy to take care of me. I really hate to make my own decisions for the most part. But at the end of the day I just want someone who is willing to have some fun with me I also have a master who lets me play with others, with his knowledge of everything of course xx

Mistress looking for a fetish relationship with a submissive.Mistress into Spanking,collar,pegs,gags,chastity,plugs,foot-worship,face-sitting and many more.

> # **♥ About Me ♥** Chubby girl with **36** years old, living in a new country with no friends and with nothing better to do than take pictures of myself to boost my low steem and get in the way of loving the only body i have. #### **♥ What i like & Love ♥** I love to play videogames, watch films/tv shows, go out for lunch/dinner, i don't cook, i'm active and horny all time 24/7, i dress comfortable nothing fancy and i love being spoiled a lot. > #### **♥ My Links / Follow them ♥** *♥ Uplust - Posts everyday ♥* [https://uplust.com/soulseeker] *♥ *** / X - more active + posts everyday ♥* [https://x.com/seeker_voyager] *♥ Fetlife - Posts everyday ♥* [https://fetlife.com/users/6357242] ♥ Paypal ♥ [https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/SoulSeekerGalaxyVoya] Follow me in all of them ;) Thank you very much, lots of kisses and licks in your pussy/cock/ass

I'm looking to explore and experiment, I don't have much experience in this community but I tend to follow my curiosity hence why I'm here. I like the idea of powerplay (taking it or losing it), I think I would be a switch--and if I were a sub I'd definitely be bratty. Teach me a few things and we can put it to practice. I'd love to have a mentor. Message me and maybe we can get to know each other?

have been in the lifestyle for a good while and naturally submissive. dm me if you have any questions. communication is a must

Quiet, reserved, kind of shy but very curious. I love to learn new things therefore I am always watching documentaries and reading. I enjoy good series and movies, especially sci-fi, fantasy, thrillers and adventure. I also enjoy learning about history. For me intelligence is a must. I respect someone who respects me. With me trust is definitely something that needs to be earned... I am new to the scene thrust inexperienced.

On a journey to discover what turns curiosity into passion. Not rushing, just exploring, and open to meeting people who appreciate good conversation, mutual respect, and shared experiences

I have no idea how this all works, navigating through it at a snails pace. Rediscovering my love for physical attention.😈 Curious but shy. Being brave cos I have to, it nesseccary to move fwd & experience these thoughts & fantasies become reality.

French, curious and romantic submissive, just starting to explore the kink world. Looking for respectful and genuine connections — open to kinky dates but ultimately hoping for a real, long-term relationship. Still learning the English (and kink!) vocabulary, so expect a few cute mistakes and lots of honesty. Consent, trust and communication matter to me.

Single, looking for experiences outside of the norm. Very friendly and down to earth so reach out and say hello. Recently moved from Australia 🦘

Keen to explore after spending far too long in a vanilla relationship looking for a gentleman dom and someone who enjoys giving enthusiastic oral not interested in photo swaps or long distance chats. I’d rather meet up.

32 woman looking for someone who can handle almost total control. There’s not much I would say no too…. I’m needy as anything but I’m also loyal as anything. I take direction well and I’m not afraid to get out and about and do whatever it is that makes you happy. All I ask for is safety and trust built in return. and of course a bit of pleasure…