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Ya'll, I am a demi-sexual. I will not reply to messages asking about my prefences. I sure as hell don't mind a nice compliment but I delete the majority of messages I get. Side note: If I get any more DM's starting with "Hey" I may very well jump off a cliff. Broaden your vocabulary and get back to me then.
Female (20) Fernhill, Otago
have been in the lifestyle for a good while and naturally submissive. dm me if you have any questions. communication is a must
Female (29) Greymouth, West Coast
"Curious soul with a wild side. I value trust, communication, and mutual respect above all. Looking for a dominant partner who can guide me with a firm but caring hand. πŸ’¦πŸ‘»***
Female (25) Auckland Central, Auckland
Hey there! So I figured out I’m continually evolving…as we should be! Still relatively new, with lots to learn and navigate. New moods, new kinks, new lessons. So this profile prob changes as often as I do. Push me. Tease me. Test me. Make me beg. Tie me up, take control, and let the sting of impact remind me who owns me in the moment. I adore the quiet tension of a good flirt. I might be shy at first, but if the vibe is there, I’m all in. Natural chemistry is everything. Respect, trust, and clear communication are non-negotiable. Be real, show up, and don’t waste my time. Privacy matters. My space, my pace. Not here for just sex. If you can’t offer more ..as in connection, creativity, and actual effort..keep scrolling. πŸ–€ Bondage + impact play πŸ–€ Edging & orgasm control πŸ–€ Threesomes πŸ–€ Wax play πŸ–€ Exploring with Woman Things I’d like to explore… β€’ Group fun (Bi MMF especially) β€’ Pegging (there might be a little switch hidden in me) β€’ Attending an event CP πŸŽ€ x
Female (40) Auckland, Auckland
Kia ora I’m here living my best life, and keen to chat with like minded people. I’m in a relationship with @Fathership and we are both discovering what this world has to offer as we travel its many pathways. The photos we post are glimpses of our journey together and how our relationship grows stronger throughout our understanding of ourselves and each other. As stated above I am happy to chat with like minded people but am not looking for anything else If you are tempted to message me be creative as unsolicited photos and one liners are not my glass of whisky. We share our messages and connections so messaging one of us is in fact messaging both of us. I have a aroha (love) of Shibari and model for @Fathership - I am open to more artistic rope modelling. Please note: this is not a play partner experience
Female (50) Napier, Hawke's Bay
Not really sure what to put? My DM's always open to friendly conversations : ) But if you're reading this, please note; I am autistic and subtext is not my strong suit so I may not always understand what you mean.
Female (20) Christchurch, Canterbury
Things keep changing and i want to try abit of everything. But I want to be spoiled like a sugar baby and treated like a freak in the sheetsπŸ’‹ Any sugar daddy honeys around 😏😘
Female (27) Pukekohe, Auckland
I’m seeking a submissive who craves direction, thrives under structure, and finds fulfillment in service, devotion, and the beautiful complexities of D/s dynamics.
Female (35) Auckland, Auckland
Honestly I just wanna have some fun and experience some of my kinks. But more then anything I do want a Daddy to take care of me. I really hate to make my own decisions for the most part. But at the end of the day I just want someone who is willing to have some fun with me I also have a master who lets me play with others, with his knowledge of everything of course xx
Female (27) Paraparaumu, Wellington
I'm looking to explore and experiment, I don't have much experience in this community but I tend to follow my curiosity hence why I'm here. I like the idea of powerplay (taking it or losing it), I think I would be a switch--and if I were a sub I'd definitely be bratty. Teach me a few things and we can put it to practice. I'd love to have a mentor. Message me and maybe we can get to know each other?
Female (23) St Heliers, Auckland
I am the most honest and open person you ever met. I am the most sincere and positive, open-minded, hot, and passionate woman for one man). My goal is to find true love and create a harmonious relationship! My heart is full of emotions that I want to share. I believe that we make happiness ourselves! My nature is optimistic, tender and joyful! I live positively and always try to keep a smile on my lips.
Female (42) Auckland Central, Auckland
Mistress looking for a fetish relationship with a submissive partner.Mistress into Spanking,collar,pegs,gags,chastity,plugs,foot-worship,face-sitting and many more.ONLY!!! submissive man living here in New Zealand.
Female (42) Tauranga, Bay of Plenty
> # **β™₯ About Me β™₯** Chubby girl with **36** years old, living in a new country with no friends and with nothing better to do than take pictures of myself to boost my low steem and get in the way of loving the only body i have. #### **β™₯ What i like & Love β™₯** I love to play videogames, watch films/tv shows, go out for lunch/dinner, i don't cook, i'm active and horny all time 24/7, i dress comfortable nothing fancy and i love being spoiled a lot. > #### **β™₯ My Links / Follow them β™₯** *β™₯ Uplust - Posts everyday β™₯* [https://uplust.com/soulseeker] *β™₯ Twitter / X - more active + posts everyday β™₯* [https://x.com/seeker_voyager] *β™₯ Fetlife - Posts everyday β™₯* [https://fetlife.com/users/6357242] β™₯ Paypal β™₯ [https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/SoulSeekerGalaxyVoya] Follow me in all of them ;) Thank you very much, lots of kisses and licks in your pussy/cock/ass
Female (42) Wellsford, Auckland
I'm new and don't have any experience with BDSM but I have been interested in BDSM for a very long time. I'm open to all new experiences and would like to learn from experienced people to find what my limits are 😊
Female (27) Manukau, Auckland
Hello ~ Ruin me not my schedule and fuck around and find out since you don't wanna read a whole book about me smh... hehe xoxo Maybe I work here a little, but you'll get me the most on f*tlife ~
Female (21) Waikanae, Wellington
Hi I a experienced female cuckquean slave whore from auckland new Zealand. Luv role-playing, ***, ***, cnc corruption, worship, mantras, more hardcore stuff. I am owned by my King..
Female (44) Auckland, Auckland
Petite Blonde Sub-Pony Seeking Experienced, Caring Handler I'm relatively new to the BDSM community and can be quite shy and even trembly at first, with guide&praise I become a (sometimes bratty) obedient submissive who delights in pleasing and being pleased. I'm looking for a confident, experienced, and caring dominant to guide me in exploring my kinks and discovering new ones. I crave a dynamic that balances intimacy with elements of ***, where earned affection and thoughtful aftercare are integral. I have a particular interest in consensual non-consent, sexy talk, being belted but also being sensually touched, & kissed.. . I have had one short term Dom/handler/owner. I recently discovered pony play, &, look forward to exploring this more. Hence the name Champette(petite champagne pony in training) I come equipped with my own belt & tail, enjoying being petted, ridden, and broken in. While I can be skittish initially, I warm up with patience and care, eager to be molded into the perfect pony through the right mix of praise and discipline. I'm definately a sub I wouldn't mind trying to switch as I get more comfortable. Im also interested in group play and just meeting like-minded people in the communityπŸ˜πŸ’ƒ
Female (36) Auckland, Auckland
Inexperienced lesbian looking for someone to teach me πŸ‘€
Female (22) Otaki, Wellington
I am new to exploring kinks but have been wanting to experience these for many years. I love the idea of not being in control, to get out of my headspace and not worry about anything, to have someone else decide when, and how, I receive pleasure. I want to be completely overwhelmed by sensations and their dominance as I’ve never had an orgasm with a partner because I can’t let go enough to fully be in the moment. Light bondage. Toys. D/s curious. Sensation play. Spanking? Edging? Vaginal fisting? Must truely enjoy plus-sized women.
Female (51) Sockburn, Canterbury
I am looking for a man who wants to have a serious relationship. He dreams of family holidays and a beautiful joint cozy quiet life together. I am looking for a man who will be my strong shoulder. I am dreaming to find a man who I can rely on. I am absolutely ready to move to another country and I hope to do that very soon.
Female (38) Beerescourt, Waikato
Looking for a dom for something more long term . Less likely to reply if you dont have a profile pic 😊 not looking for any one off play online or irl
Female (45) Timaru Central, Canterbury
looking for a beautiful lady to come share my bed and explore each others bodies . love to become fwb or just keen to be a little naughty with me and my husband??
Female (35) Westown, Taranaki
Id say im quite experienced in Master/Sadism and Slave/Masochism dynamics and My Master was and still is amazing and introduced the bdsm world to me fantastically. Im looking for people to chat with about experiences in bdsm.
Submissive brat looking to explore power dynamics, playful control, and new experiences. Open-minded, curious, and a giver by nature. I need confidence, communication, and someone who can handle a little attitude.
Female (26) Birkdale, Auckland

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Ya'll, I am a demi-sexual. I will not reply to messages asking about my prefences. I sure as hell don't mind a nice compliment but I delete the majority of messages I get. Side note: If I get any more DM's starting with "Hey" I may very well jump off a cliff. Broaden your vocabulary and get back to me then.
Female (20) Fernhill, Otago
"Curious soul with a wild side. I value trust, communication, and mutual respect above all. Looking for a dominant partner who can guide me with a firm but caring hand. πŸ’¦πŸ‘»***
Female (25) Auckland Central, Auckland
Not really sure what to put? My DM's always open to friendly conversations : ) But if you're reading this, please note; I am autistic and subtext is not my strong suit so I may not always understand what you mean.
Female (20) Christchurch, Canterbury
I am new to exploring kinks but have been wanting to experience these for many years. I love the idea of not being in control, to get out of my headspace and not worry about anything, to have someone else decide when, and how, I receive pleasure. I want to be completely overwhelmed by sensations and their dominance as I’ve never had an orgasm with a partner because I can’t let go enough to fully be in the moment. Light bondage. Toys. D/s curious. Sensation play. Spanking? Edging? Vaginal fisting? Must truely enjoy plus-sized women.
Female (51) Sockburn, Canterbury
Hi I a experienced female cuckquean slave whore from auckland new Zealand. Luv role-playing, ***, ***, cnc corruption, worship, mantras, more hardcore stuff. I am owned by my King..
Female (44) Auckland, Auckland
Inexperienced lesbian looking for someone to teach me πŸ‘€
Female (22) Otaki, Wellington
Hey there! So I figured out I’m continually evolving…as we should be! Still relatively new, with lots to learn and navigate. New moods, new kinks, new lessons. So this profile prob changes as often as I do. Push me. Tease me. Test me. Make me beg. Tie me up, take control, and let the sting of impact remind me who owns me in the moment. I adore the quiet tension of a good flirt. I might be shy at first, but if the vibe is there, I’m all in. Natural chemistry is everything. Respect, trust, and clear communication are non-negotiable. Be real, show up, and don’t waste my time. Privacy matters. My space, my pace. Not here for just sex. If you can’t offer more ..as in connection, creativity, and actual effort..keep scrolling. πŸ–€ Bondage + impact play πŸ–€ Edging & orgasm control πŸ–€ Threesomes πŸ–€ Wax play πŸ–€ Exploring with Woman Things I’d like to explore… β€’ Group fun (Bi MMF especially) β€’ Pegging (there might be a little switch hidden in me) β€’ Attending an event CP πŸŽ€ x
Female (40) Auckland, Auckland
I am looking for a man who wants to have a serious relationship. He dreams of family holidays and a beautiful joint cozy quiet life together. I am looking for a man who will be my strong shoulder. I am dreaming to find a man who I can rely on. I am absolutely ready to move to another country and I hope to do that very soon.
Female (38) Beerescourt, Waikato
I'm new and don't have any experience with BDSM but I have been interested in BDSM for a very long time. I'm open to all new experiences and would like to learn from experienced people to find what my limits are 😊
Female (27) Manukau, Auckland
Hello ~ Ruin me not my schedule and fuck around and find out since you don't wanna read a whole book about me smh... hehe xoxo Maybe I work here a little, but you'll get me the most on f*tlife ~
Female (21) Waikanae, Wellington
I’m seeking a submissive who craves direction, thrives under structure, and finds fulfillment in service, devotion, and the beautiful complexities of D/s dynamics.
Female (35) Auckland, Auckland
Kia ora I’m here living my best life, and keen to chat with like minded people. I’m in a relationship with @Fathership and we are both discovering what this world has to offer as we travel its many pathways. The photos we post are glimpses of our journey together and how our relationship grows stronger throughout our understanding of ourselves and each other. As stated above I am happy to chat with like minded people but am not looking for anything else If you are tempted to message me be creative as unsolicited photos and one liners are not my glass of whisky. We share our messages and connections so messaging one of us is in fact messaging both of us. I have a aroha (love) of Shibari and model for @Fathership - I am open to more artistic rope modelling. Please note: this is not a play partner experience
Female (50) Napier, Hawke's Bay
Petite Blonde Sub-Pony Seeking Experienced, Caring Handler I'm relatively new to the BDSM community and can be quite shy and even trembly at first, with guide&praise I become a (sometimes bratty) obedient submissive who delights in pleasing and being pleased. I'm looking for a confident, experienced, and caring dominant to guide me in exploring my kinks and discovering new ones. I crave a dynamic that balances intimacy with elements of ***, where earned affection and thoughtful aftercare are integral. I have a particular interest in consensual non-consent, sexy talk, being belted but also being sensually touched, & kissed.. . I have had one short term Dom/handler/owner. I recently discovered pony play, &, look forward to exploring this more. Hence the name Champette(petite champagne pony in training) I come equipped with my own belt & tail, enjoying being petted, ridden, and broken in. While I can be skittish initially, I warm up with patience and care, eager to be molded into the perfect pony through the right mix of praise and discipline. I'm definately a sub I wouldn't mind trying to switch as I get more comfortable. Im also interested in group play and just meeting like-minded people in the communityπŸ˜πŸ’ƒ
Female (36) Auckland, Auckland
Things keep changing and i want to try abit of everything. But I want to be spoiled like a sugar baby and treated like a freak in the sheetsπŸ’‹ Any sugar daddy honeys around 😏😘
Female (27) Pukekohe, Auckland
I am the most honest and open person you ever met. I am the most sincere and positive, open-minded, hot, and passionate woman for one man). My goal is to find true love and create a harmonious relationship! My heart is full of emotions that I want to share. I believe that we make happiness ourselves! My nature is optimistic, tender and joyful! I live positively and always try to keep a smile on my lips.
Female (42) Auckland Central, Auckland
Honestly I just wanna have some fun and experience some of my kinks. But more then anything I do want a Daddy to take care of me. I really hate to make my own decisions for the most part. But at the end of the day I just want someone who is willing to have some fun with me I also have a master who lets me play with others, with his knowledge of everything of course xx
Female (27) Paraparaumu, Wellington
Mistress looking for a fetish relationship with a submissive partner.Mistress into Spanking,collar,pegs,gags,chastity,plugs,foot-worship,face-sitting and many more.ONLY!!! submissive man living here in New Zealand.
Female (42) Tauranga, Bay of Plenty
> # **β™₯ About Me β™₯** Chubby girl with **36** years old, living in a new country with no friends and with nothing better to do than take pictures of myself to boost my low steem and get in the way of loving the only body i have. #### **β™₯ What i like & Love β™₯** I love to play videogames, watch films/tv shows, go out for lunch/dinner, i don't cook, i'm active and horny all time 24/7, i dress comfortable nothing fancy and i love being spoiled a lot. > #### **β™₯ My Links / Follow them β™₯** *β™₯ Uplust - Posts everyday β™₯* [https://uplust.com/soulseeker] *β™₯ Twitter / X - more active + posts everyday β™₯* [https://x.com/seeker_voyager] *β™₯ Fetlife - Posts everyday β™₯* [https://fetlife.com/users/6357242] β™₯ Paypal β™₯ [https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/SoulSeekerGalaxyVoya] Follow me in all of them ;) Thank you very much, lots of kisses and licks in your pussy/cock/ass
Female (42) Wellsford, Auckland
I'm looking to explore and experiment, I don't have much experience in this community but I tend to follow my curiosity hence why I'm here. I like the idea of powerplay (taking it or losing it), I think I would be a switch--and if I were a sub I'd definitely be bratty. Teach me a few things and we can put it to practice. I'd love to have a mentor. Message me and maybe we can get to know each other?
Female (23) St Heliers, Auckland
have been in the lifestyle for a good while and naturally submissive. dm me if you have any questions. communication is a must
Female (29) Greymouth, West Coast
In person girl, looking to for in person adventure. Weekend dates etc.
Female (28) Taupo, Waikato
Book lover who’s interested in her submissive/bratty side. I love reading dark romance if that helps understand what I like but don’t hesitate to ask Masked menπŸ₯΅πŸ§Žβ€β™€οΈ I can’t see who likes me so don’t be afraid to reach out. I’ll be on my knees waiting 🀭
Female (24) Stokes Valley, Wellington
Warm, affectionate and very much in my feminine era. I am a very curvy woman who takes care of herself and enjoys her body exactly as it is. If you are not comfortable with a larger but well maintained woman, we will not be a match. I value connection, chemistry and mutual respect. Some days I crave deep closeness, slow exploration, and to feel completely desired. Other days I want passion with real heat and urgency. FWB or NSA preferred. I have a few old injuries that can make some things a little harder, so patience, attentiveness and emotional intelligence matter to me. In return you will find someone affectionate, curious, playful and present. If you’re kind, confident, comfortable in your skin and know how to enjoy a woman without rushing her or dismissing her, we might get along very well.
Female (50) Roslyn, Otago
if you don’t actually know anything about d/s I will not interact with you. not looking for anything serious UNTIL trust is built and lots of communication about limits has been had also keen for conversations around bdsm even if we don’t connect on certain levels. I love having conversations with like minded people about that kind of stuff.
Female (19) Mokau, Waikato

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