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Ya'll, I am a demi-sexual. I will not reply to messages asking about my prefences. I sure as hell don't mind a nice compliment but I delete the majority of messages I get. Side note: If I get any more DM's starting with "Hey" I may very well jump off a cliff. Broaden your vocabulary and get back to me then.
Female (20) Fernhill, Otago
Not really sure what to put? My DM's always open to friendly conversations : ) But if you're reading this, please note; I am autistic and subtext is not my strong suit so I may not always understand what you mean.
Female (21) Christchurch, Canterbury
Nothing excites me more than pushing boundaries and embracing the thrill of exhibition. I crave the electric rush of being watched, the heat of forbidden eyes, and the playful danger of daring to be bold. With me, every encounter is an adventure in pleasure, curiosity, and unapologetic confidence.
Female (26) Nelson, Nelson
Mistress looking for a fetish relationship with a submissive partner.Mistress into Spanking,collar,pegs,gags,chastity,plugs,foot-worship,face-sitting and many more.ONLY!!! submissive man living here in New Zealand.
Female (42) Tauranga, Bay of Plenty
I'm new and don't have any experience with BDSM but I have been interested in BDSM for a very long time. I'm open to all new experiences and would like to learn from experienced people to find what my limits are 😊
Female (27) Manukau, Auckland
Hi I a experienced female cuckquean slave whore from auckland new Zealand. Luv role-playing, ***, ***, cnc corruption, worship, mantras, more hardcore stuff. I am owned by my King..
Female (44) Auckland, Auckland
"Curious soul with a wild side. I value trust, communication, and mutual respect above all. Looking for a dominant partner who can guide me with a firm but caring hand. 💦👻***
Female (25) Auckland Central, Auckland
✨ Things to know before we begin! ✨🌸 I won't to talk to you if you don't have a face pic or if you won't send me one.🌸 I have zero interest in male diaper wearers.🌸 I'm not poly and I don't like to share.. I have zero interest in men with who have partners.🌸 If you message me, make sure it has more then "hi" in the message. Long messages are my jam. ✨ Currently looking for a Daddy ✨ I'm looking for a pure ddlg relationship, with normal girlfriend/boyfriend aspects. I am not looking for a switch. I am looking for someone dominant and masculine in his role as daddy. Experience with DDLG is preferred. Tattoo's and beards are hot!!!!! Preferred age 35-50. But not a deal breaker. Must be able to travel. ~~~~~~~~~~~🌸💖🍭🎀~~~~~~~~~~~ ✨👋 Introduction 👋✨ Hi, I'm Charlotte! I work full time in a professional setting. After work and on the weekends you can usually find me at home doing things I enjoy and enjoying down time. I like going out and socialising but usually you’ll find me at home. ~~~~~~~~~~~🌸💖🍭🎀~~~~~~~~~~~ I have complex depression and anxiety. Its not my favourite topic, but please know that it’s there. If that’s not something you think you can handle, I’m probably not for you. ~~~~~~~~~~~🌸💖🍭🎀~~~~~~~~~~~ ✨🍦 Vanilla me 🍦✨💖 I love gaming on my pc and switch.💖 I love anything pink!💖 I love reading romance books and finding cute bookshops. I love going for drives in the car (passenger princess 👸) 💖 I love pop, dance and RnB music.💖 Netflix, Amazon Prime and Disney+! Any recommendations, throw my way. ✨🎀 Little me 🎀✨ I have been working on my little-self over the years. I consider myself to be a little princess! It’s a huge part of my personality. You’ll see! 💖 I’m a huge fan of Pixar movies! I love Hello Kitty and My Melody is my favourite character. I am into anything pink, fluffy and soft. I enjoy colouring, organising my stuffies, small ***s, bubble baths and chocolate milk. I love my paci! Most of my stuffies are bunnies and a couple of other ***s! My favourite food is a slice of chocolate cake or *** crackers!
Female (29) Newtown, Wellington
Inexperienced lesbian looking for someone to teach me 👀
Female (22) Otaki, Wellington
Things keep changing and i want to try abit of everything. But I want to be spoiled like a sugar baby and treated like a freak in the sheets💋 Any sugar daddy honeys around 😏😘
Female (27) Pukekohe, Auckland
Hey there! So I figured out I’m continually evolving…as we should be! Still relatively new, with lots to learn and navigate. New moods, new kinks, new lessons. So this profile prob changes as often as I do. Push me. Tease me. Test me. Make me beg. Tie me up, take control, and let the sting of impact remind me who owns me in the moment. I adore the quiet tension of a good flirt. I might be shy at first, but if the vibe is there, I’m all in. Natural chemistry is everything. Respect, trust, and clear communication are non-negotiable. Be real, show up, and don’t waste my time. Privacy matters. My space, my pace. Not here for just sex. If you can’t offer more ..as in connection, creativity, and actual effort..keep scrolling. 🖤 Bondage + impact play 🖤 Edging & orgasm control 🖤 Threesomes 🖤 Wax play 🖤 Exploring with Woman Things I’d like to explore… • Group fun (Bi MMF especially) • Pegging (there might be a little switch hidden in me) • Attending an event CP 🎀 x
Female (40) Auckland, Auckland
have been in the lifestyle for a good while and naturally submissive. dm me if you have any questions. communication is a must, I reserve the right to block any and all asshats
Female (30) Greymouth, West Coast
I'm looking to explore and experiment, I don't have much experience in this community but I tend to follow my curiosity hence why I'm here. I like the idea of powerplay (taking it or losing it), I think I would be a switch--and if I were a sub I'd definitely be bratty. Teach me a few things and we can put it to practice. I'd love to have a mentor. Message me and maybe we can get to know each other?
Female (23) St Heliers, Auckland
Kia ora I’m here living my best life, and keen to chat with like minded people. I’m in a relationship with @Fathership and we are both discovering what this world has to offer as we travel its many pathways. The photos we post are glimpses of our journey together and how our relationship grows stronger throughout our understanding of ourselves and each other. As stated above I am happy to chat with like minded people but am not looking for anything else If you are tempted to message me be creative as unsolicited photos and one liners are not my glass of whisky. We share our messages and connections so messaging one of us is in fact messaging both of us. I have a aroha (love) of Shibari and model for @Fathership - I am open to more artistic rope modelling. Please note: this is not a play partner experience
Female (50) Napier, Hawke's Bay
I am a bbw cougar based in the BOP . We are seeking a regular on going male friend . We want a male who is happy to wank and cum on my pussy lips , boobs and body with my husband. For a start this will be wanking only but will progress to full sex when trust and comfort levels increase. I definitely will be keen on non condom, Fuck me and cum inside me sex eventually 😈😉 We require.. 40 yrs plus in age , non smoking , zero drug use , hygienic, disease free and I will definitely need attraction and chemistry. This may suit a married man who is unsure on cheating as initially it’s not full sex .
Female (52) Rotorua, Bay of Plenty
I am new to exploring kinks but have been wanting to experience these for many years. I love the idea of not being in control, to get out of my headspace and not worry about anything, to have someone else decide when, and how, I receive pleasure. I want to be completely overwhelmed by sensations and their dominance as I’ve never had an orgasm with a partner because I can’t let go enough to fully be in the moment. Light bondage. Toys. D/s curious. Sensation play. Spanking? Edging? Vaginal fisting? Must truely enjoy plus-sized women.
Female (51) Sockburn, Canterbury
I am looking for a man who wants to have a serious relationship. He dreams of family holidays and a beautiful joint cozy quiet life together. I am looking for a man who will be my strong shoulder. I am dreaming to find a man who I can rely on. I am absolutely ready to move to another country and I hope to do that very soon.
Female (38) Beerescourt, Waikato
looking to meet like minded people and interesting conversations
Female (20) Auckland, Auckland
Looking for a dom for something more long term I like Daddy doms an doms that are more on the softer side. please be respectful when messaging I'm looking for connections not straight out sending pics. I like to get to know someone an have actual conversations. reasonably new to this have only had some online experience . Less likely to reply if you dont have a profile pic 😊 not looking for any one off play online or irl
Female (46) Timaru Central, Canterbury
need some spice in my life 👄 very experienced in bed & group play😘 would love to find a dom one day but open to most things! let’s have a chat and go from there 🖤
Female (24) Russley, Canterbury
Edge me til I cry 😖 bit of a chunkier gal if that's what you're into, I enjoy being edged/denial, CNC, ***d orgasms, just to name a few..
Hi i’m at 22 year-old submissive looking for a dominant preferably not online as I’d much prefer to have someone in person. I’m pretty honest and sincere funny and quirky I’d say but you can tell me otherwise if you think I’m any different. 😅
Id say im quite experienced in Master/Sadism and Slave/Masochism dynamics and My Master was and still is amazing and introduced the bdsm world to me fantastically. Im looking for people to chat with about experiences in bdsm.
Redhead with a side of sass and a sprinkle of nerdiness. I work hard, handle the chaos, and deal with stupidity on the daily (so you better be clever). Looking for someone who can keep up with my energy and make me laugh when I'm not rolling my eyes. Relatively new to the BDSM community so mainly curious about what makes me tick.
Female (31) Auckland Central, Auckland

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Ya'll, I am a demi-sexual. I will not reply to messages asking about my prefences. I sure as hell don't mind a nice compliment but I delete the majority of messages I get. Side note: If I get any more DM's starting with "Hey" I may very well jump off a cliff. Broaden your vocabulary and get back to me then.
Female (20) Fernhill, Otago
I am a bbw cougar based in the BOP . We are seeking a regular on going male friend . We want a male who is happy to wank and cum on my pussy lips , boobs and body with my husband. For a start this will be wanking only but will progress to full sex when trust and comfort levels increase. I definitely will be keen on non condom, Fuck me and cum inside me sex eventually 😈😉 We require.. 40 yrs plus in age , non smoking , zero drug use , hygienic, disease free and I will definitely need attraction and chemistry. This may suit a married man who is unsure on cheating as initially it’s not full sex .
Female (52) Rotorua, Bay of Plenty
Nothing excites me more than pushing boundaries and embracing the thrill of exhibition. I crave the electric rush of being watched, the heat of forbidden eyes, and the playful danger of daring to be bold. With me, every encounter is an adventure in pleasure, curiosity, and unapologetic confidence.
Female (26) Nelson, Nelson
looking to meet like minded people and interesting conversations
Female (20) Auckland, Auckland
"Curious soul with a wild side. I value trust, communication, and mutual respect above all. Looking for a dominant partner who can guide me with a firm but caring hand. 💦👻***
Female (25) Auckland Central, Auckland
Not really sure what to put? My DM's always open to friendly conversations : ) But if you're reading this, please note; I am autistic and subtext is not my strong suit so I may not always understand what you mean.
Female (21) Christchurch, Canterbury
I am new to exploring kinks but have been wanting to experience these for many years. I love the idea of not being in control, to get out of my headspace and not worry about anything, to have someone else decide when, and how, I receive pleasure. I want to be completely overwhelmed by sensations and their dominance as I’ve never had an orgasm with a partner because I can’t let go enough to fully be in the moment. Light bondage. Toys. D/s curious. Sensation play. Spanking? Edging? Vaginal fisting? Must truely enjoy plus-sized women.
Female (51) Sockburn, Canterbury
Hi I a experienced female cuckquean slave whore from auckland new Zealand. Luv role-playing, ***, ***, cnc corruption, worship, mantras, more hardcore stuff. I am owned by my King..
Female (44) Auckland, Auckland
Inexperienced lesbian looking for someone to teach me 👀
Female (22) Otaki, Wellington
Hey there! So I figured out I’m continually evolving…as we should be! Still relatively new, with lots to learn and navigate. New moods, new kinks, new lessons. So this profile prob changes as often as I do. Push me. Tease me. Test me. Make me beg. Tie me up, take control, and let the sting of impact remind me who owns me in the moment. I adore the quiet tension of a good flirt. I might be shy at first, but if the vibe is there, I’m all in. Natural chemistry is everything. Respect, trust, and clear communication are non-negotiable. Be real, show up, and don’t waste my time. Privacy matters. My space, my pace. Not here for just sex. If you can’t offer more ..as in connection, creativity, and actual effort..keep scrolling. 🖤 Bondage + impact play 🖤 Edging & orgasm control 🖤 Threesomes 🖤 Wax play 🖤 Exploring with Woman Things I’d like to explore… • Group fun (Bi MMF especially) • Pegging (there might be a little switch hidden in me) • Attending an event CP 🎀 x
Female (40) Auckland, Auckland
I am looking for a man who wants to have a serious relationship. He dreams of family holidays and a beautiful joint cozy quiet life together. I am looking for a man who will be my strong shoulder. I am dreaming to find a man who I can rely on. I am absolutely ready to move to another country and I hope to do that very soon.
Female (38) Beerescourt, Waikato
I'm new and don't have any experience with BDSM but I have been interested in BDSM for a very long time. I'm open to all new experiences and would like to learn from experienced people to find what my limits are 😊
Female (27) Manukau, Auckland
Kia ora I’m here living my best life, and keen to chat with like minded people. I’m in a relationship with @Fathership and we are both discovering what this world has to offer as we travel its many pathways. The photos we post are glimpses of our journey together and how our relationship grows stronger throughout our understanding of ourselves and each other. As stated above I am happy to chat with like minded people but am not looking for anything else If you are tempted to message me be creative as unsolicited photos and one liners are not my glass of whisky. We share our messages and connections so messaging one of us is in fact messaging both of us. I have a aroha (love) of Shibari and model for @Fathership - I am open to more artistic rope modelling. Please note: this is not a play partner experience
Female (50) Napier, Hawke's Bay
Things keep changing and i want to try abit of everything. But I want to be spoiled like a sugar baby and treated like a freak in the sheets💋 Any sugar daddy honeys around 😏😘
Female (27) Pukekohe, Auckland
Mistress looking for a fetish relationship with a submissive partner.Mistress into Spanking,collar,pegs,gags,chastity,plugs,foot-worship,face-sitting and many more.ONLY!!! submissive man living here in New Zealand.
Female (42) Tauranga, Bay of Plenty
✨ Things to know before we begin! ✨🌸 I won't to talk to you if you don't have a face pic or if you won't send me one.🌸 I have zero interest in male diaper wearers.🌸 I'm not poly and I don't like to share.. I have zero interest in men with who have partners.🌸 If you message me, make sure it has more then "hi" in the message. Long messages are my jam. ✨ Currently looking for a Daddy ✨ I'm looking for a pure ddlg relationship, with normal girlfriend/boyfriend aspects. I am not looking for a switch. I am looking for someone dominant and masculine in his role as daddy. Experience with DDLG is preferred. Tattoo's and beards are hot!!!!! Preferred age 35-50. But not a deal breaker. Must be able to travel. ~~~~~~~~~~~🌸💖🍭🎀~~~~~~~~~~~ ✨👋 Introduction 👋✨ Hi, I'm Charlotte! I work full time in a professional setting. After work and on the weekends you can usually find me at home doing things I enjoy and enjoying down time. I like going out and socialising but usually you’ll find me at home. ~~~~~~~~~~~🌸💖🍭🎀~~~~~~~~~~~ I have complex depression and anxiety. Its not my favourite topic, but please know that it’s there. If that’s not something you think you can handle, I’m probably not for you. ~~~~~~~~~~~🌸💖🍭🎀~~~~~~~~~~~ ✨🍦 Vanilla me 🍦✨💖 I love gaming on my pc and switch.💖 I love anything pink!💖 I love reading romance books and finding cute bookshops. I love going for drives in the car (passenger princess 👸) 💖 I love pop, dance and RnB music.💖 Netflix, Amazon Prime and Disney+! Any recommendations, throw my way. ✨🎀 Little me 🎀✨ I have been working on my little-self over the years. I consider myself to be a little princess! It’s a huge part of my personality. You’ll see! 💖 I’m a huge fan of Pixar movies! I love Hello Kitty and My Melody is my favourite character. I am into anything pink, fluffy and soft. I enjoy colouring, organising my stuffies, small ***s, bubble baths and chocolate milk. I love my paci! Most of my stuffies are bunnies and a couple of other ***s! My favourite food is a slice of chocolate cake or *** crackers!
Female (29) Newtown, Wellington
I'm looking to explore and experiment, I don't have much experience in this community but I tend to follow my curiosity hence why I'm here. I like the idea of powerplay (taking it or losing it), I think I would be a switch--and if I were a sub I'd definitely be bratty. Teach me a few things and we can put it to practice. I'd love to have a mentor. Message me and maybe we can get to know each other?
Female (23) St Heliers, Auckland
have been in the lifestyle for a good while and naturally submissive. dm me if you have any questions. communication is a must, I reserve the right to block any and all asshats
Female (30) Greymouth, West Coast
need some spice in my life 👄 very experienced in bed & group play😘 would love to find a dom one day but open to most things! let’s have a chat and go from there 🖤
Female (24) Russley, Canterbury
✨I’m here to learn ✨ 🙈 A little shy at first but a terror once I’m comfortable 😈 *If your first message doesn’t contain a greeting and leads straight into heavy sexual talk please find someone else to message.*
Female (24) Auckland, Auckland
im honestly kinda a sex negative person when it comes down to actually doing it, though I have a lot of fantasys I wanna fulfill someday and most are pretty taboo ngl ABDL, crossdressing, mtfs, hardcore BDSM, ***, ***ing, restraint, pits, latex, ***play, omorashi, asylums, ***, ***, corruption, obsession/dependence, slave/master stuff
Female (18) Auckland Central, Auckland
Just curious and looking for a likeminds to connect to! ☺️ I'm open to talking about interests, experience, and fantasy. 🔯🔮😚🎇💎
Female (30) Auckland, Auckland
I'm pretty shy here still I think but curious. I don't know how to approach this properly. I'm hoping for some chats and happy to get to know each other.
Female (24) Auckland Central, Auckland
Bored. Looking for fun /friends. Trying new things. Meeting different people. Being open to something more than the usual. interested in smart, well read, intellectuals…
Female (59) Featherston, Wellington

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