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Ya'll, I am a demi-sexual. I will not reply to messages asking about my prefences/interess. I sure as hell don't mind a nice compliment but I delete the majority of messages I get. Side note: If I get any more DM's starting with "Hey" I may very well jump off a cliff. Broaden your vocabulary and get back to me then.
Female (20) Fernhill, Otago
Not really sure what to put? My DM's always open to friendly conversations : ) But if you're reading this, please note; I am autistic and subtext is not my strong suit so I may not always understand what you mean.
Female (21) Christchurch, Canterbury
have been in the lifestyle for a good while and naturally submissive. dm me if you have any questions. communication is a must, I reserve the right to block any and all asshats. if you've read my profile and genuinely want to talk, mention blue dragons otherwise conversations stay in chat rooms.
Female (30) Greymouth, West Coast
When it comes to fun, I enjoy a mix of spontaneity and connection whether it's exploring new things out like different cuisines, or simply enjoying a cosy night in with good conversation. I'm looking for someone who can bring a sense of adventure and excitement while also appreciating the moments of intimacy and connection. How about you? What kind of fun do you enjoy?
Female (37) Auckland Central, Auckland
"Curious soul with a wild side. I value trust, communication, and mutual respect above all. Looking for a dominant partner who can guide me with a firm but caring hand. ๐Ÿ’ฆ๐Ÿ‘ป***
Female (25) Auckland Central, Auckland
I'm looking to explore and experiment, I don't have much experience in this community but I tend to follow my curiosity hence why I'm here. I like the idea of powerplay (taking it or losing it), I think I would be a switch--and if I were a sub I'd definitely be bratty. Teach me a few things and we can put it to practice. I'd love to have a mentor. Message me and maybe we can get to know each other?
Female (23) St Heliers, Auckland
Mistress looking for a fetish relationship with a submissive partner.Mistress into Spanking,collar,pegs,gags,chastity,plugs,foot-worship,face-sitting and many more.ONLY!!! submissive man living here in New Zealand.
Female (42) Tauranga, Bay of Plenty
Hi I a experienced female cuckquean slave whore from auckland new Zealand. Luv role-playing, ***, ***, cnc corruption, worship, mantras, more hardcore stuff. I am owned by my King..
Female (45) Auckland, Auckland
I'm new and don't have any experience with BDSM but I have been interested in BDSM for a very long time. I'm open to all new experiences and would like to learn from experienced people to find what my limits are ๐Ÿ˜Š
Female (27) Manukau, Auckland
โœจ Things to know before we begin! โœจ๐ŸŒธ I won't to talk to you if you don't have a face pic or if you won't send me one.๐ŸŒธ I have zero interest in male diaper wearers.๐ŸŒธ I'm not poly and I don't like to share.. I have zero interest in men with who have partners.๐ŸŒธ If you message me, make sure it has more then "hi" in the message. Long messages are my jam. โœจ Currently looking for a Daddy โœจ I'm looking for a pure ddlg relationship, with normal girlfriend/boyfriend aspects. I am not looking for a switch. I am looking for someone dominant and masculine in his role as daddy. Experience with DDLG is preferred. Tattoo's and beards are hot!!!!! Preferred age 35-50. But not a deal breaker. Must be able to travel. ~~~~~~~~~~~๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿญ๐ŸŽ€~~~~~~~~~~~ โœจ๐Ÿ‘‹ Introduction ๐Ÿ‘‹โœจ Hi, I'm Charlotte! I work full time in a professional setting. After work and on the weekends you can usually find me at home doing things I enjoy and enjoying down time. I like going out and socialising but usually youโ€™ll find me at home. ~~~~~~~~~~~๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿญ๐ŸŽ€~~~~~~~~~~~ I have complex depression and anxiety. Its not my favourite topic, but please know that itโ€™s there. If thatโ€™s not something you think you can handle, Iโ€™m probably not for you. ~~~~~~~~~~~๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿญ๐ŸŽ€~~~~~~~~~~~ โœจ๐Ÿฆ Vanilla me ๐Ÿฆโœจ๐Ÿ’– I love gaming on my pc and switch.๐Ÿ’– I love anything pink!๐Ÿ’– I love reading romance books and finding cute bookshops. I love going for drives in the car (passenger princess ๐Ÿ‘ธ) ๐Ÿ’– I love pop, dance and RnB music.๐Ÿ’– Netflix, Amazon Prime and Disney+! Any recommendations, throw my way. โœจ๐ŸŽ€ Little me ๐ŸŽ€โœจ I have been working on my little-self over the years. I consider myself to be a little princess! Itโ€™s a huge part of my personality. Youโ€™ll see! ๐Ÿ’– Iโ€™m a huge fan of Pixar movies! I love Hello Kitty and My Melody is my favourite character. I am into anything pink, fluffy and soft. I enjoy colouring, organising my stuffies, small ***s, bubble baths and chocolate milk. I love my paci! Most of my stuffies are bunnies and a couple of other ***s! My favourite food is a slice of chocolate cake or *** crackers!
Female (29) Newtown, Wellington
Inexperienced lesbian looking for someone to teach me ๐Ÿ‘€
Female (22) Otaki, Wellington
Nothing excites me more than pushing boundaries and embracing the thrill of exhibition. I crave the electric rush of being watched, the heat of forbidden eyes, and the playful danger of daring to be bold. With me, every encounter is an adventure in pleasure, curiosity, and unapologetic confidence.
Female (26) Nelson, Nelson
Kia ora Iโ€™m here living my best life, and keen to chat with like minded people. Iโ€™m in a relationship with @Fathership and we are both discovering what this world has to offer as we travel its many pathways. The photos we post are glimpses of our journey together and how our relationship grows stronger throughout our understanding of ourselves and each other. As stated above I am happy to chat with like minded people but am not looking for anything else If you are tempted to message me be creative as unsolicited photos and one liners are not my glass of whisky. We share our messages and connections so messaging one of us is in fact messaging both of us. I have a aroha (love) of Shibari and model for @Fathership - I am open to more artistic rope modelling. Please note: this is not a play partner experience
Female (51) Napier, Hawke's Bay
I am new to exploring kinks but have been wanting to experience these for many years. I love the idea of not being in control, to get out of my headspace and not worry about anything, to have someone else decide when, and how, I receive pleasure. I want to be completely overwhelmed by sensations and their dominance as Iโ€™ve never had an orgasm with a partner because I canโ€™t let go enough to fully be in the moment. Light bondage. Toys. D/s curious. Sensation play. Spanking? Edging? Vaginal fisting? Must truely enjoy plus-sized women.
Female (51) Sockburn, Canterbury
looking to meet like minded people and interesting conversations
Female (20) Auckland, Auckland
I am looking for a man who wants to have a serious relationship. He dreams of family holidays and a beautiful joint cozy quiet life together. I am looking for a man who will be my strong shoulder. I am dreaming to find a man who I can rely on. I am absolutely ready to move to another country and I hope to do that very soon.
Female (38) Beerescourt, Waikato
I am a bbw cougar based in the BOP . We are seeking a regular on going male friend . We want a male who is happy to wank and cum on my pussy lips , boobs and body with my husband. For a start this will be wanking only but will progress to full sex when trust and comfort levels increase. I definitely will be keen on non condom, Fuck me and cum inside me sex eventually ๐Ÿ˜ˆ๐Ÿ˜‰ We require.. 40 yrs plus in age , non smoking , zero drug use , hygienic, disease free and I will definitely need attraction and chemistry. This may suit a married man who is unsure on cheating as initially itโ€™s not full sex .
Female (52) Rotorua, Bay of Plenty
Hi iโ€™m at 22 year-old submissive looking for a dominant preferably not online as Iโ€™d much prefer to have someone in person. Iโ€™m pretty honest and sincere funny and quirky Iโ€™d say but you can tell me otherwise if you think Iโ€™m any different. ๐Ÿ˜…
Female (22) Carterton, Wellington
On a journey to discover what turns curiosity into passion. Not rushing, just exploring, and open to meeting people who appreciate good conversation, mutual respect, and shared experiences
Female (23) Glenfield, Auckland
I'm a Princess by day, slut by night ๐Ÿฅฐ I can be shy to begin with, but I will warm up quickly with the right people I'm new to this scene but keen to explore and experience new things If you don't have a picture, please send one with your message so I have an idea of who I'm talking to! Respect and communication are paramount. Get to know me as a person first and foremost, then the rest will come much more easily and willingly. If you pressure me or disrespect me (outside the bedroom), I will likely disappear on you ๐Ÿ‘ป I love being looked after and doted on with lots of touch and kisses during the day (princess treatment), and at night I love being 'enjoyed'. I don't like making decisions, and your pleasure is my pleasure โค๐Ÿ”ฅ I will give as good as I get, so I will return all the cuddles and all the care and any devotion ๐Ÿ˜š To me, sex isn't just about the finish. It's a whole journey of sensations and feelings to explore โค๐Ÿ”ฅ I love sensual play with lots of touch, kisses, and foreplay, lots of sex and also love rough play, if that also pleases my Dom/Domme and the time is right ๐Ÿ˜‰ I much prefer being 'manhandled' in the bedroom, rather than being told what to do or how to move Keen to try being tied up and CNC (not necessarily at the same time) as they're things that have always intrigued me, but never trusted the right people to try it out I'm only available every second week, so my time is precious ๐Ÿ˜˜ 420 friendly ๐Ÿƒ https://bdsmtest.org/r/fezB6mDb 96% Submissive 84% Rope bunny 82% Little 77% Brat 72% Degradee 64% Non-monogamist 63% Vanilla 62% Primal (Prey) 59% Masochist 54% Switch 52% Voyeur 38% Experimentalist 35% Ageplayer 28% Exhibitionist 17% Slave 4% Pet
Female (36) Hillcrest, Waikato
Iโ€™m a high class escort but Iโ€™m looking for someone thatโ€™s into the same stuff as me I want a real freak to control me make me horny and squirt and fuck me hard while I need to *** make me cum and wonโ€™t let me go until I start leaking n wetting on your lap n loosing control ๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ˜ˆ
Female (19) Onehunga, Auckland
have limited experience in kink but very keen to explore. Sub will try most things once but trust and communication are big for me to be able to open up to new experiences
Female (23) Paihia, Northland
stepping away from this app for awhile no longer single... I have a breeding kink amd group sex, I could be interested in swinging couples or submissive roles myself in an older couple dynamics as i have a real strong daddy kink, im basically here to explore I need trustworthy and discrete I want my private life staying just that I am a bbw putting it out there if big women aren't your thing no harm no foul
Female (37) Christchurch, Canterbury
Edge me til I cry ๐Ÿ˜– bit of a chunkier gal if that's what you're into, I enjoy being edged/denial, CNC, ***d orgasms, just to name a few..

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Ya'll, I am a demi-sexual. I will not reply to messages asking about my prefences/interess. I sure as hell don't mind a nice compliment but I delete the majority of messages I get. Side note: If I get any more DM's starting with "Hey" I may very well jump off a cliff. Broaden your vocabulary and get back to me then.
Female (20) Fernhill, Otago
When it comes to fun, I enjoy a mix of spontaneity and connection whether it's exploring new things out like different cuisines, or simply enjoying a cosy night in with good conversation. I'm looking for someone who can bring a sense of adventure and excitement while also appreciating the moments of intimacy and connection. How about you? What kind of fun do you enjoy?
Female (37) Auckland Central, Auckland
I am a bbw cougar based in the BOP . We are seeking a regular on going male friend . We want a male who is happy to wank and cum on my pussy lips , boobs and body with my husband. For a start this will be wanking only but will progress to full sex when trust and comfort levels increase. I definitely will be keen on non condom, Fuck me and cum inside me sex eventually ๐Ÿ˜ˆ๐Ÿ˜‰ We require.. 40 yrs plus in age , non smoking , zero drug use , hygienic, disease free and I will definitely need attraction and chemistry. This may suit a married man who is unsure on cheating as initially itโ€™s not full sex .
Female (52) Rotorua, Bay of Plenty
Nothing excites me more than pushing boundaries and embracing the thrill of exhibition. I crave the electric rush of being watched, the heat of forbidden eyes, and the playful danger of daring to be bold. With me, every encounter is an adventure in pleasure, curiosity, and unapologetic confidence.
Female (26) Nelson, Nelson
looking to meet like minded people and interesting conversations
Female (20) Auckland, Auckland
"Curious soul with a wild side. I value trust, communication, and mutual respect above all. Looking for a dominant partner who can guide me with a firm but caring hand. ๐Ÿ’ฆ๐Ÿ‘ป***
Female (25) Auckland Central, Auckland
Not really sure what to put? My DM's always open to friendly conversations : ) But if you're reading this, please note; I am autistic and subtext is not my strong suit so I may not always understand what you mean.
Female (21) Christchurch, Canterbury
I am new to exploring kinks but have been wanting to experience these for many years. I love the idea of not being in control, to get out of my headspace and not worry about anything, to have someone else decide when, and how, I receive pleasure. I want to be completely overwhelmed by sensations and their dominance as Iโ€™ve never had an orgasm with a partner because I canโ€™t let go enough to fully be in the moment. Light bondage. Toys. D/s curious. Sensation play. Spanking? Edging? Vaginal fisting? Must truely enjoy plus-sized women.
Female (51) Sockburn, Canterbury
Hi I a experienced female cuckquean slave whore from auckland new Zealand. Luv role-playing, ***, ***, cnc corruption, worship, mantras, more hardcore stuff. I am owned by my King..
Female (45) Auckland, Auckland
Inexperienced lesbian looking for someone to teach me ๐Ÿ‘€
Female (22) Otaki, Wellington
I am looking for a man who wants to have a serious relationship. He dreams of family holidays and a beautiful joint cozy quiet life together. I am looking for a man who will be my strong shoulder. I am dreaming to find a man who I can rely on. I am absolutely ready to move to another country and I hope to do that very soon.
Female (38) Beerescourt, Waikato
I'm new and don't have any experience with BDSM but I have been interested in BDSM for a very long time. I'm open to all new experiences and would like to learn from experienced people to find what my limits are ๐Ÿ˜Š
Female (27) Manukau, Auckland
Kia ora Iโ€™m here living my best life, and keen to chat with like minded people. Iโ€™m in a relationship with @Fathership and we are both discovering what this world has to offer as we travel its many pathways. The photos we post are glimpses of our journey together and how our relationship grows stronger throughout our understanding of ourselves and each other. As stated above I am happy to chat with like minded people but am not looking for anything else If you are tempted to message me be creative as unsolicited photos and one liners are not my glass of whisky. We share our messages and connections so messaging one of us is in fact messaging both of us. I have a aroha (love) of Shibari and model for @Fathership - I am open to more artistic rope modelling. Please note: this is not a play partner experience
Female (51) Napier, Hawke's Bay
Mistress looking for a fetish relationship with a submissive partner.Mistress into Spanking,collar,pegs,gags,chastity,plugs,foot-worship,face-sitting and many more.ONLY!!! submissive man living here in New Zealand.
Female (42) Tauranga, Bay of Plenty
โœจ Things to know before we begin! โœจ๐ŸŒธ I won't to talk to you if you don't have a face pic or if you won't send me one.๐ŸŒธ I have zero interest in male diaper wearers.๐ŸŒธ I'm not poly and I don't like to share.. I have zero interest in men with who have partners.๐ŸŒธ If you message me, make sure it has more then "hi" in the message. Long messages are my jam. โœจ Currently looking for a Daddy โœจ I'm looking for a pure ddlg relationship, with normal girlfriend/boyfriend aspects. I am not looking for a switch. I am looking for someone dominant and masculine in his role as daddy. Experience with DDLG is preferred. Tattoo's and beards are hot!!!!! Preferred age 35-50. But not a deal breaker. Must be able to travel. ~~~~~~~~~~~๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿญ๐ŸŽ€~~~~~~~~~~~ โœจ๐Ÿ‘‹ Introduction ๐Ÿ‘‹โœจ Hi, I'm Charlotte! I work full time in a professional setting. After work and on the weekends you can usually find me at home doing things I enjoy and enjoying down time. I like going out and socialising but usually youโ€™ll find me at home. ~~~~~~~~~~~๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿญ๐ŸŽ€~~~~~~~~~~~ I have complex depression and anxiety. Its not my favourite topic, but please know that itโ€™s there. If thatโ€™s not something you think you can handle, Iโ€™m probably not for you. ~~~~~~~~~~~๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿญ๐ŸŽ€~~~~~~~~~~~ โœจ๐Ÿฆ Vanilla me ๐Ÿฆโœจ๐Ÿ’– I love gaming on my pc and switch.๐Ÿ’– I love anything pink!๐Ÿ’– I love reading romance books and finding cute bookshops. I love going for drives in the car (passenger princess ๐Ÿ‘ธ) ๐Ÿ’– I love pop, dance and RnB music.๐Ÿ’– Netflix, Amazon Prime and Disney+! Any recommendations, throw my way. โœจ๐ŸŽ€ Little me ๐ŸŽ€โœจ I have been working on my little-self over the years. I consider myself to be a little princess! Itโ€™s a huge part of my personality. Youโ€™ll see! ๐Ÿ’– Iโ€™m a huge fan of Pixar movies! I love Hello Kitty and My Melody is my favourite character. I am into anything pink, fluffy and soft. I enjoy colouring, organising my stuffies, small ***s, bubble baths and chocolate milk. I love my paci! Most of my stuffies are bunnies and a couple of other ***s! My favourite food is a slice of chocolate cake or *** crackers!
Female (29) Newtown, Wellington
I'm looking to explore and experiment, I don't have much experience in this community but I tend to follow my curiosity hence why I'm here. I like the idea of powerplay (taking it or losing it), I think I would be a switch--and if I were a sub I'd definitely be bratty. Teach me a few things and we can put it to practice. I'd love to have a mentor. Message me and maybe we can get to know each other?
Female (23) St Heliers, Auckland
have been in the lifestyle for a good while and naturally submissive. dm me if you have any questions. communication is a must, I reserve the right to block any and all asshats. if you've read my profile and genuinely want to talk, mention blue dragons otherwise conversations stay in chat rooms.
Female (30) Greymouth, West Coast
damnโ€ฆhow do i explain myself? iโ€™m just a girl who enjoys crocheting, ***ting and reading. or playing video games. currently getting lost in youtube rabbit holes while playing stardew valley(i love it so much). iโ€™m studying a design degree! now on the kinky sideโ€ฆ totally submissive, i used to say i was a brat to people. before realising i just love listening to the rules and having someone control what i do ;) iโ€™ve never had the chance to fully explore alot of kinks outside of being a sub. iโ€™d love to learn just how submissive i can beโ€ฆhehe. also i am for the women and enbiess
Female (20) North East Valley, Otago
I would like to find a financially stable man to settle down with. I still like to play from time to time. I am dominant and have spent many years as a dominatrix, this is second nature to me and I adore being served.
Female (35) Manukau, Auckland
I am a cheeky submissive who loves being controlled and given tasks. If you love hypnosis then you get brownie points ๐Ÿ‘‰ I have a lot of work opportunities going on and may be traveling in a few months time. So please be aware of that if you wish to see me in person. I am looking for something that scratches my need to be a slut and if we click then fantastic ๐Ÿ˜‰ Would love to one day be a live in slave/sub for a dominant but for now just wanting to have fun
Female (29) Auckland Central, Auckland
im a CNC girlie who loves a strong confident man. im up for trying most things and love to be a little controlled. im absolutely THE problem but im a sweetheart if you know how to push the right buttons. open to sugar daddies or random meets and everything except ***โค๏ธ
Female (35) Kaiwaka, Northland
vibing with the vibes ๐Ÿ’— Iโ€™m here for likeminded people not kinky groups, swingers, open relationships or any of that. Not fussed on casual connections only casual chills, events, cool connections and crews thatโ€™s about it. Iโ€™m here for one Man only and you know who you areโ€ฆ wonder if my King is here ๐Ÿ˜ˆ๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ‘Œ no one over 39 or under 27 unless your a raver - expect the only exception you are the one โ˜บ๏ธ
I'm a Princess by day, slut by night ๐Ÿฅฐ I can be shy to begin with, but I will warm up quickly with the right people I'm new to this scene but keen to explore and experience new things If you don't have a picture, please send one with your message so I have an idea of who I'm talking to! Respect and communication are paramount. Get to know me as a person first and foremost, then the rest will come much more easily and willingly. If you pressure me or disrespect me (outside the bedroom), I will likely disappear on you ๐Ÿ‘ป I love being looked after and doted on with lots of touch and kisses during the day (princess treatment), and at night I love being 'enjoyed'. I don't like making decisions, and your pleasure is my pleasure โค๐Ÿ”ฅ I will give as good as I get, so I will return all the cuddles and all the care and any devotion ๐Ÿ˜š To me, sex isn't just about the finish. It's a whole journey of sensations and feelings to explore โค๐Ÿ”ฅ I love sensual play with lots of touch, kisses, and foreplay, lots of sex and also love rough play, if that also pleases my Dom/Domme and the time is right ๐Ÿ˜‰ I much prefer being 'manhandled' in the bedroom, rather than being told what to do or how to move Keen to try being tied up and CNC (not necessarily at the same time) as they're things that have always intrigued me, but never trusted the right people to try it out I'm only available every second week, so my time is precious ๐Ÿ˜˜ 420 friendly ๐Ÿƒ https://bdsmtest.org/r/fezB6mDb 96% Submissive 84% Rope bunny 82% Little 77% Brat 72% Degradee 64% Non-monogamist 63% Vanilla 62% Primal (Prey) 59% Masochist 54% Switch 52% Voyeur 38% Experimentalist 35% Ageplayer 28% Exhibitionist 17% Slave 4% Pet
Female (36) Hillcrest, Waikato
need some spice in my life ๐Ÿ‘„ very experienced in bed & group play๐Ÿ˜˜ would love to find a dom one day but open to most things! letโ€™s have a chat and go from there ๐Ÿ–ค
Female (24) Russley, Canterbury

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