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Ya'll, I am a demi-sexual. I will not reply to messages asking about my prefences. I sure as hell don't mind a nice compliment but I delete the majority of messages I get. Side note: If I get any more DM's starting with "Hey" I may very well jump off a cliff. Broaden your vocabulary and get back to me then.
Female (20) Fernhill, Otago
have been in the lifestyle for a good while and naturally submissive. dm me if you have any questions. communication is a must, I reserve the right to block any and all asshats
Female (29) Greymouth, West Coast
Not really sure what to put? My DM's always open to friendly conversations : ) But if you're reading this, please note; I am autistic and subtext is not my strong suit so I may not always understand what you mean.
Female (21) Christchurch, Canterbury
Honestly I just wanna have some fun and experience some of my kinks. But more then anything I do want a Daddy to take care of me. I really hate to make my own decisions for the most part. But at the end of the day I just want someone who is willing to have some fun with me I also have a master who lets me play with others, with his knowledge of everything of course xx
Female (27) Paraparaumu, Wellington
I'm looking to explore and experiment, I don't have much experience in this community but I tend to follow my curiosity hence why I'm here. I like the idea of powerplay (taking it or losing it), I think I would be a switch--and if I were a sub I'd definitely be bratty. Teach me a few things and we can put it to practice. I'd love to have a mentor. Message me and maybe we can get to know each other?
Female (23) St Heliers, Auckland
✨ Things to know before we begin! ✨🌸 I won't to talk to you if you don't have a face pic or if you won't send me one.🌸 I have zero interest in male diaper wearers.🌸 I'm not poly and I don't like to share.. I have zero interest in men with who have partners.🌸 If you message me, make sure it has more then "hi" in the message. Long messages are my jam. ✨ Currently looking for a Daddy ✨ I'm looking for a pure ddlg relationship, with normal girlfriend/boyfriend aspects. I am not looking for a switch. I am looking for someone dominant and masculine in his role as daddy. Experience with DDLG is preferred. Tattoo's and beards are hot!!!!! Preferred age 35-50. But not a deal breaker. Must be able to travel. ~~~~~~~~~~~πŸŒΈπŸ’–πŸ­πŸŽ€~~~~~~~~~~~ βœ¨πŸ‘‹ Introduction πŸ‘‹βœ¨ Hi, I'm Charlotte! I work full time in a professional setting. After work and on the weekends you can usually find me at home doing things I enjoy and enjoying down time. I like going out and socialising but usually you’ll find me at home. ~~~~~~~~~~~πŸŒΈπŸ’–πŸ­πŸŽ€~~~~~~~~~~~ I have complex depression and anxiety. Its not my favourite topic, but please know that it’s there. If that’s not something you think you can handle, I’m probably not for you. ~~~~~~~~~~~πŸŒΈπŸ’–πŸ­πŸŽ€~~~~~~~~~~~ ✨🍦 Vanilla me πŸ¦βœ¨πŸ’– I love gaming on my pc and switch.πŸ’– I love anything pink!πŸ’– I love reading romance books and finding cute bookshops. I love going for drives in the car (passenger princess πŸ‘Έ) πŸ’– I love pop, dance and RnB music.πŸ’– Netflix, Amazon Prime and Disney+! Any recommendations, throw my way. βœ¨πŸŽ€ Little me πŸŽ€βœ¨ I have been working on my little-self over the years. I consider myself to be a little princess! It’s a huge part of my personality. You’ll see! πŸ’– I’m a huge fan of Pixar movies! I love Hello Kitty and My Melody is my favourite character. I am into anything pink, fluffy and soft. I enjoy colouring, organising my stuffies, small ***s, bubble baths and chocolate milk. I love my paci! Most of my stuffies are bunnies and a couple of other ***s! My favourite food is a slice of chocolate cake or *** crackers!
Female (29) Newtown, Wellington
Hey there! So I figured out I’m continually evolving…as we should be! Still relatively new, with lots to learn and navigate. New moods, new kinks, new lessons. So this profile prob changes as often as I do. Push me. Tease me. Test me. Make me beg. Tie me up, take control, and let the sting of impact remind me who owns me in the moment. I adore the quiet tension of a good flirt. I might be shy at first, but if the vibe is there, I’m all in. Natural chemistry is everything. Respect, trust, and clear communication are non-negotiable. Be real, show up, and don’t waste my time. Privacy matters. My space, my pace. Not here for just sex. If you can’t offer more ..as in connection, creativity, and actual effort..keep scrolling. πŸ–€ Bondage + impact play πŸ–€ Edging & orgasm control πŸ–€ Threesomes πŸ–€ Wax play πŸ–€ Exploring with Woman Things I’d like to explore… β€’ Group fun (Bi MMF especially) β€’ Pegging (there might be a little switch hidden in me) β€’ Attending an event CP πŸŽ€ x
Female (40) Auckland, Auckland
Kia ora I’m here living my best life, and keen to chat with like minded people. I’m in a relationship with @Fathership and we are both discovering what this world has to offer as we travel its many pathways. The photos we post are glimpses of our journey together and how our relationship grows stronger throughout our understanding of ourselves and each other. As stated above I am happy to chat with like minded people but am not looking for anything else If you are tempted to message me be creative as unsolicited photos and one liners are not my glass of whisky. We share our messages and connections so messaging one of us is in fact messaging both of us. I have a aroha (love) of Shibari and model for @Fathership - I am open to more artistic rope modelling. Please note: this is not a play partner experience
Female (50) Napier, Hawke's Bay
Mistress looking for a fetish relationship with a submissive partner.Mistress into Spanking,collar,pegs,gags,chastity,plugs,foot-worship,face-sitting and many more.ONLY!!! submissive man living here in New Zealand.
Female (42) Tauranga, Bay of Plenty
Things keep changing and i want to try abit of everything. But I want to be spoiled like a sugar baby and treated like a freak in the sheetsπŸ’‹ Any sugar daddy honeys around 😏😘
Female (27) Pukekohe, Auckland
I'm new and don't have any experience with BDSM but I have been interested in BDSM for a very long time. I'm open to all new experiences and would like to learn from experienced people to find what my limits are 😊
Female (27) Manukau, Auckland
Inexperienced lesbian looking for someone to teach me πŸ‘€
Female (22) Otaki, Wellington
Hi I a experienced female cuckquean slave whore from auckland new Zealand. Luv role-playing, ***, ***, cnc corruption, worship, mantras, more hardcore stuff. I am owned by my King..
Female (44) Auckland, Auckland
Hello ~ Ruin me not my schedule and fuck around and find out since you don't wanna read a whole book about me smh... hehe xoxo Maybe I work here a little, but you'll get me the most on f*tlife ~
Female (21) Waikanae, Wellington
"Curious soul with a wild side. I value trust, communication, and mutual respect above all. Looking for a dominant partner who can guide me with a firm but caring hand. πŸ’¦πŸ‘»***
Female (25) Auckland Central, Auckland
Nothing excites me more than pushing boundaries and embracing the thrill of exhibition. I crave the electric rush of being watched, the heat of forbidden eyes, and the playful danger of daring to be bold. With me, every encounter is an adventure in pleasure, curiosity, and unapologetic confidence.
Female (26) Nelson, Nelson
I’m seeking a submissive who craves direction, thrives under structure, and finds fulfillment in service, devotion, and the beautiful complexities of D/s dynamics.
Female (35) Auckland, Auckland
I am looking for a man who wants to have a serious relationship. He dreams of family holidays and a beautiful joint cozy quiet life together. I am looking for a man who will be my strong shoulder. I am dreaming to find a man who I can rely on. I am absolutely ready to move to another country and I hope to do that very soon.
Female (38) Beerescourt, Waikato
I am new to exploring kinks but have been wanting to experience these for many years. I love the idea of not being in control, to get out of my headspace and not worry about anything, to have someone else decide when, and how, I receive pleasure. I want to be completely overwhelmed by sensations and their dominance as I’ve never had an orgasm with a partner because I can’t let go enough to fully be in the moment. Light bondage. Toys. D/s curious. Sensation play. Spanking? Edging? Vaginal fisting? Must truely enjoy plus-sized women.
Female (51) Sockburn, Canterbury
looking to meet like minded people and interesting conversations
Female (20) Auckland, Auckland
I am a bbw cougar based in the BOP . We are seeking a regular on going male friend . We want a male who is happy to wank and cum on my pussy lips , boobs and body with my husband. For a start this will be wanking only but will progress to full sex when trust and comfort levels increase. I definitely will be keen on non condom, Fuck me and cum inside me sex eventually πŸ˜ˆπŸ˜‰ We require.. 40 yrs plus in age , non smoking , zero drug use , hygienic, disease free and I will definitely need attraction and chemistry. This may suit a married man who is unsure on cheating as initially it’s not full sex .
Female (52) Rotorua, Bay of Plenty
Looking for a dom for something more long term. please be respectful when messaging I'm looking for connections not straight out sending pics. I like to get to know someone an have actual conversations. reasonably new to this have only had some online experience . Less likely to reply if you dont have a profile pic 😊 not looking for any one off play online or irl
Female (46) Timaru Central, Canterbury
I’m here to explore more of my kinkier side and to find a Dom but I’m also open to trying out being more dominant with the right person. I enjoy being a bit bratty sometimes too so if you can handle that, try me😈 I love to read, especially dark romance 😈😏oh and I very much enjoy masked men too hehe I can’t see who likes my photos so don’t be shy, message me. I don’t bite, unless you want me too
Female (24) Wellington, Wellington
Okay, so up until I was seven, and I got diagnosed with a neurological disability called Fredericks Ataxia (you can google it if you want, but Google will tell you the worst case scenario) I was a β€˜normal’ kid whatever that means lol I started losing my balance and being clumsier, then the other kids, my age, then when I was 10 I got my first Wheelchair I didn’t have to use it all the time. Then when I turned 12/13 I had to use my Wheelchair more often then at 15 I had to use it all the time. The condition (I just call FA because it easier to say, and when somebody says what’s wrong with you? Oh FA mate) basically means as I get older, I lose more muscles Not that I have a lot to begin with ? my list of health conditions, because of this is pretty long so I won’t crap on lol you can ask me anything always Literally anything ?
Female (29) East Gore, Southland

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Ya'll, I am a demi-sexual. I will not reply to messages asking about my prefences. I sure as hell don't mind a nice compliment but I delete the majority of messages I get. Side note: If I get any more DM's starting with "Hey" I may very well jump off a cliff. Broaden your vocabulary and get back to me then.
Female (20) Fernhill, Otago
I am a bbw cougar based in the BOP . We are seeking a regular on going male friend . We want a male who is happy to wank and cum on my pussy lips , boobs and body with my husband. For a start this will be wanking only but will progress to full sex when trust and comfort levels increase. I definitely will be keen on non condom, Fuck me and cum inside me sex eventually πŸ˜ˆπŸ˜‰ We require.. 40 yrs plus in age , non smoking , zero drug use , hygienic, disease free and I will definitely need attraction and chemistry. This may suit a married man who is unsure on cheating as initially it’s not full sex .
Female (52) Rotorua, Bay of Plenty
Nothing excites me more than pushing boundaries and embracing the thrill of exhibition. I crave the electric rush of being watched, the heat of forbidden eyes, and the playful danger of daring to be bold. With me, every encounter is an adventure in pleasure, curiosity, and unapologetic confidence.
Female (26) Nelson, Nelson
looking to meet like minded people and interesting conversations
Female (20) Auckland, Auckland
"Curious soul with a wild side. I value trust, communication, and mutual respect above all. Looking for a dominant partner who can guide me with a firm but caring hand. πŸ’¦πŸ‘»***
Female (25) Auckland Central, Auckland
Not really sure what to put? My DM's always open to friendly conversations : ) But if you're reading this, please note; I am autistic and subtext is not my strong suit so I may not always understand what you mean.
Female (21) Christchurch, Canterbury
I am new to exploring kinks but have been wanting to experience these for many years. I love the idea of not being in control, to get out of my headspace and not worry about anything, to have someone else decide when, and how, I receive pleasure. I want to be completely overwhelmed by sensations and their dominance as I’ve never had an orgasm with a partner because I can’t let go enough to fully be in the moment. Light bondage. Toys. D/s curious. Sensation play. Spanking? Edging? Vaginal fisting? Must truely enjoy plus-sized women.
Female (51) Sockburn, Canterbury
Hi I a experienced female cuckquean slave whore from auckland new Zealand. Luv role-playing, ***, ***, cnc corruption, worship, mantras, more hardcore stuff. I am owned by my King..
Female (44) Auckland, Auckland
Inexperienced lesbian looking for someone to teach me πŸ‘€
Female (22) Otaki, Wellington
Hey there! So I figured out I’m continually evolving…as we should be! Still relatively new, with lots to learn and navigate. New moods, new kinks, new lessons. So this profile prob changes as often as I do. Push me. Tease me. Test me. Make me beg. Tie me up, take control, and let the sting of impact remind me who owns me in the moment. I adore the quiet tension of a good flirt. I might be shy at first, but if the vibe is there, I’m all in. Natural chemistry is everything. Respect, trust, and clear communication are non-negotiable. Be real, show up, and don’t waste my time. Privacy matters. My space, my pace. Not here for just sex. If you can’t offer more ..as in connection, creativity, and actual effort..keep scrolling. πŸ–€ Bondage + impact play πŸ–€ Edging & orgasm control πŸ–€ Threesomes πŸ–€ Wax play πŸ–€ Exploring with Woman Things I’d like to explore… β€’ Group fun (Bi MMF especially) β€’ Pegging (there might be a little switch hidden in me) β€’ Attending an event CP πŸŽ€ x
Female (40) Auckland, Auckland
I am looking for a man who wants to have a serious relationship. He dreams of family holidays and a beautiful joint cozy quiet life together. I am looking for a man who will be my strong shoulder. I am dreaming to find a man who I can rely on. I am absolutely ready to move to another country and I hope to do that very soon.
Female (38) Beerescourt, Waikato
I'm new and don't have any experience with BDSM but I have been interested in BDSM for a very long time. I'm open to all new experiences and would like to learn from experienced people to find what my limits are 😊
Female (27) Manukau, Auckland
Hello ~ Ruin me not my schedule and fuck around and find out since you don't wanna read a whole book about me smh... hehe xoxo Maybe I work here a little, but you'll get me the most on f*tlife ~
Female (21) Waikanae, Wellington
I’m seeking a submissive who craves direction, thrives under structure, and finds fulfillment in service, devotion, and the beautiful complexities of D/s dynamics.
Female (35) Auckland, Auckland
Kia ora I’m here living my best life, and keen to chat with like minded people. I’m in a relationship with @Fathership and we are both discovering what this world has to offer as we travel its many pathways. The photos we post are glimpses of our journey together and how our relationship grows stronger throughout our understanding of ourselves and each other. As stated above I am happy to chat with like minded people but am not looking for anything else If you are tempted to message me be creative as unsolicited photos and one liners are not my glass of whisky. We share our messages and connections so messaging one of us is in fact messaging both of us. I have a aroha (love) of Shibari and model for @Fathership - I am open to more artistic rope modelling. Please note: this is not a play partner experience
Female (50) Napier, Hawke's Bay
Things keep changing and i want to try abit of everything. But I want to be spoiled like a sugar baby and treated like a freak in the sheetsπŸ’‹ Any sugar daddy honeys around 😏😘
Female (27) Pukekohe, Auckland
Honestly I just wanna have some fun and experience some of my kinks. But more then anything I do want a Daddy to take care of me. I really hate to make my own decisions for the most part. But at the end of the day I just want someone who is willing to have some fun with me I also have a master who lets me play with others, with his knowledge of everything of course xx
Female (27) Paraparaumu, Wellington
Mistress looking for a fetish relationship with a submissive partner.Mistress into Spanking,collar,pegs,gags,chastity,plugs,foot-worship,face-sitting and many more.ONLY!!! submissive man living here in New Zealand.
Female (42) Tauranga, Bay of Plenty
✨ Things to know before we begin! ✨🌸 I won't to talk to you if you don't have a face pic or if you won't send me one.🌸 I have zero interest in male diaper wearers.🌸 I'm not poly and I don't like to share.. I have zero interest in men with who have partners.🌸 If you message me, make sure it has more then "hi" in the message. Long messages are my jam. ✨ Currently looking for a Daddy ✨ I'm looking for a pure ddlg relationship, with normal girlfriend/boyfriend aspects. I am not looking for a switch. I am looking for someone dominant and masculine in his role as daddy. Experience with DDLG is preferred. Tattoo's and beards are hot!!!!! Preferred age 35-50. But not a deal breaker. Must be able to travel. ~~~~~~~~~~~πŸŒΈπŸ’–πŸ­πŸŽ€~~~~~~~~~~~ βœ¨πŸ‘‹ Introduction πŸ‘‹βœ¨ Hi, I'm Charlotte! I work full time in a professional setting. After work and on the weekends you can usually find me at home doing things I enjoy and enjoying down time. I like going out and socialising but usually you’ll find me at home. ~~~~~~~~~~~πŸŒΈπŸ’–πŸ­πŸŽ€~~~~~~~~~~~ I have complex depression and anxiety. Its not my favourite topic, but please know that it’s there. If that’s not something you think you can handle, I’m probably not for you. ~~~~~~~~~~~πŸŒΈπŸ’–πŸ­πŸŽ€~~~~~~~~~~~ ✨🍦 Vanilla me πŸ¦βœ¨πŸ’– I love gaming on my pc and switch.πŸ’– I love anything pink!πŸ’– I love reading romance books and finding cute bookshops. I love going for drives in the car (passenger princess πŸ‘Έ) πŸ’– I love pop, dance and RnB music.πŸ’– Netflix, Amazon Prime and Disney+! Any recommendations, throw my way. βœ¨πŸŽ€ Little me πŸŽ€βœ¨ I have been working on my little-self over the years. I consider myself to be a little princess! It’s a huge part of my personality. You’ll see! πŸ’– I’m a huge fan of Pixar movies! I love Hello Kitty and My Melody is my favourite character. I am into anything pink, fluffy and soft. I enjoy colouring, organising my stuffies, small ***s, bubble baths and chocolate milk. I love my paci! Most of my stuffies are bunnies and a couple of other ***s! My favourite food is a slice of chocolate cake or *** crackers!
Female (29) Newtown, Wellington
I'm looking to explore and experiment, I don't have much experience in this community but I tend to follow my curiosity hence why I'm here. I like the idea of powerplay (taking it or losing it), I think I would be a switch--and if I were a sub I'd definitely be bratty. Teach me a few things and we can put it to practice. I'd love to have a mentor. Message me and maybe we can get to know each other?
Female (23) St Heliers, Auckland
have been in the lifestyle for a good while and naturally submissive. dm me if you have any questions. communication is a must, I reserve the right to block any and all asshats
Female (29) Greymouth, West Coast
"Take me by the hand, lead me to beautiful places with your words... Feed me sweet, sweet wine infront of your mind's warm hearth... Under your shielding protection, lay me down in your arms... Draw me in with your eyes, where I will find my safe space... Shelter me under your guiding presence, where I can laugh and cry and everything in between... Make me your one and only, your treasure and heart... ... and I will be everything your ever wanted, loyal and true" - CB
Female (40) Stanmore Bay, Auckland
I’m here to explore more of my kinkier side and to find a Dom but I’m also open to trying out being more dominant with the right person. I enjoy being a bit bratty sometimes too so if you can handle that, try me😈 I love to read, especially dark romance 😈😏oh and I very much enjoy masked men too hehe I can’t see who likes my photos so don’t be shy, message me. I don’t bite, unless you want me too
Female (24) Wellington, Wellington
I love being overwhelmed and pinned down ❀️ and if I don’t reply don’t worry I’m not ignoring you, probs have school😘
Female (20) Hataitai, Wellington

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