Brief facts about me: 57, academic, environmental scientist, former army officer, psychologically trained, wide range of interests ranging from philosophy to psychology, arts and literature, film and photography, human mind, science, environment, well-traveled, martial arts, old books ... anything you are specifically interested in, do send me a message... To be honest, I am only on here for the cookies ...
Here are a couple of examples of what kind of people I would like to meet, for all kinds of reasons:

Primal prey/hunt/takedown/raw enthusiasts - if it makes you wet thinking of teeth sinking into your skin, being grabbed, held, subdued, thrown around, d, pinned, pounded, we should talk.
Intelligent, bratty, talking back, fighting back brats who have the guts to take anything that has been triggered by poking the bear, and still keep poking even when it hurts (or rather, ESPECIALLY when it hurts).
Daddy/daughter or student/teacher dynamics - if you like the thought of immersing yourself in roleplay scenarios with a power differential, exploring exploitation and use in a safe, sane and consensual environment, send me your application.
If you love the great outdoors, and are curious what places, situations or environments can be turned into a space for mindblowing orgasms, or just subtle, public-yet-private play, let's find out and make a list.
Coffee addicts and cinema enthusiasts, people who want to hang out, chat, talk, watch, listen, in a kink-friendly context, hit me up (I might hit back ).

Equally, some examples of what are things that are not usually for me:

if you are needing to be "discreet" or "play away from home", are married or in a relationship and your partner does not know, then I do not engage, at any level, sorry. (This obviously does not apply to poly/open relationships and all kinds of flavours in that context).
one-off meets with ##Certain words (e.g. contact details or terms we don’t allow in our community) are on our blacklist. If you use one of these, it will automatically be replaced with this message.## nt play for quick release without emotional connection - do not do anything for me and I am not interested
Diapers, age-play or Daddy/daugther below ~age age roles, I do not judge, but I have tried and it is something I can engage with, but do not draw pleasure from and find age regression uncomfortable. (Watersports, now that is a totally different topic ...
needles, fleshhooks, cutting, branding, permanent marking (aside from tattoos which I absolutely love) - I can see the appeal or why someone finds this hot, but not my thing.

Hard limits: , underage, *** and serious injuries

If you think we get along, feel free to drop me a line or two, and after that a friend request, but realise that I am not looking to extend my friends list endlessly to show how cool and popular I am (hey, I am a scientist, we do not do cool and popular, ever :-) ). I travel a lot for work and am always up for a coffee, a chat or dinner with kinky folk. Likewise, if you are ever around and I happen to be in the country (fat chance), do say hi.