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Gentle-Cruelty
Gentle-Cruelty
Man · 42 years · Amsterdam, 1 km

About me

I'm into
WomanNon-binaryTrans
I'm looking for
FriendsKinky DatesLTR (relationship)Events & PlacesNetworkingNSA (no strings...)BDSM LoversCybersex
Description

Good Morning! & "Welcome to the community!"

(Calling this the "streamlined version 2.0.1" only because before whilst it was shorter it was all mixed up) // Edits ongoing

So if you are a new here or curious about kink this might be for you!

Used to say "However, it's only "long" if you don't read books." but this is a LONG profile full of my 'tism, if you have any constructive feedback please do.

If you are here because of spanked(♡/🖐) or "Pet me'd" and no message, then you've likely got a filter that prevents me from reaching you directly (DM). If you are open to a polite conversation then please do (spank ♡/🖐) me back as this will allow me to start - Note, it's not always "free" depending on the filter of the profile, I am unfiltered.

If you are thinking "Why me? I don't like AMABs/Cishets/cismale/etc"
Well not every wave/spank/welcome is sexual, sometimes just saying "Hi" or "Welcome"
Always PROUD to see so many friendly faces, even if I am not on your dance card.

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My older much shorter profile was occasionally compared with a book, after starting this rewrite I decided to Embrace this Book theme, You will find the chapters as images in my gallery.

#Index:
#Newbies Chapter 1 - Being new.
#Newbies Chapter 2 - Consent/basics/Aftercare
#Me - Ndv/Consent/Kink and Aftercare (Reprise) - Games (join me)
#What I am looking for - Conversation, Fucktoys, Subs, Littles, Brats & Kittens, CNC & Other Harder Kinks
#Expectations - Communication - Only for Interested people
#What I am not looking for - Dommes, Men, Bots, Ghosting

#Limits - User defined limits, subspace & Domspace - Only for Interested people
#Politics - Antifa / Being a "Man"
#Social Media - "Argh I'm overwhelmed with messages"
#Read before DMing - Please do DM

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Limits

Lastly if you have reached this point DM me - it feels more consensual if you do it.

Not everything is sexual dearie, sometimes you can just reach out and say hi :clapping:

Constructive feedback on the profile is always welcome.

// Why are you messaging me given you are more than XXkm (or miles) away? Well simply put distance is an issue to be resolved. It can be overcome, what can't be is the connection with people.
Also remember that whilst a pretty woman might have 5000 matches in your area, there are probably only 15-20 active women in your area for those 5000 men.