About me

Consent is sexy and boundaries are important, so let's start with a Safe Word. Let’s get to know each other first and then let’s keep the lines of communication open and honest.

I own my own flat in Edinburgh. It is just me on my own at the moment, which is the issue. I am ready to share my life with the right woman: the ups and downs, the everydays and the Adventures.

I enjoy being dominant and I enjoy knowing that my partner is also having a good time. I get off being called ‘Sir’ or 'Daddy' and whatever term my partner is comfortable being called back. I love to spank a bare bum, bury my face in an impressive pair of boobs or ass cheeks and put my cock and tongue anywhere my partner is comfortable with which is, ideally, everywhere! I love to also have her tougue everywhere as well!

There are also things I've never had the opportunity to try, and I'm up for trying new things.

I am currently looking to start dating with a woman who is looking to come with me on Adventures, picnics, weekends away and generally enjoy life. I’d like someone fun who has their own income and own stuff going on as well.

I also want someone who wants to be pinned up against the kitchen wall with my hand at her throat and slapped and spanked for being naughty. Looking for someone who enjoys being submissive and obedient in the bedroom. Someone who enjoys taking instruction and having sex in different ways. I love being in charge.

Also someone who sometimes wants to snuggle naked on the couch and watch a movie. I love being intimate without necessarily being sexual all the time. I love kissing with tongue and cuddling naked, the feeling of skin-on-skin.

I enjoy roleplay and acting out fantasies, so searching for someone to do that with as well. We will investigate what yours are, as well as mine, and see what we think.

I am looking for someone who will accompany me on nights out or away-days wearing something sexy.

Someone intelligent and open-minded enough to hold a conversation but who enjoys being a submissive good girl for their Dom and likes a bit of consensual *** behind closed doors.

What the rules are regarding other people will be decided in open and honest conversation and agreement, however I will say that the threesome is my last big unfulfilled fantasy, so someone who feels they might at least be open to discussing that somewhere down the line would be welcome. Also very curious about attending clubs and sex parties, but want to try these things with someone. I also firmly believe that everyone is a free agent until it has been declared and decided otherwise.

Ideally looking for someone in either their mid-late 20s, or at any point in their 30s, basically so you’re at the same kind of place in life (I’m 37). I would like to meet someone in or around Edinburgh. I do have a car, so I can travel a reasonable distance.

Obviously, all the above doesn’t happen overnight and needs to be developed over time. I enjoy trying new things and will never judge you. I would like someone as open-minded as I am.