:1771746876,452480, unfortunately, there's too much context missing to be able to give an answer.
So anyone's comments (including mine) are going to contain assumptions.
There's a frequent saying that more people would be into Femdom if it actually benefited them. The reason Read more… women try and then get bored after a couple of days is often, at it's core, because it doesn't benefit them. It ultimately becomes phsyical or emotional labour on their part trying to cater to a male fantasy, than anything which elevates them or makes their life easier. This is something that then falls onto the male sub to be OK... if she is going to be my Domme and is into the idea, what can I actually do to make things good for her? The answer might be in a conversation with each other.
But more than often it will including taking on much more housework, and not expecting playtime all day every day.

I also agree with this comment. Expecting ‘reward’ is very off putting I am not sure how this is playing out but often subs are wanting play and they offer themselves up like a prize. Unfortunately what they don’t appreciate in this type of dynamic is that the dominance is the ‘prize’ which has to be earned. Depends on the Domme this might be through domestic service, chasity or something else that pleases her; unlikely to be sexual. Very very useful toys might end up being used as daily/regular sexual outlets but that doesn’t mean the sub is getting everything on their wish list.

Obviously this is my view from my experience and I’m a hard Domme (sadist). So that shapes my perspective.

My advice would be to try non-sexual negotiation of some tasks and see if you can establish a routine. Tasks like household chores, responsibilities for organisation of activities, car cleaning/charging. Maybe daily weekly tasks with some kind of submissive check in once they are completed. For me I would love this and it would bring the headspace for everything else you are probably craving. Good luck 🤞