When I was young I maybe had a similar perspective. The reason I think is because people with less life experience tend to only have things like Hollywood to latch onto in order to understand what intimacy is. And too often it is portrayed as a thing that is the man's responsibility to make sure Read more… the woman is pleaured. I don't think that's the reality.

Real connection happens when both or all people are bringing an individual responsibility for their own pleasure to the encounter. If the other person is just waiting for you to "make them feel good" they've lost the plot imo.

I'm not trying to argue about this scarlet-rose, but If we're using credentials to qualify our opinions, I've been in tech for nearly 25 years as a full stack software developer. I work with ai nearly every day. You are almost certainly getting your news from the outlets that are just looking for Read more… clicks and views. It's not perfect, but the outrage is mostly manufactured. 🫶

I've never been with someone who is trans. My brain realizes that once I've crossed a threshold I just need friction. So the logical conclusion would be that I could be with anyone. But my body just seems to need certain things in a partner in order to cross that threshold. With time that would Read more… probably change.

So my guess is most of the people you're getting that feeling from (that you need to change something about yourself) are likely just inexperienced with that sort of connection maybe? The real problem would be if they're actively telling you to change. I'd avoid those people. 🫶

No doubt ai will have a profound impact on the world, but using it to misrepresent yourself is just wrong. That said I wholeheartedly disagree with people who think you shouldn't even be using it for knowledge or creative work. Just stay disciplined and it won't wreck you like the haters say it Read more… will.

This is more just from my regular life before BDSM since I only started building connections in this community. I'm not the kind of Dom who punishes. But if a sub does act out, maybe to test whether you're soft, the sub just needs to realize they're getting nowhere. You just let them wear Read more… themselves out trying to top from the bottom.

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