I've been a Dominant for 15 years, roughly, found my first sub at 25 year's old and never looked back
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Never really needed them as a Dom, just don't hurt me back and we'll be fine, lol.
That's pretty deep, I'm hoping you've found that person
The good ol' Dom/sub, who is really in charge?
One could say: A Dom needs to be nurturing, knowing, educate, look after their sub as well as keeping things interesting while working within the confines of the Limits set out by the sub. So, thinking about it, the sub gets everything they want, safe Read more… from what they don't want... Just turn up and get what they want/need, which can often mean service, but if they want to serve then they basically get what they want.
As opposed to the surface-perception that Doms get what they want because they give the orders and it's pretty simple.
Honestly, like all relationships, it depends on the people. There are Service Doms, there are used/***d subs... And everything in-between.
Be yourself. And see where you sit.