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The dreaded drop, can I get past it or learn to cope if should I back away?

Absolutely this .... I visit his home ... all is totally separate from my own life .. I'm not emotionally attached at all... probably slightly physically attached as there is a chemistry for me ....
I do feel it's made a bigger gap in my but I couldn't stay vanilla forever x

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icon-wio subtle2021 wrote something in the forum
The dreaded drop, can I get past it or learn to cope if should I back away?

Thanks essexsub4dom yeah he is very experienced and has more meets planned where as I'm straight back to normality for me... definitely the reassurance is needed ... x

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The dreaded drop, can I get past it or learn to cope if should I back away?

Thanks all yes the primal empress does an amazing piece on sub/dom drop. Im in the hormone industry so I get it I just wish it wasn't so intense and I wish it didn't last as long.
Occasionally he will chat a few days later if we can but equally I don't want him to interpret my feelings as Read more… attachment or blurring of lines, I am quite aware it is just a physiological and hormonal response. As out meets have intensified I definitely feel and am getting a real love for subspace.

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icon-wio subtle2021 wrote something in the forum
The dreaded drop, can I get past it or learn to cope if should I back away?

Thank you I am spending more time doing fitness than ever so that must be a help. I think its the return to Mum/Wife that hits hard. The Dom I play with is single and often has other meets set up which is absolutely fine and its hot and I enjoy the discussion and dynamic loads but there's not a Read more… natural transition for me.
Thanks so much for the reassurance and reply. I will work on more coping strategies!

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icon-wio subtle2021 created a topic in BDSM Forum
The dreaded drop, can I get past it or learn to cope if should I back away?
Fairly new to this so please bare with me. New to the physical side of this exciting world!
Will not bore with details but have met a great dominant guy and I am chatting to other people/may meet them.
I am in a relationship and he doesn't know what I am doing (please no judging I have tried so so Read more…so hard).
Anyway I wasn't prepared for the whole 'drop' the first time it totally threw me but in with that was guilt etc it was a good 4-5 days of significant lows.
The last time was slightly more extreme and the the low is crippling. We chat afterwards/have some time and a shower etc. I just do not know how to minimise the drop a bit. I am loving this lifestyle and the thrills but these huge lows are making me consider not playing again.
Thanks for any advice.
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Deleted profile ➦Deleted profile quote kinkysub4dom:❝Yes it also helped my ex to, to adjust back into boyfriend mode. So nice when Dom/sub have equal appreciation of each other. ❞
And support one another also. ➦Deleted profile quote kinkysub4dom:❝Yes it also helped my ex to, to adjust back into boyfriend mode. So nice when Dom/sub have equal appreciation of each other. ❞
And support one another also.
Like 12.08.2021 13:11:08
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kinkysub4dom ➦kinkysub4dom quote Deleted profile:❝Love this idea. Dom drop too pls.❞
Yes it also helped my ex to, to adjust back into boyfriend mode. So nice when Dom/sub have equal appreciation of each other. ➦kinkysub4dom quote Deleted profile:❝Love this idea. Dom drop too pls.❞
Yes it also helped my ex to, to adjust back into boyfriend mode. So nice when Dom/sub have equal appreciation of each other.
Like · 12.08.2021 12:04:46
Deleted profile ➦Deleted profile quote kinkysub4dom:❝I wonder if on the FET app there could be a chat room added called Sub drop check in so any sub who feeling the drop can jump in and find someone to chat things through with. Don’t know if it’s possible I’m still getting to grips with the app. ❞
Love this idea. Dom drop too pls. ➦Deleted profile quote kinkysub4dom:❝I wonder if on the FET app there could be a chat room added called Sub drop check in so any sub who feeling the drop can jump in and find someone to chat things through with. Don’t know if it’s possible I’m still getting to grips with the app. ❞
Love this idea. Dom drop too pls.
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