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I am brand new to the community and open to explore new ventures!😉 I am willing to try almost anything, but I do not wish to have S3X - I am here to play and have some fun with like minded people, so lets see how creative you can be😏😜

Female (27) Strand, Western Cape

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BabyCay

I’m someone who loves to serve, but only for those who elevate me. I enjoy various forms of training, including impact and obedience. I have a smart mouth and know how to use it.

Female (28) Pretoria, Gauteng

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Jay-1391

Not looking for a full time Dom, Bratty sub No social media so don't ask Please read my profile first, I can tell when you haven't 420 If you don't like brats or pets 👀 don't text Read my limits If you DON'T listen to me when I say NO I will BLOCK you, respect me its all I ask. I'm tired of assholes. DON'T expect me to be easy if you disappear for days then come back for a chat

Female (20) Durban, KwaZulu-Natal

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Ashley-4427

“Let’s skip the small talk and get to the tied and teased part.” Pleasure-seeker. Rope-lover. Rule-breaker. I’m here for the spark that starts with eye contact and ends with bruised knees and breathless grins. Whether you’re dominant, submissive, switchy, or just curious—if you’re into connection, consent, and a little chaos—we might just click. Kinks? Plenty. Limits? Clear. Now tell me yours…

Female (26) Durban, KwaZulu-Natal

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VeronicaZAR

Zulu goddess that loves to play with obedient boys. 5years as a dominatrix I've encountered in many plays which I've enjoyed, so don't be scared goddess knows X.. T. W..i..T..E..R(@Goddess_V22Sa)

Female (24) Johannesburg, Gauteng

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ForgottenTLR

I'm a young woman looking for her soulmate and life time partner. I want to learn and explore this lifestyle in every way I feel comfortable with. I'm a teacher and enjoy my profession very much but I get home and crave more, I want more... I find myself lost in dark romance novel and often wonder what those experiences would look and feel like in real life.

Female (30) Menlo Park, Gauteng

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Habibi-8460

I'm a bisexual, silly, and bratty sub who's into mommies/daddies and Sirs/Mistresses. I love music, reading fantasy books, and amusement parks. I'm down for friends or more😉

Female (19) Johannesburg, Gauteng

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Reiigh

Making the most of every day and looking for someone who does the same. I appreciate intelligence, kindness, and a good sense of humor. If you're up for a real conversation, send me a message. What's the most interesting thing you've learned recently?

Female (25) Lenasia, Gauteng

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Brandiii-2752

Hello my name is Brandy I’m into power play, role-playing, *** play, bondage, wax play, edging, *** deprivation, or *** Bondage and discipline Sadism and masochism Cuckolding Roleplay BDSM Exhibitionism Foot fetish Impact play Frotteurism Balloon fetish Orgasm control

Female (32) Cape Town, Western Cape

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Kinkyzn

I have a broad mind and there isn't much that I wouldn't do, all depending of course. I tend to obey and enjoy pleasing the one that pleases me. Respect is earned, trust is given Likes:- When Sir looks after me, And if you really interested, you welcome to ask

Female (46) Durban, KwaZulu-Natal

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Nontethelelo

About Me:* I'm a fun-loving person who enjoys watching movies, listening to music, reading, and exploring new places. When I'm not traveling or trying out new restaurants, you can find me cozied up with a good book or belting out my favorite tunes. I believe life is too short to take yourself too seriously, but I'm also looking for someone who can appreciate the serious moments too. *What I'm Looking For:* I'm looking for a serious relationship with someone who values friendship, trust, and support. If you're a kind-hearted person with a great sense of humor, I'd love to get to know you better. Let's laugh together, explore new adventures, and build something meaningful. *Key Qualities:* - Supportive nature - Kindness - Sense of humor - Shared interests (movies, music, travel)

Female (29) Richards Bay, KwaZulu-Natal

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Mimi-7066

Meet Mistress Mimi – Your Sensual Sovereign Age: 27 | Location: Your darkest fantasies Step into the realm of Mistress Mimi, where power is seductive and submission is an art. As a skilled Dominatrix, Mimi revels in exploring the fine line between pleasure and discipline, ensuring her presence lingers in both your mind and body. Confident, commanding, and undeniably captivating, she takes delight in unraveling desires you didn’t know you had. Whether you seek firm control or sensual ***, Mistress Mimi tailors every encounter to create an unforgettable experience.

Female (27) Menlo Park, Gauteng

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BeeGee

I am currently in a domestic discipline relationship (DDLG) and hoping to meet friends who are within the BDSM community as it gets very lonely out here. Being a good girl makes me happy. But I must first be bad to be good ;-) I enjoy reading, writing and honestly thinking in general. I love pop music of all genres. Yeah that is about it.

Female (33) Menlo Park, Gauteng

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Kinkymilkingfemdom

Sexy busty , coloured woman looking to enjoy some fun with the right sub. I'm a femdom. Show your worthy and maybe I'll let you suck me. I'm bi sexual

Female (30) Johannesburg, Gauteng

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ChubbySnuggleMuffin

Hello! I’m a sweet, sensitive 28-year-old little exploring this world with love and care. I’m looking for a nurturing, protective caregiver who understands the need for emotional connection and patience. Right now, I’m just here to learn and grow in a safe space. I’m interested in soft, nurturing dynamics and someone who values care, trust, and affection over anything else. I’m not in a rush—just looking for someone who can offer safety, patience, and gentle affection. I’m also happy to make friends and connect with like-minded souls who enjoy emotional depth and softness. If you’re kind, gentle, and enjoy caring for a little, feel free to reach out. I’m excited to meet you!

Female (28) Scottburgh, KwaZulu-Natal

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s*******a

I’m single at the moment. I’m not interested in hookups or short term relationships. I’m bi with a preference for women. I’m a bottom. NOT A SUB. tried it and it wasn’t for me.

Female (20) Benoni, Gauteng

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S******y

A nerdy gamer girl looking for a good time.. Currently living my biggest kink so that makes me a happy girl :bite: :heart_eyes: PLEASE NOTE I'm not here for any commitments, here to get to know the kinky side of myself, learn about bdsm and what it has to offer.. I do offer services like sub/dom but not on the app..

Female (27) Mpumalanga, Mpumalanga

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s********s

✦ The short of it ✦ . I’m not here for casual dominance or instant gratification. I want something slow and deliberate with a mind that can contend, a tone that can still, and hands that can exercise reverence as well as restraint. . I’m mouthy, whimsical, filthy-minded, occasionally feral. . Don’t tell me to submit. Make me want to. . ✦ The long of it ✦ . Maybe I ask too much, cave too soon, think too deeply. Maybe I romanticise the ache of it all. Maybe I want to be seen first, understood before I’m used and claimed. Maybe I want to be ruined by someone who offers containment and commands control, who curates a connection that touches the mind as a precursor to the body. . I’m a soft-bodied, sharp-minded woman with curves and contradictions in equal measure. I’m a feminist, degenerate, demisexual, sapiosexual, humanist. A service-oriented submissive, masochist who thrives under precision and intention. Power, to me, is more than a performance. It’s an edict built out of consent, attunement, and humility. . My kinks live in the quiet war between control and chaos: Power exchange, impact play, orgasm control, choking, slapping, marking, restraints, overstimulation, praise tangled with ***, sensation and mindfuckery, all orbiting that sacred pause between “yes, Sir” and “make me.” . Outside of kink, I’m equal parts poet and pedagogue. I read too much, write constantly, talk to my plants like pets, and geek out on true crime. I love live music, late-night philosophy, and the kind of humor that makes you wince before you laugh. If you’ve made it this far, thank you for your curiosity. Say hi and send me a haiku. Theme: The Devastation of Consciousness xD

Female (36) Pretoria, Gauteng

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G**********s

I’m your ultimate temptation… and I don’t settle for less than devotion. ***s, attention, and gifts are my love language. Worship me… if you dare.

Female (24) Johannesburg, Gauteng

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H*******9

I'm a 5'3ft petite girl who love having some fun exploring my sexuality. I've haven't done anything with girls even though I'm bi. I'm down to try new things.

Female (22) Athlone, Western Cape

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j*************9

I'm a sub/brat who absolutely loves giving love and receiving it. my hubby and I agree on connecting and fluid motion of people,vibes and just being part of a community that understands communication and respecting boundaries. I love my sassy ways that come with a lot of heart.. always ready to be here to serve after my spank and a glass of wine.. respect ,loyalty honestly goes a long way.

Female (32) Johannesburg, Gauteng

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M**********o

I am not interested in playing pretend. I am a Domatry, not a title I wear for aesthetics, but a truth I live with purpose. My dominance is not loud or performative. It is intentional, controlled, and deeply rooted in who I am. I command respect not because I demand it, but because I embody it. Every gesture, every word, every silence has meaning. I do not chase. I observe, I select, and I lead. This space is not about fantasy. It is about dynamic reality, the electric tension between trust and control, devotion and discipline, pleasure and power. I’m not here to entertain bored tourists or thrill-seekers with no understanding of the depths this lifestyle offers.

Female (37) Johannesburg, Gauteng

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k****i

I'm a typical sporty/academic person I won't know if I like it till I try it unless it's a red activity. Safe words Submissive Brat Needs a firm dom

Female (18) Centurion, Gauteng

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Female (27) Strand, Western Cape

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VeronicaZAR

Zulu goddess that loves to play with obedient boys. 5years as a dominatrix I've encountered in many plays which I've enjoyed, so don't be scared goddess knows X.. T. W..i..T..E..R(@Goddess_V22Sa)

Female (24) Johannesburg, Gauteng

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Kinkymilkingfemdom

Sexy busty , coloured woman looking to enjoy some fun with the right sub. I'm a femdom. Show your worthy and maybe I'll let you suck me. I'm bi sexual

Female (30) Johannesburg, Gauteng

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Jay-1391

Female (20) Durban, KwaZulu-Natal

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Female (26) Durban, KwaZulu-Natal

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Female (32) Cape Town, Western Cape

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Female (46) Durban, KwaZulu-Natal

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BabyCay

I’m someone who loves to serve, but only for those who elevate me. I enjoy various forms of training, including impact and obedience. I have a smart mouth and know how to use it.

Female (28) Pretoria, Gauteng

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Nontethelelo

Female (29) Richards Bay, KwaZulu-Natal

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Female (33) Menlo Park, Gauteng

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Reiigh

Female (25) Lenasia, Gauteng

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ChubbySnuggleMuffin

Female (28) Scottburgh, KwaZulu-Natal

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Habibi-8460

I'm a bisexual, silly, and bratty sub who's into mommies/daddies and Sirs/Mistresses. I love music, reading fantasy books, and amusement parks. I'm down for friends or more😉

Female (19) Johannesburg, Gauteng

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Mimi-7066

Female (27) Menlo Park, Gauteng

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ForgottenTLR

Female (30) Menlo Park, Gauteng

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G**********s

I’m your ultimate temptation… and I don’t settle for less than devotion. ***s, attention, and gifts are my love language. Worship me… if you dare.

Female (24) Johannesburg, Gauteng

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l**************t

A devoted submissive slut with a very specialized talent (and obsession!) for pleasing. I’m a head obsessed goat and I bring that singular focus to everything I do.

Female (19) Boitekong, North West

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Female (37) Johannesburg, Gauteng

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Powerful, divine and Confident. only those who truly understand their place can please me.

Female (26) Johannesburg, Gauteng

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Y*****M

I’m a dominant woman who knows what she wants-strength, elegance, and a man who can match my intensity. I love to lead with confidence, but I also have a softer side that thrives when I’m genuinely cared for, adored, and spoiled with real attention. I’m not here for boys who play — I’m drawn to mature, secure men who know how to treat a woman like a priority. If you carry yourself like a man who provides comfort, presence, and power, we’ll get along perfectly.

Female (23) Johannesburg, Gauteng

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s*******e

I’m a woman who knows exactly what she wants,control, devotion, and discipline wrapped in obedience. I take pride in guiding those who crave structure and purpose under my watch. My presence demands respect, my voice commands attention, and I find satisfaction in shaping those who choose to serve and I have a low tolerance for disobedience or arrogance.If you call me Mistress, do so with meaning. If you serve me, do so with intent.

Female (23) Douglas, Northern Cape

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H*******9

I'm a 5'3ft petite girl who love having some fun exploring my sexuality. I've haven't done anything with girls even though I'm bi. I'm down to try new things.

Female (22) Athlone, Western Cape

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as I’m a South Africa black beautiful women base in Easter cape city I’m biomedical student at the university of Walter sisilu I love trying out nice restaurants I’d love to travel to see beautiful place looking for a provide a loving and caring gent to end up having long term relationships ❤️‍🩹🥰❤️

Female (25) Humansdorp, Eastern Cape

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Let's get to know each other a little bit.

I want to be dominated by a man experienced in bdsm experiences. I need to be taught how to take direction, how to please my master and how to take all that is given me with a smile, and please and thank you.

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Meet up and some fun??

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Ideal date:
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You realize how much you love eating tacos, and I am taken aback at how much I love meat.
You eat my taco. I get repeatedly stuffed by your meat.
You take me out for ice cream later. I like Jeni’s.

Don’t be far away. Please be willing to have a conversation. And for gods sake, make me fucking laugh.

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Orrville

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BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Phoenix

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Submissive men to the front only
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Looking for a soft Daddy Dom 🥹

I need a dom that will focus on me and only me (if we connect, of course). I crave attention and love. All I wanna do is cuddle up beside you and color and watch cartoons 🥺

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28F - Any guys love food?😍😍

Heyyy I have a weird kink🙈I would love to find a guy who would send me pics of what he’s having to eat throughout the day😍I’m very visual lady. I want to imagine sucking you off as you eat👅 send pics of what you’re having, a full plate then empty, four bag of food, empty, wrappers, bites on your burger, chewed up, in the drive-through, anything like that😍😍 fast food or take out is definitely my favorite but you can send anything, it all makes me wet💦 can i suck you while you eat? I’d love to suck you off as you order too👅 voice notes or videos of you ordering some food/eating would be nice too🙈😍 ONLY message me if you will send me pics!

BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 46 years ● 500km around USA Greensboro

Fun

Looking for someone to share some videos of themselves doing things they might do to me!

Surprise me

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Looking for more like daddy sugar daddy dom switch

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Fantasy

Hii I jst wanted to come on see if anyone is interested.. I wanna get tied to a tree and fkd so hard I like BDSM and CNC and clit *** n no strings attached is love to know if your interested or have any more suggestions we can do together 🤗

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Michigan Women

Hello! I’m looking for some other women in Michigan specifically Detroit area. I want to make some new connections. Women only

NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Detroit

Hello

Im still new to this but ima a sub looking for a dom I can click with and learn from and go from there. I'm really laid back as long as you keep it real we're good, I'm definitely a doctor who,marvel,harry potter,and a lowkey anime girl I love drawing every now and then Love places with beautiful scenery and cool aesthetic themes

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Seeking female submissive

I'm seeking a female submissive. I'm not interested in online only. It has to be in person at least most of the time. Ideally seeking someone who likes bondage, flogging, orgasm denial, teasing, breast play among others.

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Looking for a mommy

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