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Ashley-4427
Ashley-4427
“Let’s skip the small talk and get to the tied and teased part.” Pleasure-seeker. Rope-lover. Rule-breaker. I’m here for the spark that starts with eye contact and ends with bruised knees and breathless grins. Whether you’re dominant, submissive, switchy, or just curious—if you’re into connection, consent, and a little chaos—we might just click. Kinks? Plenty. Limits? Clear. Now tell me yours…
Female (26) Durban, KwaZulu-Natal
VeronicaZAR
VeronicaZAR
Zulu goddess that loves to play with obedient boys. 5years as a dominatrix I've encountered in many plays which I've enjoyed, so don't be scared goddess knows X.. T. W..i..T..E..R(@Goddess_V22Sa)
Female (24) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Shadow_Mistress_X
Shadow_Mistress_X
I am brand new to the community and open to explore new ventures!😉 I am willing to try almost anything, but I do not wish to have S3X - I am here to play and have some fun with like minded people, so lets see how creative you can be😏😜
Female (27) Strand, Western Cape
Habibi-8460
Habibi-8460
I'm a bisexual, silly, and bratty sub who's into mommies/daddies and Sirs/Mistresses. I love music, reading fantasy books, and amusement parks. I'm down for friends or more😉
Female (19) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Jay-1391
Jay-1391
Not looking for a full time Dom, Bratty sub No social media so don't ask Please read my profile first, I can tell when you haven't 420 If you don't like brats or pets 👀 don't text Read my limits If you DON'T listen to me when I say NO I will BLOCK you, respect me its all I ask. I'm tired of assholes. DON'T expect me to be easy if you disappear for days then come back for a chat
Female (21) Durban, KwaZulu-Natal
Reiigh
Reiigh
Making the most of every day and looking for someone who does the same. I appreciate intelligence, kindness, and a good sense of humor. If you're up for a real conversation, send me a message. What's the most interesting thing you've learned recently?
Female (25) Lenasia, Gauteng
BeeGee
BeeGee
I am currently in a domestic discipline relationship (DDLG) and hoping to meet friends who are within the BDSM community as it gets very lonely out here. Being a good girl makes me happy. But I must first be bad to be good ;-) I enjoy reading, writing and honestly thinking in general. I love pop music of all genres. Yeah that is about it.
Female (34) Menlo Park, Gauteng
Kinkyzn
Kinkyzn
I have a broad mind and there isn't much that I wouldn't do, all depending of course. I tend to obey and enjoy pleasing the one that pleases me. Respect is earned, trust is given Likes:- When Sir looks after me, And if you really interested, you welcome to ask
Female (47) Durban, KwaZulu-Natal
Nontethelelo
Nontethelelo
About Me:* I'm a fun-loving person who enjoys watching movies, listening to music, reading, and exploring new places. When I'm not traveling or trying out new restaurants, you can find me cozied up with a good book or belting out my favorite tunes. I believe life is too short to take yourself too seriously, but I'm also looking for someone who can appreciate the serious moments too. *What I'm Looking For:* I'm looking for a serious relationship with someone who values friendship, trust, and support. If you're a kind-hearted person with a great sense of humor, I'd love to get to know you better. Let's laugh together, explore new adventures, and build something meaningful. *Key Qualities:* - Supportive nature - Kindness - Sense of humor - Shared interests (movies, music, travel)
Female (30) Richards Bay, KwaZulu-Natal
Kinkymilkingfemdom
Kinkymilkingfemdom
Sexy busty , coloured woman looking to enjoy some fun with the right sub. I'm a femdom. Show your worthy and maybe I'll let you suck me. I'm bi sexual
Female (30) Johannesburg, Gauteng
ChubbySnuggleMuffin
ChubbySnuggleMuffin
Hello! I’m a sweet, sensitive 28-year-old little exploring this world with love and care. I’m looking for a nurturing, protective caregiver who understands the need for emotional connection and patience. Right now, I’m just here to learn and grow in a safe space. I’m interested in soft, nurturing dynamics and someone who values care, trust, and affection over anything else. I’m not in a rush—just looking for someone who can offer safety, patience, and gentle affection. I’m also happy to make friends and connect with like-minded souls who enjoy emotional depth and softness. If you’re kind, gentle, and enjoy caring for a little, feel free to reach out. I’m excited to meet you!
Female (29) Scottburgh, KwaZulu-Natal
johannesburg949
j*************9
I'm a sub/brat who absolutely loves giving love and receiving it. my hubby and I agree on connecting and fluid motion of people,vibes and just being part of a community that understands communication and respecting boundaries. I love my sassy ways that come with a lot of heart.. always ready to be here to serve after my spank and a glass of wine.. respect ,loyalty honestly goes a long way.
Female (33) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Lokiano
L*****o
i am mainly a sub but also partly a switch, i prefer bdsm with primal touches im looking to be intelectually and emotionally stimulated, im not against specific kinks as long as they are done hygenically
Female (25) Bellville, Western Cape
Hailey_69
H*******9
I'm a 5'3ft petite girl who love having some fun exploring my sexuality. I've haven't done anything with girls even though I'm bi. I'm down to try new things.
Female (22) Athlone, Western Cape
kamiii
k****i
I'm a typical sporty/academic person I won't know if I like it till I try it unless it's a red activity. Safe words Submissive Brat Needs a firm dom
Female (19) Centurion, Gauteng
mommys_here
m*********e
Hi my lovey. Well I’ve never really seen myself as a sub and I never have been. I’ve always enjoyed being the more dominant one in the relationship, and I noticed I love being a mommy. I like taking care of my partner and just nurturing them to their heart’s content. I can’t wait to make you my fucking ***, don’t worry, I’ll take care of you.
Female (20) Boordfontein, Gauteng
sub_becca
s*******a
I’m single at the moment. I’m not interested in hookups or short term relationships. I’m bi with a preference for women. I’m a bottom. NOT A SUB. tried it and it wasn’t for me.
Female (20) Kempton Park, Gauteng
durban54041
d*********1
I’m a jazz soul that lives by improvising, feeling, and flowing with purpose. I find beauty in energy, silence, and small moments that speak louder than words. Creativity runs through me...whether it’s writing, music, or manifesting the life I envision. I value kindness, depth, and connection that feels real. The kind that stirs something beyond the surface. I live by intuition, guided by faith, rhythm, and the quiet certainty that everything meant for me will find its way.
Female (18) Westville, KwaZulu-Natal
MistressSego
M**********o
I am not interested in playing pretend. I am a Domatry, not a title I wear for aesthetics, but a truth I live with purpose. My dominance is not loud or performative. It is intentional, controlled, and deeply rooted in who I am. I command respect not because I demand it, but because I embody it. Every gesture, every word, every silence has meaning. I do not chase. I observe, I select, and I lead. This space is not about fantasy. It is about dynamic reality, the electric tension between trust and control, devotion and discipline, pleasure and power. I’m not here to entertain bored tourists or thrill-seekers with no understanding of the depths this lifestyle offers.
Female (38) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Princess_xoxo_
P************_
Fun loving, and keen to explore new things. Sweet heart by day Dom by night.
Female (24) Cape Town, Western Cape
littlethroatgxat
l**************t
A devoted submissive slut with a very specialized talent (and obsession!) for pleasing. I’m a head obsessed goat and I bring that singular focus to everything I do.
Female (19) Boitekong, North West
londiwe2000
l*********0
as I’m a South Africa black beautiful women base in Easter cape city I’m biomedical student at the university of Walter sisilu I love trying out nice restaurants I’d love to travel to see beautiful place looking for a provide a loving and caring gent to end up having long term relationships ❤️‍🩹🥰❤️
Female (25) Humansdorp, Eastern Cape
GreedyGoddes
G**********s
I’m your ultimate temptation… and I don’t settle for less than devotion. Tributes, attention, and gifts are my love language. Worship me… if you dare.
Female (24) Johannesburg, Gauteng
angelsmile
a********e
I love a loyal slave who can give me pleasure non stop sucking my clit and ass and tongue fucking and licking my ass so clean. I love to receive pleasure only no sex.
Female (25) Table View, Western Cape

New members in South Africa

Shadow_Mistress_X
Shadow_Mistress_X
I am brand new to the community and open to explore new ventures!😉 I am willing to try almost anything, but I do not wish to have S3X - I am here to play and have some fun with like minded people, so lets see how creative you can be😏😜
Female (27) Strand, Western Cape
VeronicaZAR
VeronicaZAR
Zulu goddess that loves to play with obedient boys. 5years as a dominatrix I've encountered in many plays which I've enjoyed, so don't be scared goddess knows X.. T. W..i..T..E..R(@Goddess_V22Sa)
Female (24) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Kinkymilkingfemdom
Kinkymilkingfemdom
Sexy busty , coloured woman looking to enjoy some fun with the right sub. I'm a femdom. Show your worthy and maybe I'll let you suck me. I'm bi sexual
Female (30) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Jay-1391
Jay-1391
Not looking for a full time Dom, Bratty sub No social media so don't ask Please read my profile first, I can tell when you haven't 420 If you don't like brats or pets 👀 don't text Read my limits If you DON'T listen to me when I say NO I will BLOCK you, respect me its all I ask. I'm tired of assholes. DON'T expect me to be easy if you disappear for days then come back for a chat
Female (21) Durban, KwaZulu-Natal
Ashley-4427
Ashley-4427
“Let’s skip the small talk and get to the tied and teased part.” Pleasure-seeker. Rope-lover. Rule-breaker. I’m here for the spark that starts with eye contact and ends with bruised knees and breathless grins. Whether you’re dominant, submissive, switchy, or just curious—if you’re into connection, consent, and a little chaos—we might just click. Kinks? Plenty. Limits? Clear. Now tell me yours…
Female (26) Durban, KwaZulu-Natal
Kinkyzn
Kinkyzn
I have a broad mind and there isn't much that I wouldn't do, all depending of course. I tend to obey and enjoy pleasing the one that pleases me. Respect is earned, trust is given Likes:- When Sir looks after me, And if you really interested, you welcome to ask
Female (47) Durban, KwaZulu-Natal
Nontethelelo
Nontethelelo
About Me:* I'm a fun-loving person who enjoys watching movies, listening to music, reading, and exploring new places. When I'm not traveling or trying out new restaurants, you can find me cozied up with a good book or belting out my favorite tunes. I believe life is too short to take yourself too seriously, but I'm also looking for someone who can appreciate the serious moments too. *What I'm Looking For:* I'm looking for a serious relationship with someone who values friendship, trust, and support. If you're a kind-hearted person with a great sense of humor, I'd love to get to know you better. Let's laugh together, explore new adventures, and build something meaningful. *Key Qualities:* - Supportive nature - Kindness - Sense of humor - Shared interests (movies, music, travel)
Female (30) Richards Bay, KwaZulu-Natal
BeeGee
BeeGee
I am currently in a domestic discipline relationship (DDLG) and hoping to meet friends who are within the BDSM community as it gets very lonely out here. Being a good girl makes me happy. But I must first be bad to be good ;-) I enjoy reading, writing and honestly thinking in general. I love pop music of all genres. Yeah that is about it.
Female (34) Menlo Park, Gauteng
Reiigh
Reiigh
Making the most of every day and looking for someone who does the same. I appreciate intelligence, kindness, and a good sense of humor. If you're up for a real conversation, send me a message. What's the most interesting thing you've learned recently?
Female (25) Lenasia, Gauteng
ChubbySnuggleMuffin
ChubbySnuggleMuffin
Hello! I’m a sweet, sensitive 28-year-old little exploring this world with love and care. I’m looking for a nurturing, protective caregiver who understands the need for emotional connection and patience. Right now, I’m just here to learn and grow in a safe space. I’m interested in soft, nurturing dynamics and someone who values care, trust, and affection over anything else. I’m not in a rush—just looking for someone who can offer safety, patience, and gentle affection. I’m also happy to make friends and connect with like-minded souls who enjoy emotional depth and softness. If you’re kind, gentle, and enjoy caring for a little, feel free to reach out. I’m excited to meet you!
Female (29) Scottburgh, KwaZulu-Natal
Habibi-8460
Habibi-8460
I'm a bisexual, silly, and bratty sub who's into mommies/daddies and Sirs/Mistresses. I love music, reading fantasy books, and amusement parks. I'm down for friends or more😉
Female (19) Johannesburg, Gauteng
durban54041
d*********1
I’m a jazz soul that lives by improvising, feeling, and flowing with purpose. I find beauty in energy, silence, and small moments that speak louder than words. Creativity runs through me...whether it’s writing, music, or manifesting the life I envision. I value kindness, depth, and connection that feels real. The kind that stirs something beyond the surface. I live by intuition, guided by faith, rhythm, and the quiet certainty that everything meant for me will find its way.
Female (18) Westville, KwaZulu-Natal
GreedyGoddes
G**********s
I’m your ultimate temptation… and I don’t settle for less than devotion. Tributes, attention, and gifts are my love language. Worship me… if you dare.
Female (24) Johannesburg, Gauteng
littlethroatgxat
l**************t
A devoted submissive slut with a very specialized talent (and obsession!) for pleasing. I’m a head obsessed goat and I bring that singular focus to everything I do.
Female (19) Boitekong, North West
MistressSego
M**********o
I am not interested in playing pretend. I am a Domatry, not a title I wear for aesthetics, but a truth I live with purpose. My dominance is not loud or performative. It is intentional, controlled, and deeply rooted in who I am. I command respect not because I demand it, but because I embody it. Every gesture, every word, every silence has meaning. I do not chase. I observe, I select, and I lead. This space is not about fantasy. It is about dynamic reality, the electric tension between trust and control, devotion and discipline, pleasure and power. I’m not here to entertain bored tourists or thrill-seekers with no understanding of the depths this lifestyle offers.
Female (38) Johannesburg, Gauteng
MistressLX
M********X
Powerful, divine and Confident. only those who truly understand their place can please me.
Female (27) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Yanda_M
Y*****M
I’m a dominant woman who knows what she wants-strength, elegance, and a man who can match my intensity. I love to lead with confidence, but I also have a softer side that thrives when I’m genuinely cared for, adored, and spoiled with real attention. I’m not here for boys who play — I’m drawn to mature, secure men who know how to treat a woman like a priority. If you carry yourself like a man who provides comfort, presence, and power, we’ll get along perfectly.
Female (23) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Hailey_69
H*******9
I'm a 5'3ft petite girl who love having some fun exploring my sexuality. I've haven't done anything with girls even though I'm bi. I'm down to try new things.
Female (22) Athlone, Western Cape
londiwe2000
l*********0
as I’m a South Africa black beautiful women base in Easter cape city I’m biomedical student at the university of Walter sisilu I love trying out nice restaurants I’d love to travel to see beautiful place looking for a provide a loving and caring gent to end up having long term relationships ❤️‍🩹🥰❤️
Female (25) Humansdorp, Eastern Cape
angelsmile
a********e
I love a loyal slave who can give me pleasure non stop sucking my clit and ass and tongue fucking and licking my ass so clean. I love to receive pleasure only no sex.
Female (25) Table View, Western Cape
lilykay
l*****y
Im a very soft sweet girl. I like pink and bunnies is my favourite ***! OH and kittens I'm a little and Im looking for a caregiver 💝 I'm 19 years old
Female (19) Centurion, Gauteng
kamiii
k****i
I'm a typical sporty/academic person I won't know if I like it till I try it unless it's a red activity. Safe words Submissive Brat Needs a firm dom
Female (19) Centurion, Gauteng
Lokiano
L*****o
i am mainly a sub but also partly a switch, i prefer bdsm with primal touches im looking to be intelectually and emotionally stimulated, im not against specific kinks as long as they are done hygenically
Female (25) Bellville, Western Cape
Princess_xoxo_
P************_
Fun loving, and keen to explore new things. Sweet heart by day Dom by night.
Female (24) Cape Town, Western Cape

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Anyone in branson mo

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Christina11253
Anyone in branson mo

Wanna have some fun right now
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littlemissbellaburch
Mistress needing sub……..

Message me.
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Lesbiansubgirl
Funtime

Any woman down for some fun?😉
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 100km around Netherlands Emmen
sub-girl101
Looking for a dom

I’m looking for a dom who is tall and muscular
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Suggybu
Mistress

A good boy
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Missy_baby
Bored🥱🙄 Show me you’re serious

Looking for real meet ups😝
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BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 90km around USA Merrick
sweetpeapam89
Bday planning 🥳

My birthday is on Easter long weekend.
Want to celebrate with me? 🥳
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kitchener286609
Looking for a girl to share tonight

Hey looking for a girl thats a switch thats looking to be more in touch with their dom side
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BostonBrat2026
Disciplinarian needed

Looking for a true disciplinarian in or near the Boston MA area to hold me accountable.
BDSM Play Partner ● 38 to 55 years ● 30km around USA Boston
DaddysCanvas1019
Fluffy Canvas for use

Hello everyone! My Daddy is currently out of state and has okayed for me to be used up tonight. There are a few rules but nothing serious that can't be handled. I will be hosting at a location thats secure.

No Communication outside of here
No Kissing
Markings must be left in my Fluffy Canvas
If my daddy's calls, I answer the phone but we continue doing our thing
Release all over my face multiple times.
Kinky Date ● 21 to 65 years ● 100km around USA Minto
Mads1995
Little looking for daddy

Hello! I’m a little girl 👧🏻 that wears pulls up and diapers sometimes. I’m still into being a big girl sometimes but my little mind might be still there…I hope to chat soon.
Feel free to message me I can be friends too!
Some kinks I enjoy/okay with:
-spankings
-bathroom use control
-TPE
-light restraints
-watersports
Kinky Date ● 26 to 38 years ● 485km around USA Centerville
Mistress_Dom23
Need a obedient Submissive girl

Hey cuties, im right now looking for a SUBMISSIVE Girl, to guide and have fun with, even if your inexperienced I'll help ya explore a variety of kinks.
If ur looking for a mommy to please shoot me a dm....I'll be waiting for ya.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around Canada Toronto
LilChief412
Looking for tonight

Looking for a fun loving female partner to come over tonight. We could watch a movie or play games or whatever.
NSA ● 35 to 50 years ● 80km around USA Atlanta
motorcitymilf
Need handyman/carpenter

Looking to trade services. I need a handicapped ramp fixed up and I'll pay you in pussy, plus I squirt and give gummy BJs
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Sweetvenom01
Sub seeking Domme

Experienced submissive. Looking for a experienced Domme. For online or real time.
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Perfectly1Imperfect
Playful N Sexy Latina

Seeking a mature older male that is able to spoil me 🛍💋💯👸 Plz be real and be serious with NO bs. I'm only interested in occasional discreet fun aslong as u make sure you spoil me. Plz be 55+ age
Kinky Date ● 55 to 80 years ● 145km around USA Buckeye
beany2
LONDON | BARCELONA...

The husband and I, are looking for a new project to mold - a mind to break and a will to train. Our focus is on lovely ladies l, so if you are in London or Barcelona and believe you are the rare exception worth our time, get on your knees and prove it. Convince us or remain invisible
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saint-louis27881
Meet up

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OfficialMistressV
Where are my loyal slaves?

I’m about to start my temple yearly charity event,this is a start of you being a top slave , I need a slave who will be my secretary, another as an organizer, your reward will be in my throne, if interested send “I’m down mistress”👠

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BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Los Angeles
bigdicklover
I hate socializing

I wanna be ***ed and made to be a sex slave n never have to go outside ever again.

Message me if ur interested 🥹
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Alexandria
TeaseSpine
I am seeking a devoted submissive to be trained

I am seeking submissive individuals to explore this lifestyle with. If I find you to be serious, we can progress to the next level. I am in search of obedient and docile slaves who wish to be owned, trained, dressed up, and dominated by me. I understand your desire to be owned, trained, and served by a truly attractive and alluring mistress like myself. I take pleasure in activities such as CBT, bondage, wearing panties, pegging, face-sitting, nipple , foot worship, ball bursting, , BDSM sessions, fetishes, role-play, and dominance at any time. I also enjoy mummification, chastity, orgasm control, and intense orgasms. I am the fiery femme fatale you have been looking for; I am confident, seductive, intelligent, sarcastic, and relentless. I will not tolerate insubordination and will punish it without mercy.
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maskcrave2409
People suck. Hard.

Thought my fantasy was going to happen. Been waiting for this ever since I was in middle school to happen. Got stood up. I hate people..
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SunshyneAndDaisy
ISO couple for 3some

Looking for 1 couple to have a threesome with. Hanging out before bedroom time is a MUST and both partners must be secure and have no boundaries. I do not host. Anal is a no for me but I’ll eat pussy while she has a dick up her ass? I won’t eat men’s ass. I am not a fan of over 6” inside me. No biting lol. Fan of all sizes of women. I am not a pillow princess nor do I want one. Equal play.
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