Spit Fetish

All you need to know about spit fetish

Is a spit fetish the same as a saliva fetish?

All you need to know about spit fetish

If your kink involves aspects of humiliation and degradation, spitting can be the perfect addition to that kind of dynamic. There's something about being spat on that really enhances the feelings of submission for a lot of people. As with all things, however, there are a few safety concerns to bear in mind--the most important of which is to make sure you don't get your saliva in your partners' eyes. It stings badly, can cause infections and leaves a lingering 'bloodshot' look nobody enjoys, so aim carefully! It's also extremely important to negotiate this with a partner before you begin, as many people really won't enjoy this kind of play.

What is spit fetish?

When a person gets aroused by being spit on or spitting on someone else. The person spitting is usually the dominant and the person being spat on, the submissive.

Is a spit fetish the same as a saliva fetish?

No, although both are based on the same subject, a saliva fetishist gets off on the feel, look and sensation of the saliva on their skin. Someone with a spit fetish likes the humiliation aspect of being spit on or being the person doing the spiting.

Is it normal to have as spit fetish?

Although not so normal to be considered vanilla, a spit fetish is not terribly unusual and if you have it and enjoy it then be proud of it. It’s okay to have any fetish as long as you keep it consensual and you’re having fun with it. If at any point you aren’t happy with your fetish it’s worth seeing a medical professional.

Is spit fetish safe?

It is as safe as any other act where saliva is involved, such as kissing. There are some ailments that can be passed by kissing such as glandular fever, flu and cold but most can be avoided by not indulging in spit play with someone who is displaying symptoms of such infections at time of play.

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Slap that face!

A staple in so many BDSM porn scene, face slapping is a visceral expression of power and control. It’s also considered edge play because there are many risks involved in hitting the face. So you need to make sure you know what you’re doing before face slapping someone or letting someone slap you. It’s an activity that can be used as punishment or as part of sexual activity, especially oral sex. It can be used to emphasise the power exchange between Dominant and submissive. As there is a strong psychological effect with face slapping after care is incredibly important when it’s employed.

For kinksters with an armpit fetish

Fetishes are often about transgressing social convention and playing around with taboos. One of the things we as a society have developed some serious taboos regarding is, unfortunately, our own bodies - particularly the bits of them that grow hair and make smells! Naturally, then, there are some people for whom the idea of armpit licking, sniffing or even armpit sex is erotic and fantastical. It might not be the most common of fetishes, but it's an entirely healthy and explicable one! Some of those people will prefer their partner's armpits to be unshaved and/or unwashed, while others are more a fan of smooth and sweet; whatever you're into, talk it over with your partner to find out if they'd be happy to help you indulge this particular fantasy.

For all cum swallowing lovers

By and large, the people on the recieving end of a blow job prefer their partner to swallow their semen. This isn't a universal truth, of course - pretty much nothing is! But it's a solid rule of thumb in almost all cases. Plenty of blow-job-givers love the act of swallowing as much as the other side of the equation enjoys watching it, and for some - particularly submissives in BDSM-style relationships it can be a fantasy and a huge turn-on. If your partner doesn't like the idea, though, you mustn't press the issue, there are loads of valid reasons not to want to swallow someone's ejaculate, and just not feeling into it is absolutely one of them! It's possible to learn how to enjoy it if it's something they'd like to be able to do, but there's absolutely no reason anybody should feel obliged to try if they're just not into it.