How to find someone ?

[bu****]

I have been on the app for probably a long time I would say, I get visitors crushes and matches but don’t know how to connect with them. How do you actually find someone on here?

Thanks in advance

[Deleted Member]

I feel ya been on here for long long time still no encounters and only three messages back-and-forth but I have not given up on this site I feel like the people are real so I will stay

[Na****]

I feel like most connections you make here is superficial, it takes time to find the right person

[Sa****]

Integrity, high standards, and iron clad boundaries. Also, any women with a pro model looking pic with high response rate is a scammer.

[Deleted Member]

You forgot to make a wish whilst standing on one leg and hoping you meet someone from 3D Land and ant a 2D fantasy :)

[Deleted Member]

I feel this in my soul it's like I'm too weird for the weirdos

[Deleted Member]

Honestly you probably won't meet anyone on here. I'm in the same boat as you I just accept the fact the chances of me finding someone on here are slim to none. I stick around for sh*ts and giggles but have no expectations whatsoever 🤷‍♂️

[Zo****]

Just be you if they don't like it forget them.

[Deleted Member]

Might as well go on fetlife. Better odds there my guys

[de****]

Honestly man, I don’t really think this is an app where you can actually find someone, you might get lucky and find somebody to mess around with, but for me at least this feels like more of a place for people to explore themselves and their kinks

[Th****]

Almost completely impossible. I had better odds with Don / sub interested relationships on Tinder than this sight

[wa****]

I don't know how anyone truly gets to know anyone via texting all sites should add video and phone that way you can pick up on the reflection in there tone are the reaction of their face when certain things effect them doesn't anyone miss the sound of a woman's voice the melody in her laugh?then I guess most sites would shut down being it's harder to pay people to pretend to be clients of the site and much harder for the scammers besides your phone is far more secure to have a conversation on than an app or internet site on your phone anyways brother I'd say when dealing with possible mates on sites get personal by having them actually talk to you,credit free lol!

[ey****]

consistency

you've been here a year, but haven't logged in for chunks of that time.  

[Deleted Member]

21 minutes ago, demsy said:

Honestly man, I don’t really think this is an app where you can actually find someone, you might get lucky and find somebody to mess around with, but for me at least this feels like more of a place for people to explore themselves and their kinks

Don't get me wrong I have met a couple from here but it toookkkkk wayyyyyyyy too long

[Th****]

It's like a standard dating app, they'll show you people but you need to spend £40 a month to be able to see the people who like you

[be****]

Don't be to forward helps dude

[ar****]

I’m new so what do I know? but Hiding your face in all your pics can’t help! What’s the big deal?

[mo****]

You message them get to know them take your time with it you’ll pick it up also don’t be too forward unless they come at you that way

[Do****]

Maybe start a conversation with them. You might find someone if you act first.

[be****]

Be funny and not a odd ball dude 😉

[Deleted Member]

1 hour ago, Tpackage said:

Honestly you probably won't meet anyone on here. I'm in the same boat as you I just accept the fact the chances of me finding someone on here are slim to none. I stick around for sh*ts and giggles but have no expectations whatsoever 🤷‍♂️

It is a bit shite to be fair and mostly plus size ladies and young girls. Looking for more my age bit slimmer.

[Th****]

Starting conversations millions of times I think many want temporary attention and a million likes but end up flakes or disappear with no apparent reason.

[66****]

Most of the profiles are fake,And people come with real agendas

[Deleted Member]

Talk to them. Treat them like a person.

Don't only contact them because of how they look or what they are into. Nobody like being treated like a fetish dispenser.

Meet in person so it's easier to connect.

[CopperKnob]

52 minutes ago, AlexP said:

It is a bit shite to be fair and mostly plus size ladies and young girls. Looking for more my age bit slimmer.

Interesting how some of us don't hold ourselves to the same high standards as they do others.