Subs, do you care if you're attracted to your dom?

[Ke****]

Not at all

[Gr****]

Personally I need to be attracted to them. Not just physically but emotionally.

[te****]

I need to be controlled by the dom which is the attraction in my eyes and mind!

[dr****]

Somewhat but its the way they talk to me like its a switch on and off . I’ve played in a public space where she complete domme and I have to remove myself because I have the giggles Yes shes intimidating but she is really a sweetheart

[Deleted Member]

As a demisexual, my attraction is weighted in intellectual stimulation and a personality match up. So, yes. I care I’m attracted to them. Either someone ticks all my boxes or none at all.

[Deleted Member]

Yes I have to be physically attracted to them. Once had an partner who's appeal dimmed for me towards the end of us being a thing and I just physically no longer got excited looking at them cuz all I saw was The Ick.

[BlueGrace]

I am sapiosexual and I have 4 Doms. I must have an intellectual attraction to them first before anything else. After that, it’s character and personality. Physical attraction is the last thing on my list.

[Ec****]

I need to have an attraction to them, especially mentally. There needs to be a connection as well

[Qu****]

I can be on the fence about physical attraction at first. If I’m Dominated in a fulfilling way I become massively attracted.