Subs, do you care if you're attracted to your dom?

[sy****]

Looks aren’t as important to me as there personality. I’ve been with beautiful women who did absolutely nothing for me. Then Ive been with someone who isn’t as attractive but she had me sprung just dying to be with. So no it’s a personality thing with me.

[cl****]

Here is a subs answer. YES, YES, YES, YES. DIck .size, no matter. Looks, YES. Or rather visual attraction. Dint forget when a sub submits, they are doing things and going places that f**ks with them and u don't know it. We enjoy the emotions but we allow o ur dom to put u thru any thing, u have to be attracted. Not just cause the act and u cant get no one else to bond them. Nope. That's not it.

[cl****]

But u fine so why the question. Thats what i want to know.

[Mi****]

I have to be attracted to them, but attraction for me is more about the chemistry and a combination of things. How do they smell, how do I feel when I'm around them, how do they treat me, how do they treat other people, what kind of values have they shown me, etc.

[Ho****]

Yes, definetly. For me, I only want to get degraded and humiliated by a man I find good looking and sexxxy, otherwise it won't be hot and feel good.

[Te****]

I think for me attraction is a must. To have a female I’m attracted to physically and intrigued and inspired by emotionally choose to trust and submit to me…that’s the ultimate gift. And let’s keep it real… it’s hot af too.

[ed****]

Yeah got to have attraction

[Deleted Member]

Doms are attractive me me in general but Def need attraction

[cl****]

If u are attracted to the dom then u will obey and listen more because u wanna please then
On the other hand if u aren't attracted to them u will disobey and refuse to listen because u don't care if they like u

[Ko****]

Yeah I need to be attracted to my Dom. I desire to give my goddess immense pleasure. Energy from her is highly weighted.

[Do****]

At some level, yes.

[re****]

I think its important, really important

[de****]

Yes I need to be mentally and physically attracted to my dom, though mentally is more important to me. Good grooming and muscles are hot too 🫣

[na****]

I'm attracted to both mental and physical traits. I don't want a bombshell that can't hold a conversation

[Submissive_summer]

As a demisexual.... my attraction doesn't happen right away.....
For me.... it’s about building an emotional or intellectual connection first.....
The bond we create comes first.... and only once that trust and connection are established I begin to feel physical attraction....

[Di****]

It would certainly be a nice bonus but being physically attracted to my Mistress/Master definitely not a requirement. I'm far more interested in whether our kinks line up

[na****]

I'm with a bigger girl right now and she makes me feel good and really worships me. We are in agreement on most of our kinks and it's always good to be in sync with a partner

[JD****]

I don't have to be attracted to someone to be dominated by them. (But it is more enjoyable)

[Ro****]

I think physical attraction is some what important. Somethings got to get me in the door to consider submitting. If it's not physical than there Hass to be some other kind of connection. When I sub it's for a reason. Either I'm attracted to the person, and therefore willing to deal with certain things, OR I know they really have my best interests in mind.

[Li****]

Physical attraction is a little important to me because if they don’t take care with how they look, then I don’t really believe that they’ll take care of me if that makes sense

[Th****]

I can't submit to (or dominate) someone I find unattractive

[Jo****]

It depends on the situation and the type of connection made, physical attraction is not always a priority if deeper connection has been made. I have been able to submit to someone that I did not find attractive because they were able to fulfill some curiosities I had or were skilled in areas that really turned me on. I also was ordered by a past Mistress to never turn down anyone trying to dominate me and i have been following that order even though I am no longer in contact with her.