Unchained and uncertain

[la****]

When I was unable to actually live out my fantasies I knew what my wishes and desires were. When I knew I couldn't- I was sure of what I would do if I was given the chance.

Now I am with the most amazing man. Someone fun and passionate and curious. Someone who is open to trying all the things the world has to offer with me. Now I am unsure.

Not of myself. Not of our relationship. Not of him. We are strong and united. But now there are a million nagging wonderings.

I would love to expand on my fantasies with another woman. Do I look for someone I get excited by or someone who is mutually appealing. What if we don't have the same taste in women? I would love a threesome with another man. I want someone who wants my partner as well as myself. That is the same issue. Besides, this person would ideally be a cool hang out friend who we also happen to enjoy sexual time with. Does that make me using this person? Is that unkind?

I would love another couple who can join us. Brunch and then afternoons in bed? Would it be rude to watch? Do you have to pretend you aren't? Can people just tap out here and there to enjoy the scene and get a drink or is everyone always expected to be equally involved? How do you know if it is proportionally unbalanced?

I love this supportive encouraging interested man I am with. He has offered options I only imagined before. I can picture all the exact scenes and experiences I want to pursue. I am now unsure of how to navigate the paths this man said we can travel. But God I am looking forward to the journey

[Co****]

Oh luv, I wish you nothing but lust love and joy in your exploration of the world and all its offerings. Welcome.

[Cu****]

I think everyone new to this probably has the same questions, and I believe you should treat it like a real nurturing relationship. All your questions will be answered as time presents them. And I think you guys should start with the threesome. FFM cause men tend to be more protective of their partners. And women are more like to accept the situation and embrace it.

[la****]

Ok, is it weird to comment on your partner's post? Guess we'll find out! 🤣. Everything she said is 100% true and correct. The only thing I would add /clarify is this: we are very genuine and real and open to all kinds of possibilities. That said, whoever you are and whatever you have to offer, we absolutely both need to like you as a person first. And that starts with the mind not the body. So by all means let us know what you have to offer and what you want for yourself! But hey, hi, sexy, wanna fuck, etc won't get you a response. Make us think and make us laugh and then maybe we'll make you cum:)

[sp****]

That makes good sense you guys seem so cool and know what you want