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I'd identify myself as a switch, though on the submissive side, I'm just interested in pleasing my partner and worshipping them, rather than being actually controlled, since losing control is a phobia for me.

Does it still count as submission if there isn't any real power exchange?

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The right of the slash doesn't have to be submission (just as the left doesn't have to be Domination)

it can be any shade of bottoming, service bottoming, whatever.

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Yes, the level or degree of dominance or submission is a decision made by those involved only.

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