Sub Dirty Talk

[Sa****]

I have the same problem, in the heat of it my mind is focused on literally everything else going on, naked bodies are very distracting 🥵 buuuuut I’ll just say what I’m feeling. Like “oh I love it when you go so deep” or “your cock/tongue/finger feels soo good”. That way you don’t have to come up with anything, you just tell them what they are making you feel or what they are doing to you feels this way. Hope that helps! 🖤

[my****]

You’ve got to try. Enthusiasm trumps experience for me every time.

When I have a fist full of hair and I say “who do you belong to?” Whimpering isn’t the answer I want.

[Si****]

Depends what your dom like but I love a bratty sub that says no or make me 😈 and I loved when my sub would say fuck me like the good fucktoy I am

[Si****]

Based on the profile you’re a little bratty so saying stuff like “is that all you got?” Or “I thought you where going to fuck me rough” along those lines to get more aggression but then for typical subbing you can try “thank you sir/daddy/etc” “I love being your toy” type of thing. “You feel so good” “I love your cock” etc etc. also begging, “please don’t stop sir” “please please keep fucking me sir I need it”

Just come up with a couple of lines and then stick to those at first. Eventually once ur comfortable talking more then you can understand the intent behind the dirty talk and make it up as you go and don’t be a fraud to mess it up. If you do just laugh or move on!!

[Na****]

Not sure if this is something you have issues with, but for myself I know a big hurdle was getting over a few layers of unreasonable social embarrassment and just saying what I want to say in the moment.

Let your true emotions and desires dictate your words and actions. Honest and open communication the best way of things in my experience, both with partners and with yourself.

Plus, like, assumedly you're already getting fucked into a whimpering mess. Kinda passed the realm of common social obligations of decency lol

[La****]

Yeah, I had a similar situation with my sub. 😂 What seemed to help for me as a dom was specifically giving my sub prompts that had obvious answers I was looking for. Having talked about our kinks, and knowing what kinds of dirty talk turned us on, I would ask leading questions during play, or demand that she say specific things that I knew would turn her on.

Granted, this only works up until a point, because after she goes deeply enough into subspace, there's basically no way I've found to get her to use her words. At that point, I basically do the dirty talking for the both of us, saying things like "I can tell you're..." and then inserting kink-specific talk there. Sometimes I'll say "squeal if you..." and then do something I know will make her squeal.

All that is to say that your dom can take on a lot of the responsibility when engaging in dirty talk for the both of you while still including you.

[Kn****]

Yeah direction of the dirty talk, questions, comments should all come from the Dom for the most part. Like he’s leading you in a dance. Just follow exactly what he says. If he says, “You are such a dirty little cunt!” You respond with, “Yes, Daddy/Sir/Master! I am your dirty little cunt!” If you throw possessives in there, it’s like a little cupping of the balls. Like an unofficial oath of submission during a super intimate time.

[Bi****]

Honestly my partner being out of breath when talking dirty. It’s fun to start sharing kinks and maybe start on chat before meeting. if your vibing with each other then there’s places you and them can go to experiment in person dirty talk. Don’t feel pressured have your partner let you practice. If they are being pushy then fuck em!😊