How do you deal with a "Ghost"?

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4 hours ago, ***drinker1979 said:

What wood hun my apologies i am bit slow

You said "Fuck ghosts," and I just was being silly saying that fucking ghosts would be an interesting kink ☺️

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3 hours ago, joeri010 said:

I would out my frustrations but also give them a chance to explain why ghosting for a month and see if i can live with that reason or not.

I did that the first time. First time, shame on you. Second time, shame on me. 🙂

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1 hour ago, kittyinwonderland420 said:

Feels like you did the right thing. It would've been different if you'd never met him, if he'd never fucked up the first time, or if he came back with a solid reason. "What's up sexy" would've gotten a "nope" from me too😅 he doesn't respect you enough to be real with you and like someone else said, it feels like he "benched" you in favor of someone else and came crawling back when that didn't pan out as planned.

I think so too. I know there's a bunch of little things I didn't throw in for details, but yeah, same stuff, different time lapses within those time frames. I can bring men to their knees for me 😂😊

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1 hour ago, eyemblacksheep said:

ah, yep - so how that feels is that yep, you were benched until either things didn't work out with the other person - so you were treat as an option

or

maybe the initial NRE had burned off a bit with the other person so now he was looking back at you

which, again, if he was online, reading your mesages etc he could have checked back in with you at any point 

 

 

Right again, just send me a what's up sexy every few days to check in, say hi, then come play when you can / want. I really thought my guidelines on what I needed / expected were clear, so I do not feel too bad for sending that "Nope," 😂

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I’d like more female friends to learn from and get advice from! We can also vent about our issues with this app hehe. But my friend request won’t send to you. :)

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Your response was excellent don’t regret it. If anything I speak my mind then block because those types of people don’t care about you.

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6 hours ago, bbwbella said:

I’d like more female friends to learn from and get advice from! We can also vent about our issues with this app hehe. But my friend request won’t send to you. :)

Thank you! It won't let me friend request you until I receive a message from you 😂 I tried too ☺️

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Pretty much handled how it should have been

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1 hour ago, RubberCheetah said:

Pretty much handled how it should have been

Thank you for your feedback 😊

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I read about this new trend ghostlighting. Which led to other articles about breadcrumbing and the most eye opening intermittent rein***ment...it cleared things up real quick... Be grateful they turned ghostly again and perform some ritual or seance type thing to keep them at bay..just sayin' from personal experience..the energy these types suck would make them fantastic at bjs.

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August 22, LickKittySplitsme0W said:

I read about this new trend ghostlighting. Which led to other articles about breadcrumbing and the most eye opening intermittent rein***ment...it cleared things up real quick... Be grateful they turned ghostly again and perform some ritual or seance type thing to keep them at bay..just sayin' from personal experience..the energy these types suck would make them fantastic at bjs.

Well, that is interesting. Now I will have to dive down some rabbit holes myself! "The more you know .." 😊