Sub discoveries

[lu****]

I managed to find my style through online but yet I havent necesarilly been able to experience losing full control.

[Deleted Member]

I'm still waiting to be dommed 😂

[Co****]

What it boils down to is when you enter into a sub Dom relationship with dynamics, their needs to be a sub list or list for each of docs and don't. Sub Dom relationships have been looked at wrong since the beginning. People think whips and chains but it's not about any of the kinks. It's about exploration, understanding, trust and communication. Each Dom sub relationship will be different. As to why I refer to myself as a ineffable Dom which means that I just take what I like and apply. I do believe it to be important that we all adhere to the the same guidelines and rules so that wea are all on the same page.

[Ro****]

It was a more trial and error process as well as noting that dynamics may be different person to person.
If you find it difficult to communicate, it may not be the right connection to explore or it may be something you need to work on your own. The important part is finding someone you can expose your most *** self and feel safe doing so.

[th****]

I don’t know how to describe it other than in just drawn more towards the sub side I think because I do so much directing in my everyday life that being able to just do not think but do is so satisfying