What Gets Your Swipe?

[Vi****]

Tall dark and handsome like the guy in the photo 😻 also Tom Ellis 😅

[Buchan23]

2 hours ago, virginia-beach368999 said:

Yeah I had one threaten to send everything to my wife if I didn't send her a $200 apple gift card.

Scumbag chancers

[puppymeows]

More accurate gender separation for those who aren’t bi. I’m lesbian/strictly sapphic so I only want women (cis or trans) and nonbinary people who align with womanhood

[puppymeows]

I also really think that matches aren’t well input to the UI so I feel like a lot of people don’t understand the matching system. I do like that you have a social media side and a tinder-esque side though

[MasterDwight]

It is one who presents them self of to fun and adventure with out be secretive about the life style

[Sa****]

Also I like photos that have a face...

[Ar****]

Very little any more since certain features got moved behind the paywall 😂

Which really is a shame as it has contributed to the great sense of community we used to have here all but completely fizzling out.

[Deleted Member]

It’s easy to see something that will get me to respond- the hard part seems to be to keep my attention

Too many men seem to want just sex and don’t seem to actually care about me as a person so I suppose once they treat me like they want to know me is what keeps me interested

[Usemeandstretch0808]

Beginner into freaky sex

[ra****]

Appearances of the person in the picture. I'm all for a sexy black man

[sn****]

Matching qualities and uniqueness.

[ge****]

Never been a fan of swiping - just seems so shallow to me to base my opinion of someone purely on their puc and a few lines of profile text - would much rather form meaningful connections in other ways.

[gl****]

I honestly love a lengthy, detailed bio telling me exactly what you’re all about. It helps build that excitement of what to expect from you and your personal kink style, without giving too much away— nothing written in your profile makes me way less likely for me to be curious, swipe or spank!

[Pu****]

As far as swiping goes... it's all down to vibes (which can include looks and or what the photo looks like... Artsy or interesting is a plus)

The opposite? AI photos literally the only thing I don't like seeing. Very sus to me.

[Da****]

A hot guy who isn't afraid to show his face or body, who also has a well-written bio.

[Ne****]

Honestly, the first thing I look at are the lips. Would I enjoy kissing them? Are they smiling or not. Then the eyes. Are they does the smile touch them? Are the deep and seductive? Mischievous? Or open and honest?

[Oh****]

So many different things I find attractive that sometimes are even contradictory so that quantify what gets my attention is nearly impossible. Just know that if I message you you have the IT factor, whatever IT is.

[Deleted Member]

Intellect, respect, noticing small things in my profile they can relate to. Sexual messages right off the bat get rejections.

[D_****]

I like to look into their eyes, and look for their attention, to themselves, to what they say vs what they show. I look for real people and there seems to be less real female interactions than I would like. I wish people really wanted to meet!

[wa****]

I look at if they sound angry, political or self involved, serious turnoff. Also non natural looking hair and piercings are laughable.Those people can stay lonely.

[PresentisPeculiar]

On 9/2/2025 at 10:17 PM, glassdollie said:

I honestly love a lengthy, detailed bio telling me exactly what you’re all about. It helps build that excitement of what to expect from you and your personal kink style, without giving too much away— nothing written in your profile makes me way less likely for me to be curious, swipe or spank!

Should love mine then. I normally get the opposite reaction of "too many words". But I figure if my ADHD ass can write it, anyone can read it. :). Honestly though being friends with a couple of people on here that are female and have both show me the horrors of this place through their app and giving me insight, it seems the remote and bio is about the most important thing a man can have on here.

But whoa... Looking at the messages a friend of mine and the biggest receives on the daily both locals and drop-ins who think that she's just open for business like a casino. I have no idea how I met on here...I take that back... chatting and bio.

[PresentisPeculiar]

1 hour ago, wakefield125474 said:

I look at if they sound angry, political or self involved, serious turnoff. Also non natural looking hair and piercings are laughable.Those people can stay lonely.

Yeah I really hate when a bio is yelling at me for what someone else did in the past. Your bio is your intro You'd never come off that hot to somebody first meeting.

[Ki****]

Photos are the lead in to me. I am looking for someone I find physically attractive so naturally a good picture is what leads me in. I avoid anyone who does not have a clear photo of their face. I wouldn't waste my time on people who post memes, porn, or censored photos of their faces.

I am not too picky about the length of a person's bio as long as it gives me some idea as to who they are and what they want out of a relationship. When I read someone's bio, I expect them to say who they are, not trauma dump, not rant, not talk about their politics (Idgaf about politics), and not focus solely on sex.

[bi****]

Les tits and body pics

[ID****]

Muscular females - if there is such a person on here..