What should I do if I'm a shy dom

[de****]

Keep trying

[Co****]

Similar, I can't do "Dom" things until given consent, which means flirting is limited and I can't put that foot forward beforehand... No good girls, no lifted chins, no gripped hair, not even a hand on the hips... Even my customer service voice stays In place until and if given the go-ahead.

So I just say that up front. Yeah I may not get as many opportunities to show off as I could, but I value consent more than my urges... It's a good thing to many. Only a little frustrating for me, but that's the price I pay for integrity.