Need some profile help

[Tr****]

I just need some honest feedback on my profile. I am struggling, and just want to know what the issues are. The more honesty I get back, the better my improvements can be. Anyone who takes the time to read this, check my profile, and respond to this thread or message me directly is a blessing.

[fa****]

It’s the Korn shirt I imagine

[olderkinkyguy]

It reads OK to me,but I am a bloke. Hope you get feedback from some ladies

[zu****]

It looks ok. Seems authentic. My only comment would be to remember that the type of woman you’re looking for is not likely going to reach out to you first, plus actual women on here are drowned in dm’s and comments, etc.

[Deleted Member]

It reads inviting and thoughtful but soft. Maybe also take the D/s test.

[Mo****]

Nothing wrong with your profile at all, sounds very down to earth. Though personally as a woman, I rarely reach out myself. Plus I can't even contact you without a subscription. If you text someone, don't just text "hi", show that you read their profile and what you're looking for.

[Wa****]

I see nothing wrong with your profile.

[pi****]

love your pictures and the long description. I'd suggest taking the d/a test too

[Mi****]

I thought your profile was well written and showcased your interests and personality sincerely. If people aren’t into or are new to shibari/rope play, they may be hesitant to reach out or assume you won’t be interested in them if they aren’t a rope bunny. I think being able to see the results of the D/s test would help others gauge if there’s another area you two may start off with before discussing/progressing to rope play.

[Lu****]

It’s a good read. As a rope bunny, it’s reassuring to know what you value. Maybe include images of what you can do with ropes? I have reached out to riggers because I have seen images of his rigging art which really helped solidify certain images in my head. Just get a mannequin and do a couple of knots. But I am also not looking for a male play partner 🤷‍♀️ so take my advice lightly.

[al****]

I think your profile is good. Maybe answer the questions. They tend to give a little more insight into you as a potential partner.

[MrRocha_MissSummer]

Our feedback is that its a good profile 

[Do****]

As a guy? I think your profile is fine. Better than most, actually. Your only problem is that you're a man, and none of these sites work well for us. Every site, whether by design or happenstance, cater to women. Women get TONS of messages, and we're lucky to get one or two. Dont get too discouraged... it's how the world seems to work.

[Sc****]

I’d actually ask the same. Any women willing to give feedback?

[De****]

Don’t let mentality be your limitation, allow it to be your liberation. Men, women, and everyone in between engage differently.

2 tips:
1 your pics are a lot of the same thing and you are barely the focus. I agree with showcasing some of your skills along with your interests so some diversity will serve you well when someone looks at your profile.

2 It’s most important on how you engage and how often. Take initiative as often as you can that genuinely catch your interest, but when you do make sure you are mindful and respectful of that person’s profile along with being yourself. Also don’t stop at this app. Do this with any app. Practice this and build confidence. If you are consistent you will see a change.

There are some things that I would change about the bio, but it’s fine as is. Keep in mind some of these apps work against you or glitch out. It might slow you down, but you got this bro. People like a tall and cuddly dom.

[so****]

6 hours ago, Scottertot said:

I’d actually ask the same. Any women willing to give feedback?

more pictures, more dynamic not just selfies maybe. personally a bit uneasy by the “not many females here” post - language sounds similar to what incels say (use of female instead of woman, *** that you may become mad because of lack of attention - obviously its not always that deep, but when all a profile is, is vibes.. small things matter). written stuff is awesome!

[Deleted Member]

Yesterday at 10:25 PM, Scottertot said:

I’d actually ask the same. Any women willing to give feedback?

I agree with Soleil - more pictures and your written bio is all green flags
A photo with some kink flair to it (like holding a toy) would be good.
Adding more to your bio would only help you more

[Deleted Member]

I only see green flags in your profile. I agree with Minoka, show off your Shibari skills - rope play requires precision for safety, a photo would entice and en*** that.
The search is challenging for all of us, nothing we can do but keep going.

[Tr****]

Tuesday at 02:40 PM, Mora-Ace said:

Nothing wrong with your profile at all, sounds very down to earth. Though personally as a woman, I rarely reach out myself. Plus I can't even contact you without a subscription. If you text someone, don't just text "hi", show that you read their profile and what you're looking for.

Thank you for the positive feedback. I really do appreciate it. Unfortunately I felt a little insecure so I made the post. But so far everyone has been very kind. That's my favorite part of this community.