To the ladies

[id****]

Yeah that's not really true lol. Not everyone's sex drive is gonna be the same

[LadyV]

On 10/21/2025 at 4:19 PM, roseville413277 said:

Women always claim, or so they say that :

1. Women never think about sex as much as men do

2. When in a committed relationship, they never fantasize, look or think about other men and have zero desire to be with any other men.

What's your opinion?

I have never heard any woman make such a sexually generalizing statement or claim about all women's sexuality like "women never think about sex as much as men." That is very obviously not a true statement. Women as a group tend to be more aware of the concept of "nuance."

 

That said, many women are asexual, bud. Most women show tendencies of demisexuality. Most women have greater energy and attention demands over the course of their day than men do so even if a woman would be the type to think about sex as much as or more than men, she doesn't have the time or mental energy with all the daily bullshit she's dealing with. Also, there are a LOT of things happening around women constantly that are turn-offs to women. Hard to get into and stay in a sexy mindset when you literally can't go two minutes on the internet without a litany of men acting like abusive sexist idiots at you. 

 

I have never once heard ANY woman claim they don't still fantasize in relationships. However, men really misunderstand what the fuck that means because cishet men generally lack imagination and empathy for women and so men's ability to imagine what women are fantasizing about is almost always misogynistic and incorrect. 

 

Pal, I'm happily married and I still fantasize plenty beyond my partner (who is well aware of all this and doesn't care and even listens to my fantasies when I feel like sharing them).

I've told my husband I want a threesome with him and his brother and I want them to makeout for my entertainment. Not because I'm attracted to his brother, I'm not. I'm attracted to the corruption of their relationship. My husband finds my darkness delightful. 

I've fantasized about being a serial killer and the architecture of a fountain made of men's corpses and bathing in it.

I've gotten off on seeing wrecking balls destroying buildings because I craved the sight of destruction. 

I've drooled over watching African ***ted Dogs tear other ***s apart in wildlife documentaries because I love the ***. 

 

Granted, I'm a very heavy sadist so my fantasies lean extreme. But most other women I've talked to about fantasies? Not all that far off from my demented shit, actually. You'd be amazed.

 

But what do most men seem to think women are imagining?

"I bet she's thinking about guy's with bigger dicks than me!" 🙄

Men's imaginings of women's fantasies tend to be rooted in men's insecurities, not in women's realities. 

Edited October 24 by LadyV

[hu****]

"rooted in men's insecurities, not in women's realities" not a truer word spoken.

Well at least those no what's really going when the ask what u thinking an we say nothing an smirk 🤣 x