Numb and Kink

[re****]

There’s no frustration like being a masochist with nerve damage.

Unrelated to BDSM, but my ability to feel *** was nerfed so it’s more of everything around BDSM that can necessarily register.

Does anyone else know what that’s like?

[Ba****]

I’ve pet people with a similar condition. First, sorry you have to deal with that. Not sure if it total numbness of localised but, the people I know who have similar found joy in the aesthetic in some kinks. Needles for example or the striations from whips.
If “feeling” the kink is something you are looking for, have you explored electrics and if the numbness is outer dermal, is there anything you could explore sub dermal?

[re****]

7 hours ago, Baron_UL said:

I’ve pet people with a similar condition. First, sorry you have to deal with that. Not sure if it total numbness of localised but, the people I know who have similar found joy in the aesthetic in some kinks. Needles for example or the striations from whips.
If “feeling” the kink is something you are looking for, have you explored electrics and if the numbness is outer dermal, is there anything you could explore sub dermal?

It’s from an *** that made dermal surface sensitivity go away.
Electricity sounds pretty cool, thank you!

[Cl****]

As someone with neuropathy, I second trying electric! Other things that might work for you:
temp play (for me, extreme temps are still felt)
paddling (it produces deeper sensation than whips)

[re****]

3 hours ago, CluelessKore said:

As someone with neuropathy, I second trying electric! Other things that might work for you:
temp play (for me, extreme temps are still felt)
paddling (it produces deeper sensation than whips)

I’m not familiar with temp play. What is it?

[Cl****]

5 hours ago, relativelyblown said:

I’m not familiar with temp play. What is it?

Temperature play? Sometimes the dermis won't carry touch well, but might respond to heat (such as wax) or cold (such as ice)

[re****]

9 hours ago, CluelessKore said:

Temperature play? Sometimes the dermis won't carry touch well, but might respond to heat (such as wax) or cold (such as ice)

That’s something I’ll look into. Thank you