Meeting couples

[Deleted Member]

How do guys feel about meeting a girl with her husband there? What should a girl do to invite attention even when she’s with a man?

[ju****]

Good question

[Sir-3063]

Be very forward and flirty

[al****]

If. They are all ok with it I don’t see a problem

[Si****]

Make sure everything is upfront...I had a firefighter chief ask me and invite me to **** his wife while he watched ...I think open communication allows the guy wanted to join be comfy

[lo****]

I was the third marriage so I told him to get this dynamic. It’s worth a lot of fun as long as there is clear communication.

[Da****]

Good communication, clear barriers & she should make moves to make it clear…

[Deleted Member]

Idc as long as it’s all talked about

[Ba****]

Personally I don’t have an issue with it. I’d actually encourage it. It establishes a base line trust for all involved

[Mu****]

There is a whole lifestyle about this. Hotwifing or cuckholding. Many are more than okay with it!

[cb****]

Ask

[Bu****]

Treat your husband like crap. Then grope the guy in front of your husband. Totally joking lol

[Fr****]

The female has to step out of the traditional way of thinking that the guy should approach the girl. If a girl is with her guy it instantly creates a more difficult approach for the other guy because of not knowing if they are an open couple. But if the girl approaches the guy it really helps create a more comfortable situation that cuts out any initial tension. I love being a 3rd, its incredibly fun but its harder for a guy to approach a couple than the girl approach the 3rd person.

[Bi****]

I'm cool because I know who I am here for.

[Bi****]

And if he watching that is fine with me or if we tag teaming.

[Ki****]

Most men will not be comfortable with the woman's man being present unless he is experienced in the lifestyle doing so. Women should approach new guy and be totally truthful about what she is looking for and what her guy is wanting.

[Ca****]

Whilst cuckold all my gfs penetrative sex came from bulls, as per cuckold contract I was always present , this did put off a few potential bulls but must were fine with it

[sk****]

I do not share my woman with others. The best i can do is to film our session and send it to her husband

[SO****]

Most guys hint at married women
Most guys dont care if she is married they only want the kitty

[qu****]

2 hours ago, Bucklez said:

Treat your husband like crap. Then grope the guy in front of your husband. Totally joking lol

There’s a kink for that though!

[ne****]

I think all 3 should text each other

[Deleted Member]

If a couple is open and swinging, I very much believe the 3rd should meet the couple. It prevents "cheaters ". It shows that there is open communication and the woman can feel more secure knowing that both sides know whats going on.

She already invited attention by meeting the 3rd. You would treat it as any other situation. If her husband is there, he is well aware of the intent and purpose behind the meeting.

This should be the norm when 1 party of a couple is meeting a new potential playmate.

For me.. when the wife meets new playmates, either myself or her BF has to know or have met him/her. Especially if she is going to their place or going to be alone with said playmate. At functions its entirely different.

If youre confused, ask. Ask what the boundaries are. Communication above all else is what makes for successful swinger encounters.

[Deleted Member]

Nah I rather do monogamy with a Domme 😆 🤣 😂

[Da****]

It’s an etiquette as old as life styling itself: if you as a single male example, get invited into a couple circle, out of respect, always approach the husband FIRST! For introduction, interaction anything that’s gonna move things forward once the wife is comfortable. I’m sure she’ll chime in but always talk to the husband first once the wife sees how you treat her husband,that will determine if it’s a go or no…. females unicorns same way…. approach the wife first. It kind of dissuades the underlying sense of insecurities.

Lastly, meeting, the couple also shows them that you are understanding in your role of enhancing their fun time and not attempting to be a replacement…. That’s just my two cents With 40+ something years of experience.

[Ho****]

Have her husband invite him