Female Orgasm Obsession

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Yes! Who doesn’t love a challenge? 😈

[cl****]

Love it love it love it, thank God for waterproof sheets, and I would say they all enjoy it if the mood rii

[Da****]

Completely agree, I enjoy overstimulating my partner until she begs me to stop because she is out of breath or can't take anymore, then I do a few more. Usually with my fingers. Also a variety of orgasm from clitoral, nipples, then end with vaginal. It's just my thing as a Dom lol 😈

It's the best to mix in stimulation of multiple sensitive spots, whispering different things in her ears. Then she just moans in your ears and feeling her climax on your finger or tool, dam...lol

I've heard actually some women do not orgasm many times from female friends, I was surprised because my ex partner orgasmed a lot and so did I lmao, so I guess some people be the succubi and the incubi of the world 🤔

[Da****]

2 hours ago, hot-springs206194 said:

I have heard a woman can have 13 orgasms. That’s my target.

They can have more, especially if you mix in different types of stimulation and orgasm types.

[Da****]

1 minute ago, DarklordDrakmore said:

They can have more, especially if you mix in different types of stimulation and orgasm types.

With that said. Some supposedly can't orgasm as much, so depends on each women. They are all different and enjoy different things and stimulation.

[Ha****]

Girl here..... You guys are awesome.... Just saying teach the others.... Please 😊

[ne****]

4 hours ago, AuraBelle said:

I totally agree that prioritizing female pleasure is the right focus! But to address your question about limits:

When a guy focuses only on the mechanism of the orgasm, it can turn the experience transactional. I feel satisfied when there's presence, variety, and a focus on my whole body, not just on reaching a measurable end goal. That's the part that is often forgotten in the obsession with the 'big show’.

I agree ☝️ a lot of men are only focused on “getting to the finish line” not the entire body or experience

[Ed****]

To me when a woman has an orgasm. It activates something that feels especially primal. Like suckitsexy said. The sounds, movement, expression each step as she gets closer. Energy or something is resonating in each individual, and her actual climax. Is the complete envelopment of one another. For the most beautiful brief moments. I hope everyone has this feeling many times a day

[Iv****]

This is sexy

[lu****]

Absolutely the same here. I could go all night/day taking care of her needs. Nothing beats getting a massive squirt eruption and catching it in your mouth.

[fu****]

I don't think this counts as a kink. That's just... normal *

[ky****]

Im definitely in the same boat. It turns me on more knowing im satisfying my woman and she's on cloud nine, than me just trying to satisfy myself.

[ma****]

Same here! I've never been with a woman that says it's normal either. I get one of two reactions. They either love it and want it all the time, or it scares them and they disappear.

[Ca****]

And yes, I tell the ladies I'm with their orgasms are the only symphony I ever want to attend.. watch them blush and fill with colorful red.

[fu****]

Hmm. Interesting. I want to be clear, I don't mean the specific convulsions and squirting thing. That's porno stuff, for show... but irl every woman is different. All of my partners have seemed to appreciate it when I was being attentive to their orgasms. They have often showed that appreciation with a ferocious reciprocity.

[Ca****]

Unhuh, sorry about not replying sooner.

Either way my friend I hope you drive them friends we call beautiful ladies wild. I know I surely like to.

Or a junior in college person might say: num num num num num... 😆

Sorry, I have to laugh or say weird shit 🤣 the internet is listening. 😆

[ho****]

Yes if you do not squirt i haven't finished my job.
I have one reason for being and that is to please my Dominant

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Wednesday at 01:30 AM, DarklordDrakmore said:

Completely agree, I enjoy overstimulating my partner until she begs me to stop because she is out of breath or can't take anymore, then I do a few more. Usually with my fingers. Also a variety of orgasm from clitoral, nipples, then end with vaginal. It's just my thing as a Dom lol 😈

It's the best to mix in stimulation of multiple sensitive spots, whispering different things in her ears. Then she just moans in your ears and feeling her climax on your finger or tool, dam...lol

I've heard actually some women do not orgasm many times from female friends, I was surprised because my ex partner orgasmed a lot and so did I lmao, so I guess some people be the succubi and the incubi of the world 🤔

Hello. I happened to come across this and was reading the comments. I love all these comments and the men focus on our pleasure. But my question to you specifically is How do you deal with a girlie that finds it hard to cum? I'm not one that can have back to back orgasms and if you try to stimulate me further right after orgasming it hurts to the point of tears. Like someone is taking glass and cutting me there. Give me 10 or 15 and I'd be able to go again though.

[ma****]

You would have to back off and start over with the foreplay from the top down, and this is where the back door gets some attention as well.

[Hu****]

It has always been this way for me as well. I wouldn't go as far as to say I am obsessed with the female orgasm. But I have always been "her pleasure" oriented. With new partners I have always loved to just lay beside one another and explore. Rubbing and caressing...no faster way to learn your partners pleasure points.i have always derived my pleasure from giving it. The sexy moans and vocalizations is what I'm after. It's very much akin to learning a musical instrument..lol. Once the pleasure focal points of her body are learned then you can make beautifully erotic music together. 🥵

[wa****]

Same, sort of. I wouldn't quite say I prioritize their pleasure over My own, but I love watching them squirm and suffer in agonizing pleasure😈😏😂

[Da****]

Yesterday at 04:06 AM, MoonlightsTemptress said:

Hello. I happened to come across this and was reading the comments. I love all these comments and the men focus on our pleasure. But my question to you specifically is How do you deal with a girlie that finds it hard to cum? I'm not one that can have back to back orgasms and if you try to stimulate me further right after orgasming it hurts to the point of tears. Like someone is taking glass and cutting me there. Give me 10 or 15 and I'd be able to go again though.

That's fair, I've heard some women have trouble with orgasms. It really depends, and every person finds enjoyment differently. Is it all types of orgasms that affect you like that or specific ones? Clitoral ones tend to take the longest, but they might be the least impactful and tend to really open up/make Vaginal ones easier/more effective. Though the clitoris is very tiny and a lot more sensitive than other areas, so it can also easily get too roughed up. Lubrication and turning on the partner in different ways helps.


Additionally, I would suspect:
- Could be a medical condition that you have that you should look into, when sex/orgasms are ***ful, always good to look into why. They shouldn't be.
- Lack of lubrication. It is important to apply a lot of lubrication for women who get more sensitive or dry in areas after climax.
- Might be that you're body or mind is just not into it and you're partner needs to find ways to turn you on besides physical touch. Like saying things in your ears or just making you feel a certain way.

It could be a number of causes 🤔

[La****]

I am a woman and with me for the man to rush to the finish line tells me he is immature and inexperienced. Foreplay is the key along with setting the mood: candlelight, soft music, and fragrant incense. Kissing, massaging, touching in a gentle caring manner, soft and slow. Feeling the natural state of masculine and feminine energy taking over. Our temperatures rising, our primal instincts reacting. Nothing f@rced, nothing rehearsed. Each is seen, each is present. We speak through our eyes and say what we desire. By the time we made love I had already came three times.

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8 hours ago, DarklordDrakmore said:

That's fair, I've heard some women have trouble with orgasms. It really depends, and every person finds enjoyment differently. Is it all types of orgasms that affect you like that or specific ones? Clitoral ones tend to take the longest, but they might be the least impactful and tend to really open up/make Vaginal ones easier/more effective. Though the clitoris is very tiny and a lot more sensitive than other areas, so it can also easily get too roughed up. Lubrication and turning on the partner in different ways helps.


Additionally, I would suspect:
- Could be a medical condition that you have that you should look into, when sex/orgasms are ***ful, always good to look into why. They shouldn't be.
- Lack of lubrication. It is important to apply a lot of lubrication for women who get more sensitive or dry in areas after climax.
- Might be that you're body or mind is just not into it and you're partner needs to find ways to turn you on besides physical touch. Like saying things in your ears or just making you feel a certain way.

It could be a number of causes 🤔

I have found that for me it is easier to have a clitoral orgasm and they are powerful. They are the orgasms I chase. Vaginal ones are hard to come by unless I am super aroused. Turning me on with touch and sexual talk or if you have a deep voice and growl in my ear. That immediately gets my body fired up. I am in my late 30s and always need lube around. Age can play a factor for sure. Existing health conditions at this age don't help either. But I had these orgasm issues even in my late t**ns and 20s. Thank you for your response as well!

[ho****]

Wednesday at 09:17 PM, howard11 said:

Yes if you do not squirt i haven't finished my job.
I have one reason for being and that is to please my Dominant

I feel this is extremely important part of foreplay & should always be utilized if the Dominant deems it necessary