Female Orgasm Obsession

[Deleted Member]

Refractory periods are normal after orgasm for everyone.

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October 29, fu9ar said:

I don't think this counts as a kink. That's just... normal *

It's wild how many men in conventional dating consider, "enjoys partner's pleasure" a kink. A lot of patting oneself on the back for being a decent partner. Grosses me out.

[Da****]

Thursday at 07:57 AM, ArJay said:

It's wild how many men in conventional dating consider, "enjoys partner's pleasure" a kink. A lot of patting oneself on the back for being a decent partner. Grosses me out.

Agreed, but I think the kink aspect is the overstimulation of the partner. You are correct though it is very stupid that many men tend to be self-gratifying. Especially as Doms, that is something that is completely against the whole purpose which is why it ***es me off even more. I'd rather not be associated with such worthless degenerates as that.

I've said this before but people using becoming a Dom to get off and *** others without properly treating Subs are not Doms.

[Pa****]

There’s a lot more to female orgasm than “prioritising her pleasure.” Physiology plays a part, of course, but the mental side is the real hinge. There are two broad types of orgasm, and the difference between a clitoral one and a vaginal one often comes down to safety, mental preparation, ease, and how attuned the connection is.
Some of the best orgasms I’ve had were vaginal, and they happened because I felt safe, stimulated, and understood. It wasn’t about being in a relationship, but being with someone who was genuinely present with me, tuned into what my body was saying, and who made space for my desires without rushing or performing.

I’m naturally submissive, but if I sense a partner isn’t confident or doesn’t know how to lead, I’ll shift into a more dominant or directive role. It may not be my preference, but I try to turn a potentially bad experience into a better one. Sometimes that works, sometimes it doesn’t.
For a lot of women, a clitoral orgasm is the “default,” but a vaginal orgasm takes comfort, trust, relaxation, and time, the connection where both bodies feel right with each other.

[he****]

Yes I agree I’m the same way sheesh 💨

[Ba****]

First of you(and i) don’t prioritize your(our) partners pleasure “over your(our) own”, at best we prioritize our own pleasure through our partners expressions or we prioritize their pleasure to increase our own, the moment you gain your own pleasure from helping others you are no longer able to be truly altruistic at least part of it is self serving now

And yes, the limit is where ever your partner tells you it is, some need more time to cool down between orgasms, some enjoy staying on the edge and some don’t like it too intense
I had one tell me that the inability to form coherent thoughts or make identifiably human noises felt too dehumanizing for her to enjoy multiple orgasms and caused her unwanted feelings of ***, making it increasingly more difficult to achieve a second orgasm and basically converting any stimulation after the first orgasm directly into unnecessary stress

But yeah this is the thing i point at when people ask me why i call myself a sadist despite inflicting p.a.i.n not being something i’m directly into

[Ti****]

I love seeing just how many ways and how many they can have before I have one . Expiring and fining in ways and find it amazing that so many have only had one or couple ways of stimulation and experiencing. That drives me to definitely try to over achiever !

[am****]

I do not find it odd. I have been addicted to female orgasms since I was young. I do not see how most men do not realize they didn't get the woman off. It's so obvious when it's real. Women can be soo different as well. I want to experience them all. Whether it's with foreplay, toys, intercourse, doesn't matter. Nothing is sexier than a woman consumed by orgasm. If women think there is such a thing as too many, I haven't met one yet... And ladies quit faking, let them know they didn't do anything for you. Lol.

[Mr****]

87% of the women couldn’t handle back to back orgasms especially when you give it to her 8 different ways and all combined ways. Humble my words be right now but I understand they can climax 14 different ways and many times threwout the day and of which you lay it down in combinations of sensations. Yall take care

[OG****]

You can even induce possession states, and women with orgasms

[Lp****]

I live for that sh*t!

[Sl****]

I agree bro I love watching a woman get multiple orgasms

[ol****]

Nothing turns me on more than. A woman that can squirt on it and keep wanting more

[Ty****]

October 28, 2025, wavewarrior said:

I’m the same way… and yes I feel like sometimes she(they) don’t want to give the effort for them to concentrate enough to get have an orgasm and they are generally happy letting you cum. They will also get annoyed if you put too much emphasis on them cumming; best to let it happen without the pressure

Absolutely correct! It’s why so many married couples end up divorced now. The men don’t want to be patient and get off before seeing if she’s up for it.. I play on both sides of the aisle.. I know exactly what women want, when, and why… I am teaching men who want to listen.. but it’s not easy work FOR the men who have little patience.

[Ty****]

October 28, 2025, RogueLynx said:

I enjoy it when done correctly. It's best if I end up feeling like a body puddle ready for cuddles and naps. I have heard it can be too much for some. But then again I'm told I'm different, as far as all that IDK. I just know thyself.

Omg yes! That’s all it is. They just need to learn how to do it correctly.🤣

[sw****]

I think the most common misconception is intensity=pleasure and that is rarely the case. Faster, harder, "more", etc. is mainly how men get their pleasure, whereas with women it's about attentiveness and communication and intention. Listen to her body, listen to her mouth (sounds, words), and don't be afraid to try something different but for the love of God if it ain't broke don't fix it! Tempo, rhythm, consistency, that works more often than not. At least in my humble opinion.

[Tr****]

It's like you took the words right out of my mouth! I start dripping at the thought of making a woman orgasm. I need to find a squirter and have her hold my head in place while her orgasms gushes in my face!

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Wednesday at 08:14 PM, Truckin84 said:

It's like you took the words right out of my mouth! I start dripping at the thought of making a woman orgasm. I need to find a squirter and have her hold my head in place while her orgasms gushes in my face!

Its the best!

[co****]

I’m all about the women have multiple O’s. For some reason since I was in HS and had my first squirter it became almost an obsession.

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5 hours ago, coupleforfun518 said:

I’m all about the women have multiple O’s. For some reason since I was in HS and had my first squirter it became almost an obsession.

The 1st time I experienced it I was like...."what was that? Was that?" and she was like I forgot to tell you...I licked her for like 4 hours straight. I was hooked

[Ty****]

Tuesday at 08:43 PM, sweetmeats123 said:

I think the most common misconception is intensity=pleasure and that is rarely the case. Faster, harder, "more", etc. is mainly how men get their pleasure, whereas with women it's about attentiveness and communication and intention. Listen to her body, listen to her mouth (sounds, words), and don't be afraid to try something different but for the love of God if it ain't broke don't fix it! Tempo, rhythm, consistency, that works more often than not. At least in my humble opinion.

I disagree. Faster, harder, etc..if you know how to edge, it’s a deadly combination and it’ll last hours. Those with that mindset seem to only care about getting theirs off and not actually learn how a real woman’s body works. Yall want single mothers but don’t understand how our bodies change after giving birth. It changes everything. We like it rough and need it rough but if you can’t edge then don’t try.

[Ty****]

Now, on the other side, the softness is what creates the intensity. If she’s dripping, you’re doing it right. Sounds mean nothing. We learned to stay silent 🤫 wake us up by making us drip. That’s your sign. Listen to women about women’s bodies. Not men. Not your past experiences. We are all different. I’m small but can take a BEATING… 🥵

[sp****]

I agree 💯 there is nothing sexier than a girl writhing in pleasure, over and over, getting wet, squirting, feeling the compressions, tasting and teasing her and making them harder and more intense until you hit the ceiling with her. A good session takes time and builds but the payoff is amazing 🔥.

[im****]

Yea it’s fun making them cum, almost too easy, so it’s crazy to me when girls say that men can’t make them cum, my friend called me an asshole cause I laughed at her when she came

[el****]

I’ve learned that this is my kink also. I had no idea this was a kink. I just thought that it was something that was into.