Female Orgasm Obsession

[fu****]

Refractory periods are normal after orgasm for everyone.

[Ar****]

October 29, fu9ar said:

I don't think this counts as a kink. That's just... normal *

It's wild how many men in conventional dating consider, "enjoys partner's pleasure" a kink. A lot of patting oneself on the back for being a decent partner. Grosses me out.

[Da****]

Thursday at 07:57 AM, ArJay said:

It's wild how many men in conventional dating consider, "enjoys partner's pleasure" a kink. A lot of patting oneself on the back for being a decent partner. Grosses me out.

Agreed, but I think the kink aspect is the overstimulation of the partner. You are correct though it is very stupid that many men tend to be self-gratifying. Especially as Doms, that is something that is completely against the whole purpose which is why it ***es me off even more. I'd rather not be associated with such worthless degenerates as that.

I've said this before but people using becoming a Dom to get off and *** others without properly treating Subs are not Doms.

[Deleted Member]

There’s a lot more to female orgasm than “prioritising her pleasure.” Physiology plays a part, of course, but the mental side is the real hinge. There are two broad types of orgasm, and the difference between a clitoral one and a vaginal one often comes down to safety, mental preparation, ease, and how attuned the connection is.
Some of the best orgasms I’ve had were vaginal, and they happened because I felt safe, stimulated, and understood. It wasn’t about being in a relationship, but being with someone who was genuinely present with me, tuned into what my body was saying, and who made space for my desires without rushing or performing.

I’m naturally submissive, but if I sense a partner isn’t confident or doesn’t know how to lead, I’ll shift into a more dominant or directive role. It may not be my preference, but I try to turn a potentially bad experience into a better one. Sometimes that works, sometimes it doesn’t.
For a lot of women, a clitoral orgasm is the “default,” but a vaginal orgasm takes comfort, trust, relaxation, and time, the connection where both bodies feel right with each other.

[he****]

Yes I agree I’m the same way sheesh 💨

[Ba****]

First of you(and i) don’t prioritize your(our) partners pleasure “over your(our) own”, at best we prioritize our own pleasure through our partners expressions or we prioritize their pleasure to increase our own, the moment you gain your own pleasure from helping others you are no longer able to be truly altruistic at least part of it is self serving now

And yes, the limit is where ever your partner tells you it is, some need more time to cool down between orgasms, some enjoy staying on the edge and some don’t like it too intense
I had one tell me that the inability to form coherent thoughts or make identifiably human noises felt too dehumanizing for her to enjoy multiple orgasms and caused her unwanted feelings of ***, making it increasingly more difficult to achieve a second orgasm and basically converting any stimulation after the first orgasm directly into unnecessary stress

But yeah this is the thing i point at when people ask me why i call myself a sadist despite inflicting p.a.i.n not being something i’m directly into

[Ti****]

I love seeing just how many ways and how many they can have before I have one . Expiring and fining in ways and find it amazing that so many have only had one or couple ways of stimulation and experiencing. That drives me to definitely try to over achiever !

[am****]

I do not find it odd. I have been addicted to female orgasms since I was young. I do not see how most men do not realize they didn't get the woman off. It's so obvious when it's real. Women can be soo different as well. I want to experience them all. Whether it's with foreplay, toys, intercourse, doesn't matter. Nothing is sexier than a woman consumed by orgasm. If women think there is such a thing as too many, I haven't met one yet... And ladies quit faking, let them know they didn't do anything for you. Lol.