Female Orgasm Obsession

[fu****]

Refractory periods are normal after orgasm for everyone.

[Ar****]

October 29, fu9ar said:

I don't think this counts as a kink. That's just... normal *

It's wild how many men in conventional dating consider, "enjoys partner's pleasure" a kink. A lot of patting oneself on the back for being a decent partner. Grosses me out.

[Da****]

Thursday at 07:57 AM, ArJay said:

It's wild how many men in conventional dating consider, "enjoys partner's pleasure" a kink. A lot of patting oneself on the back for being a decent partner. Grosses me out.

Agreed, but I think the kink aspect is the overstimulation of the partner. You are correct though it is very stupid that many men tend to be self-gratifying. Especially as Doms, that is something that is completely against the whole purpose which is why it ***es me off even more. I'd rather not be associated with such worthless degenerates as that.

I've said this before but people using becoming a Dom to get off and *** others without properly treating Subs are not Doms.

[Pa****]

There’s a lot more to female orgasm than “prioritising her pleasure.” Physiology plays a part, of course, but the mental side is the real hinge. There are two broad types of orgasm, and the difference between a clitoral one and a vaginal one often comes down to safety, mental preparation, ease, and how attuned the connection is.
Some of the best orgasms I’ve had were vaginal, and they happened because I felt safe, stimulated, and understood. It wasn’t about being in a relationship, but being with someone who was genuinely present with me, tuned into what my body was saying, and who made space for my desires without rushing or performing.

I’m naturally submissive, but if I sense a partner isn’t confident or doesn’t know how to lead, I’ll shift into a more dominant or directive role. It may not be my preference, but I try to turn a potentially bad experience into a better one. Sometimes that works, sometimes it doesn’t.
For a lot of women, a clitoral orgasm is the “default,” but a vaginal orgasm takes comfort, trust, relaxation, and time, the connection where both bodies feel right with each other.

[he****]

Yes I agree I’m the same way sheesh 💨