Psychic Reading and BDSM Relationships

[Ka****]

So I had an interesting Halloween. I went to an event called a Psychic P*int and Sip. It was a bring your own beverage of choice and enjoy time with other folks as you p*inted a fall themed picture. But as a bonus we also took turns getting a 15 minute reading with a psychic.

Wellllll….. mine was quite interesting. She basically told me I needed to break up with my Master. Well in truth she said my current relationship was very damaging to me emotionally and physically. That it wasn’t an even exchange. I’m sitting there thinking to myself, Hmmmm, well, uh 😐.

Can psychics not read a relationship that isn’t a normal one? My relationship is NOT equal. I am a slave, I submit to my Master. He is the one in control of what we/I do. Secondly, it is physically damaging at times, but again, I am a bit of a *** slut. As a masochist I enjoy the pa*n he gives me physically. I ask for it.

But the thing that keeps me”haunting” me…(forgive the pun) is the emotionally damaging part of her reading. I do carry a deep well of sadness and *** inside me because though my Master cares for me, he does not love me. Though he looks after my needs, he does look at me as a high priority in his day to day life. He fits me in as he has time in his busy life, but I am not a PART of His life.

So maybe THAT is what she meant? That is the uneven exchange in my relationship? That I love him more than anyone other than my son, but he only cares for me.

I don’t totally understand how these psychic readings work? Aren’t they really more open to personal interpretation?

Oh, and by the way, this was an intuitive reading. Meaning I didn’t ask her any question. She had me pull 3 stones from a small pouch and then she used a few angel decks and what she “felt” from me to do my reading… so there You have it.

Any insight?

[Er****]

You deserve love in every capacity.

[E2****]

Trust your gut🤷

[Lo****]

Look I am the type of person who could look a ghost in the eye and give fift**n reason why I did not see a ghost so I will weigh in on this. Most psychics, in my experience, are good at reading body language and face movements. The psychic uses language to illicit a response and works off that to find more. That being said I dont think you are really asking if the psychic was real. I think you are wondering more so just how right the person was. That is what needs to be your focus.

Every relationship grows and changes and we do as people. Do you require more or do you want more? Is what you want more fulfilling than what you have now? Are you willing to let go of what you have now in order to pursue what you may want/need? No one can answer this but you.

Final note if he is going to far physically you need to tell him that.

[Bi****]

Psychics are total bologna

[no****]

I had this with my old dominant . I was not his priority as he had a nesting partner. He moved to Texas then . But I craved the deep connection i couldn't get cause he was taken by someone else. I did catch feelings for him but it hurt me emotionally.

[Be****]

So for one, it's important to remember that these readings are an art, not a science. You're never going to walk away with a clear set of actions you should take, it's more about hearing information you should consider for the path you're trying to take.

For the relationship aspect; While the power play dynamic might not be equal in dom/sub relationships, the relationship itself *should* be on equal standing. You guys can play like your Dom has total control - but he doesn't and SHOULDN'T. If you use a safe word, or express discomfort, or displeasure, the dynamic you're playing at should drop immediately, and you should be handed back that autonomy and control over yourself. If that isn't happening, then I would absolutely agree this is a connection that should end.

However, I think you know that your medium and reading was accurate. "I *love* him more than anyone other than my son, but he only *cares* for me."

You know this dynamic is unequal in a way that's negative. There's fun *** like whips and bruises, but there's nothing fun or pleasurable in unrequited love - in not mattering to someone you adore.

I get the feeling that your dynamic is really fulfilling sexually, but emotionally leaves you needing more. I get the feeling that you're worried someone else wouldn't be able to fufill the sexual needs, and you're holding out hope that this guy will change to be able to fulfill you emotionally. All I can say is this; the person that will love you dearly and fuck you senseless does exist, he is out there, and you are capable of finding him - but not while committing your energy to someone that won't do the same for you. Hope this helps love ❤️

[submissiveVIKING]

I have experienced this.... Now I believe it's like a joint investment.... The more you put in, the more you gain.... But if the other party(ies) aren't investing equally & there's little interest....It's time to cut your losses & invest where you are appreciated 🎯✨💯
In Short, if someone can't be bothered, neither can I.... IT HAS TAKEN ME A LIFETIME TO LEARN THIS..... I hope this helps someone

[cl****]

No but why is ***t censored???

[FE****]

2 minutes ago, clawandriot_com said:

No but why is p a i n t censored???

The word p a i n is censored.

[La****]

I completely agree with LoveandSpice's questions that he laid out for you to consider. To me it sounds like you are ready for a love relationship as in a boyfriend on equal footing. Here is the good news! You CAN have a boyfriend! Here's the bad news. Your Dom is NOT your boyfriend! It's OKAY to move forward in your life because change is constant, not permanent! You are the one holding yourself back. Break free of those chains that bind you! Let go and let go completely! The beginning can't begin until the ending has ended.

[gr****]

Where was this lol

[cl****]

I feel like you might need to see if you can find someone who fulfills both your requirements of lust and love. Everyone deserves to have every part of their needs met and not just half when the other has spare time. It would be nice for you to have someone who can do all the things you like then also know they care about you and like you for you too. So why not have both if you can?

[ma****]

Why did you p rn off a pregnant minor as youre implying? @mods.

[FE****]

41 minutes ago, malua-bay907014 said:

Why did you p rn off a pregnant minor as youre implying? @mods.

It could be me, but I don't understand your implication, nor who you are addressing it to?  If the word filters are an issue, PM me directly.

[my****]

Or maybe psychics are full of shit? They could have seen a bruise or saw you flinch and did a cold read on you.

[Deleted Member]

Oh wow, a Psychic ***t and Sip sounds like the most intense kind of Halloween fun! But man, your reading was absolutely spot on in the weirdest way, and you've actually done all the hard work figuring out what she meant. You are right that a psychic isn't reading your BDSM labels, they aren't looking at "Master" and "slave" and understanding the deep trust or the masochism you enjoy. They are reading pure emotional energy. And that's exactly why she hit on the "damaging" and "uneven exchange" part. She picked up on that massive emotional gap you described. I believe it’s not your physical dynamics that are the problem, it's the fact that you are giving him unconditional love and priority, but he is giving back only care and convenience by fitting you into his schedule. That huge disparity, your love being his priority, and you being his low priority, is absolutely damaging to your soul. So yeah, she didn't see a BDSM contract, she just saw the truth about the level of emotional commitment, and that deep well of sadness you carry confirmed everything she needed to know. She just mirrored the ***ful truth you already knew in your heart.

[se****]

Sunday at 10:55 PM, FETMod-RG said:

The word p a i n is censored.

The a is starred when describing the type of psychic event they went to and was confused because ***t is not a bdsm word or anything

[sh****]

Hello, were new here. I know a physic if your interested that can give u some clarification.... and that is also non judgemental. His name is Ken Boggles, look him up on IG or Facebook

[we****]

Well, I'm obviously not in deep connection with this app,but do to having an understanding in this matter,I DO have to say that going to a psychic about a relationship of any kind didn't really coinhereit with anything like "those types of relationships" they're mostly for I gu7i should say "vanilla lile types of people! 😅😅😋

[we****]

Doesn't*

[we****]

Anyone*

[my****]

7 hours ago, wellhiya said:

Anyone*

Doesn’t it make you crazy you can’t edit? I have a habit of not proofreading until after I send and it incenses me that once it’s sent you have to live with it.

[FE****]

1 minute ago, mythicalman said:

Doesn’t it make you crazy you can’t edit? I have a habit of not proofreading until after I send and it incenses me that once it’s sent you have to live with it.

To link to another thread, get your sub to proofread, she will be useful AND understand your needs and thoughts better :-)

 

But yes, it is annoying you can't edit.  If you have a serious issue with a missed edit,  feel free to drop me a message and I can edit the past post. 

[my****]

1 hour ago, FETMod-RG said:

To link to another thread, get your sub to proofread, she will be useful AND understand your needs and thoughts better :-)

 

But yes, it is annoying you can't edit.  If you have a serious issue with a missed edit,  feel free to drop me a message and I can edit the past post. 

Real bratty response mod. I was commiserating with another user about the inability to edit, myself. I appreciate that you are willing to go that extra to help, and at the same time I’m annoyed that you can change my words.