Spank therapy?

[LL****]

3 minutes ago, FETMod-RG said:

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Haha my apologies 😂 consider me told off!

[ja****]

For both even.

[Kymoeguy]

This is not my knowledge, just from a friend. A friend of mine had complete closed emotional as a child, into adulthood, so no relationships, bad career, if it was a domamatrix he cried, but not from ***. My friend continued, then found a woman who understood his need, helped him open up his emotions, his heart, a happier man.

[Co****]

Front spanking lol

[ey****]

there are people who sell/advertise "spank therapy" and...... there's a little truth in it, but a little snake oil to it also - it's very much a placebo

like spanking can be quite intimate, especially if it's bare hand to flesh, and especially if it starts soft and building up (though doesn't have to reach full power) and that can feel good.  But also it can released endorphins and they feel nice.

Add in, I guess, if someone is talking to you during a process that feels nice - you can associate words/feelings 

while it can feel nice, it should never be a substitute for actual therapy. 

[Su****]

In the same way that lots of things we love doing or have a powerful emotional catharsis effect can be "the***utic". The problem is that "the***utic" in this sense is shorthand for "good for your mental health", but too often is interpreted as "can replace actual therapy".

[Tr****]

Yes,I could use one 😊

[Au****]

Yes! The intense sensation of spanking is fantastic for physical and mental release. It produces an endorphin high that melts away stress, and the act of letting go of control to a trusted Dominant provides a valuable emotional detox that leaves me feeling calm and centered. It is absolutely 💯 the***utic.

[do****]

No, I don't think so.
It definitely can activate your default mode network and lets your brainactivity go into the state of healing and exploring yourself as much as for example meditation does so it definitely gives you a lot, if you're able to feel spanking as a comfort for yourself but therapy is just something entirely different.

[He****]

I would say so, and for both parties

[Deleted Member]

Yes 💯 😌

[si****]

Maintenance spankings are absolutely the***utic. Especially if I have a lot going on and am overwhelmed. Because for that time everything just disappears as I am focusing on the D, implements being used and myself. Nothing else matters. Nor does anything else exist in that moment.
Afterwards I can continue floating on that high. All the stresses “beaten” out of me. It’s a reset. And, the things that had me in the state I was in. All seem to be manageable and able to be prioritised as they need to be

[Deleted Member]

Yes I agree. It allows the person being punished the ability to submit to the Dom and feel powerless which is the***utic in itself

[social***]

I concur

[sh****]

It and to be honest most p@inplay done well is theraputic for me as it allows me to clear my mind. I'm one of those individuals whose always doing like a half dozen things at a time. Anytime i submitt especially for impact and similar types of activities it ***s me to focus on the here and now restting my mind.

[Os****]

Absolutely!! I feel rough sex in general can be the***utic

[scorpiomaster]

I know I feel much better physically and mentally after I have given someone a long spanking session.

[Si****]

Yes. It’s about self awareness and allowing oneself escape & freedom.

[ro****]

What i know that even subs who were totally against it and was on thier limits, after few encounters they whisper in your ears ,spank me please 😅

[Ro****]

It is ther@peutic, i feel it drops all the nonsense of the world out of mind for some in the moment sense of peace

[ch****]

Well said

[ap****]

I've always thought that spanking carried out for a over all purpose of helping the submissive with bettering his or herself. To stop using profanity or to stop smoking other goals set out with the Dom and sub. Lest that is what I've always wanted for it to be. Just have a valid purpose.