Mo**** Posted November 27, 2025 My take is that it's highly dependent on the people in question. I was with/married to my Dom for 10 years and we were 18 years apart in age. There were a ton of ways we lined up in real life, and neither of us went into it seeking someone much younger or older than us. That all being said, neither of us would have ever suggested that age gap to someone willy-nilly. There are a ton of complications that can (and will) arise out of that dynamic and even if you're either emotionally stable enough to handle it, or stupid enough to try, it will hurt. He passed a few months ago and I miss my old man terribly, but I will probably never sub for anyone in his age range again.
mi**** Posted March 2 Im 44 and have always been attracted to women roughly 45 to 60 years old. Whether I was 18, 30 or now. And I think it will remain that age group even when much older. But time will tell
Ba**** Posted March 2 so far i’ve never had a 10+years I prefer people closer to my age than that of my mother so the largest difference i had was a woman ~8years older and people younger than me have been rare and so far never over 4years younger I‘m open to try but i‘m kind of split on how creepy i feel about going after girls(actually, really) under 25 and i never really understood the appeal of all that „innocence/purity/virginity“ that seems to be popular with frankly too many men
Ca**** Posted March 2 I'm 51 and am searching for a woman 35 or younger, even 18 is acceptable to me. I have several reasons, the first is that is just what I'm attracted to with my Dd/lg caregiver nature. To me it would be a little odd for a 50y/o woman to call me Daddy (that's just me). The pragmatic reasons are that they are far less likely to have ***, an established career, or own property, all of which makes it far simpler for her to come and live with me in the house that I own. I have other ideas about why I have this preference that are based on me having been single for almost my entire life, but that's a psychology lesson for another time. But as michaelpie said, I too have always been attracted far more to that age range for my whole adult life. Also of note, there's a massive trend in social media for female creators age 18-26 announcing that they want to date 40 and 50 y/o men, for whatever that's worth.
En**** Posted 16 hours ago Hey everyone! Brand new to Fet and still trying to figure out how to navigate it. Just stumbled upon this thread and want to say that I am in a legit 2 year relationship with my girl who’s 25 and very experienced and I’m 60 and …. needless to say. We both agree that we experience the hands down best sex of our lives and fyi for all you nay-sayers cynics, m@ney is absolutely NOT a dynamic in our relationship
Ba**** Posted 12 hours ago 3 hours ago, Enigmaboy1 said: Hey everyone! Brand new to Fet and still trying to figure out how to navigate it. Just stumbled upon this thread and want to say that I am in a legit 2 year relationship with my girl who’s 25 and very experienced and I’m 60 and …. needless to say. We both agree that we experience the hands down best sex of our lives and fyi for all you nay-sayers cynics, m@ney is absolutely NOT a dynamic in our relationship First off, congratulations, honestly without sarcasm I you no ill but i‘m gonna be a dick and point out that you „both agreeing that you have the best sex of your lives“ hits different when one of your sex-lives is around five times longer(conservatively optimistic calculation for guideline reasons) Again, no ill will, i just couldn’t resist Ps if you are alone here there is a thread about general opinions on using this app without your partners knowledge, that i hope you don’t need but may find interesting
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