Mo**** Posted November 27, 2025 My take is that it's highly dependent on the people in question. I was with/married to my Dom for 10 years and we were 18 years apart in age. There were a ton of ways we lined up in real life, and neither of us went into it seeking someone much younger or older than us. That all being said, neither of us would have ever suggested that age gap to someone willy-nilly. There are a ton of complications that can (and will) arise out of that dynamic and even if you're either emotionally stable enough to handle it, or stupid enough to try, it will hurt. He passed a few months ago and I miss my old man terribly, but I will probably never sub for anyone in his age range again.
mi**** Posted March 2 Im 44 and have always been attracted to women roughly 45 to 60 years old. Whether I was 18, 30 or now. And I think it will remain that age group even when much older. But time will tell
Ba**** Posted March 2 so far i’ve never had a 10+years I prefer people closer to my age than that of my mother so the largest difference i had was a woman ~8years older and people younger than me have been rare and so far never over 4years younger I‘m open to try but i‘m kind of split on how creepy i feel about going after girls(actually, really) under 25 and i never really understood the appeal of all that „innocence/purity/virginity“ that seems to be popular with frankly too many men
Deleted Member Posted March 2 I'm 51 and am searching for a woman 35 or younger, even 18 is acceptable to me. I have several reasons, the first is that is just what I'm attracted to with my Dd/lg caregiver nature. To me it would be a little odd for a 50y/o woman to call me Daddy (that's just me). The pragmatic reasons are that they are far less likely to have ***, an established career, or own property, all of which makes it far simpler for her to come and live with me in the house that I own. I have other ideas about why I have this preference that are based on me having been single for almost my entire life, but that's a psychology lesson for another time. But as michaelpie said, I too have always been attracted far more to that age range for my whole adult life. Also of note, there's a massive trend in social media for female creators age 18-26 announcing that they want to date 40 and 50 y/o men, for whatever that's worth.
En**** Posted March 9 Hey everyone! Brand new to Fet and still trying to figure out how to navigate it. Just stumbled upon this thread and want to say that I am in a legit 2 year relationship with my girl who’s 25 and very experienced and I’m 60 and …. needless to say. We both agree that we experience the hands down best sex of our lives and fyi for all you nay-sayers cynics, m@ney is absolutely NOT a dynamic in our relationship
Ba**** Posted March 9 3 hours ago, Enigmaboy1 said: Hey everyone! Brand new to Fet and still trying to figure out how to navigate it. Just stumbled upon this thread and want to say that I am in a legit 2 year relationship with my girl who’s 25 and very experienced and I’m 60 and …. needless to say. We both agree that we experience the hands down best sex of our lives and fyi for all you nay-sayers cynics, m@ney is absolutely NOT a dynamic in our relationship First off, congratulations, honestly without sarcasm I you no ill but i‘m gonna be a dick and point out that you „both agreeing that you have the best sex of your lives“ hits different when one of your sex-lives is around five times longer(conservatively optimistic calculation for guideline reasons) Again, no ill will, i just couldn’t resist Ps if you are alone here there is a thread about general opinions on using this app without your partners knowledge, that i hope you don’t need but may find interesting
To**** Posted March 10 Honestly, it depends less on numbers and more on mindset. Ive seen it work and Ive seen it fail. What matters is maturity, emotional availability, and if both people can actually meet each other where they’re at With 10+ years diff, especially if one is under 25, Im cautious. Not cause Im judging, but cause there’s usually a gap in life experience. Fun when younger person is curious, open, willing to learn. Frustrating when they act like they already “know it all” or cant take direction What I like? Seeing someone grow, respond, really lean into the dynamic. What I dislike? Immaturity disguised as independence. Age cant replace presence or willingness to submit From my side as a Dom, the gap can enhance a dynamic if handled responsibly. But it’s never about exploiting difference. It’s about using experience to guide, protect, elevate the connection. Thats where it becomes real, not just a number on a birth certificate
Be**** Posted March 23 I am a submissive male. I like a mistress to be older than me. I would be willing to try younger but since I am not rich I don’t see a lot of women younger then me being interested
BlueGrace Posted March 24 I enjoy age gaps. I have 4 Doms, one of them being 13 years older than me. I have one 3 years younger than me. I wouldn’t date anyone younger than my 4th Dom, and no one older than 70. I wouldn’t date anyone 18-29 because I’m not interested in that age range. I can’t date anyone that doesn’t have a fully developed frontal cortex.
Be**** Posted March 24 Men, if you are over 50.. leave those young girls alone & find a woman who understands the signs of a stroke
Ba**** Posted March 24 13 hours ago, Bendoverman74 said: Men, if you are over 50.. leave those young girls alone & find a woman who understands the signs of a stroke Why?? There are „young girls“ who are into older men and already had experiences that taught them the signs of a stroke(and other potentially age related issues), most people have parents and grandparents after all And teaching your potential partners about your own specific health situation is something you can/should do anyway Also what even is a young girl from the perspective of a man over 50??
Deleted Member Posted March 25 My husband is 15 years older than me. I’ve been with “men” closer to my age and it was absolutely miserable. I’m an “old soul” I guess. There are times I can’t keep up with him in the bedroom.
Be**** Posted March 29 Just my personal outlook, based on what I have experienced since joining here. I am older, and it seems like I will have younger guys reach out to me. That is fine. My problem is, and I just updated my profile to reflect this, that guys who are in their 20’s or younger, are too young for me, strictly because I have kids of my own in their 20’s and it just doesn’t do anything for me, it gives me the ick feeling. That doesn’t mean I won’t be friends, or answer legit questions if they have them, but I can’t see myself with them.
ABZloon Posted May 18 I had a FWB who is a generation younger than me and we both had a fabulous time, in and out of bed. We maintain a relationship as friends now. My current partner is quite a few years older than me and that work too. I see no issues with age gap relationships. I guess that “lived experiences” might make a relationship beyond a generation of age difference challenging, even if the sex is fabulous … what do two people of such different ages have in common to chat about?
Ha**** Posted May 19 I dont really think its anybodys business other than the ppl involved honestly. As long as they're adults that is
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