suggesting kinks.

[TheSubmissive]

My girlfriend wants a cuckhold relationship with me. are relationship is amazing were are perfect for each other. we have our ups and downs. she enjoys im her sub. but wants to fullfill her cuck kink. so I was thinking I would do this for her maybe for a year maybe less. but in this time that I was being cucked I want to be made to wear diapers as well as a chastity Cage. but I dont know how shed feel. what do I do? how do I tell her I want her fantasy to come true but I want to do something with it. and be put into diapers 24/7. 

[De****]

Talk to her. Tell her. If you can't voice it? Write it! I hafta do that with my Daddy sometimes. Sometimes saying the words is scary but writing or drawing isnt so scary.

And sometimes I ask him what he thinks about something before I tell him I like it or Im interested in it. It helps break the ice.

But no one can read our thoughts so we gotta say it somehow!

[Ca****]

You need to talk through, communication is key. I have been in two cuckold relationships totalling 12 years , we started writing down ideas , wants needs limits , expectations etc which turned into a cuckold contract which also added to the experience.

[wa****]

They can be

[Mi****]

I would tell her now. That isn’t everyone’s cup of tea.

[wa****]

@missminoux you’re right

[ey****]

I think there's a few things to unpack and consider regardless of what you both do next

Number 1 : what does this cuckold relationship look like to her?  Because this isn't necessarily black and white.   Does she require additional support from you in order to do this, and does this even work for you?

Number 2 : so this diapers and chastity fantasy - like ignoring chastity for one second - being in diapers long term isn't very pleasant.  To either you, nor her.  Are you expecting her to change you?  How do you feasibly think this will work? What support from her do you need?  

Number 3 : Why have you not brough up these fantasies you've had before now?  It feels like you're trying to use them as bargaining chips

[kinkymasterandrew]

All relationships need honest two-way communication. I'd just tell her, maybe she'll love the idea, or maybe there'll be a compromise that fits you both. You can talk now, let it build up and talk later, or let it build up forever....I think the first option is what anyone who cares about you would want.

[fo****]

Just think you’ll be able to lick up all the spilled cum

[Ju****]

Just be up front about it. If she's your dom, I'm sure asked take your feelings into consideration

[mi****]

Simple. You talk to her. This isn’t some random strange who you’re afraid of judging you. This is the person who you trust and love enough to be in a relationship with, so share your thoughts in confidence, and move forward together from there.

[Li****]

7 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said:

I think there's a few things to unpack and consider regardless of what you both do next

Number 1 : what does this cuckold relationship look like to her?  Because this isn't necessarily black and white.   Does she require additional support from you in order to do this, and does this even work for you?

Number 2 : so this diapers and chastity fantasy - like ignoring chastity for one second - being in diapers long term isn't very pleasant.  To either you, nor her.  Are you expecting her to change you?  How do you feasibly think this will work? What support from her do you need?  

Number 3 : Why have you not brough up these fantasies you've had before now?  It feels like you're trying to use them as bargaining chips

I read this exactly the same.
There is a lot to unpack with yourself here before then having this discussion with her.
It does seem a bit tit for tat and your fantasy is essentially putting her in a carer's role if 24/7 and expecting her to do the changing and monitoring.

Maybe sit down and have an open and honest conversation about what you both have tried, would like to try, soft/hard limits, boundaries, so on and go from there.

I hope the relationship continues to blossom.

[Pr****]

Well it's not as perfect as you're implying and you should probaby not cope by saying it is. It's perfect but... That's not how the word works.

[Bl****]

I couldn’t imagine letting a woman I love get fucked and watch…….

[Ko****]

So what I'm seeing is you have a mommy fetish while your the baby is what I'm seeing here . CUCKOLDING is nothing new to me I've seen it all from degrading the cuck demasculation role playing like I'm breaking in heavy impact an much more I've been a Bull for many years . An the best advice I can give you is take her out on a nice date calming. Get her comfortable then let it out on the table I'm sure she'll be willing to compromise an let a common trade of an agree to some form of common ground. Never know until you ask kid. 😉

[Deleted Member]

Talk to her. Let her know how you feel and what you want. Be open and not hostile. Any great relationship has give and take aspects. Co.promise is a great key.

[Bl****]

I’ve cucked three couples but I just couldn’t imagine letting my gf do it if I had one. No judgement whatsoever. I’ve been the bull before lol

[Bl****]

But I’ve been sub before so I do get it kinda

[ey****]

9 hours ago, BlueDreamz93 said:

I couldn’t imagine letting a woman I love get fucked and watch…….

so, like - while some people into a cuckold arrangement - that is a factor

but it doesn't have to be

there's plenty of cucks who don't watch, or don't "get to" watch (and even some where the lady doesn't actually  have sex with other men, just tells the cuck she has) so this ties with what I mean by - what does the arrangement look like to her.  

[Bl****]

I am too I’ve only cucked 3 couples though new to it.

[lo****]

Just get the tantric Bible and start doing group sex

[lo****]

And sharing each other bodies with the world

[Bl****]

I will say though I didn’t know what to expect and I was nervous tbh. Like what if I got all anxious and my dick didn’t work lmao. But, I was so horny that was not occurring. My heart was racing so hard but my goal was making that wife orgasm over and over. Just giving her what her man couldn’t while he watches her moan and squirm around. Creaming on my cock…. He couldn’t help but to love it. Maybe even be jealous too. I wasn’t planning on stopping. She loved it and told me to keep going harder. It was the best sexual experiences I’ve had personally

[lo****]

Like a voyeur or were you at home while she was cucking

[TheSubmissive]

No so the thing is she has a cuckhold kink okay she wants me to be her cuck. Now im willing to do this for her. But I want to be made to wear diapers 24/7 by her. I want also to be made to wear frilly sissy dresses too. But how do I talk her into the whole diaper thing. Like it's a whole thing she doesnt know I have my own cuckhold fantasy too. Like I could go into detail about it I really could.