How might a younger person integrate into the kink world?

[Yi****]

Hopefully you can connect to someone local with similar interests in life, relationships, and sexual wants or needs. Start slow. If you want a casual hookup be clear about that sooner rather than later before you break someone's heart. Get some gear but be yourself.

[Ho****]

Don’t worry about fitting in, just be you and find individuals that fit with your wants and needs.

[Li****]

This is a difficult lifestyle for a single man to enter. There is almost always someone trying to size you up, talk down to you, and go behind your back about something that they heard from their friend's friend's 2nd cousin's boss's former roommate ... But eventually, and occasionally you'll find a few non-gossiping, accepting, and encouraging folk that just want to play. Although, it seems to be far and few between. Most, I find, make these elitist cliques that are almost not worth the baggage to join, or are using the kink lifestyle to ***, cheat, or both with/on their spouses.

However, for those that know how to be communicative, welcoming, and safe you can eventually find very enjoyable experiences.

[ep****]

Be yourself. Know your limits. Be open and respectful. Chat. Go to events. Find your people.

[Mm****]

Order a copy of the ethical slut and read it 💜
Follow some good creators like Caitlin v and Evie lupine. Then discuss!

[wa****]

I too I’m wondering the same thing

[li****]

I’d read books about ethical non monogamy and bdsm and do lots of research.

[do****]

So adorable

[Do****]

I’d be yourself and keep things polite unless asked other wise my g

[Deleted Member]

Thank you guys💗

[Deleted Member]

Just be yourself, like the username lad, that’s funny aha.

[co****]

I've come across many young people on here! If anything you got more of a chance cause young women tend to be less interested in 60 year olds than 20 year olds 😂

[bu****]

Following kink safety & education creators on ti( to(k and r33ls can help!