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How do you know you're safe in a submissive position?


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Trust is definitely something I like to initiate by being sensually assertive with out the use of any kinky kit whatsoever.

This is where the real connection will grow.

It is starting at the very beginning. However, it's about sincerity and being capable of being dominant without the need to use *kit* to enhance the connection.

The pleasure of sex that's indulgent and satisfying to both is what opens conversations on the narrative of kink and personal preferences.

The dom needs to listen to the answers during these kinds of conversations without interruption.

It's important that freedom of s***ch is allowed and any interruption will have a negative outcome, even if it was because they mentioned key words that make you want to agree, stay quiet and listen until the end.

Trust should not be given lightly.

It's about ensuring you are going to be respected.

Most importantly, if anything kinky is going to take place.

You have discussed the scinareo to some extent. Boundaries and limits.

Safe words have also been agreed upon.

It doesn't have to be as formal as I say it.

But when it is about ensuring your safety and your needs to be satisfied above and beyond. You have to put yourself first, to ensure your dom is going to put you first too.

Not just to make you cum above and beyond.

To ensure they are listening and stop if you say Red. Without any if's or buts.

That's whan you know you are safe.


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