Non-sexual Kink

[ra****]

I know that there are people out there more into the psyche side of kink than sexual but I haven't met them yet. Do you know of any creators who make this kind of content? Where can I learn more about it?

[FETMOD-TF]

Please feel free to make recommendations but no external links thanks 

[ni****]

Psyche side? I’m very curious and open minded too ❤️ what do you mean

[ho****]

I enjoy the psychological side of submission and it overlaps with my counselling training (never with a client though) but don’t do content.

[Deleted Member]

Most kinks are born of and connect to psychological aspects, can you describe what you are thinking of? From sound, imagery, self hypnosis? This question opens the door to a lot.

[re****]

I am definitely into the neuroscience of it all myself and I too am looking to learn and experience more I will be following this thread

[fa****]

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[Re****]

I think mainstream bdsm films (cinema not porn) offer that type with good acting. Movies like Venus in Fur and tye secretary are all about the psychological aspects

[Js****]

Adult confessions is a website where individuals share true/fantasy stories of all sorts of interests. Whether they are true or not I find it enthralling reading all the diff happenings and the thought process of the diff people who are sharing them.

[ha****]

Kuldrins Krypt podcast is all about the vastness of kink and he gears it towards beginners or maybe people who want to dive deeper

[le****]

The opposite of sexual play is not necessarily psychological. Some people love to play very physically without getting sexual. Just saying.

[SeduceMySynapse]

Roleplaying with a narcissist and finally getting a bit of pleasure out of the blue was mind blowing hahaha.

[Ly****]

Personally i dont consider anything involved in kink to be sexual unless its sex. I dont get off from BDSM stuff like some other people seem to. I enjoy it in a totally non sexual way.

[ra****]

13 hours ago, holybourneswitch said:

I enjoy the psychological side of submission and it overlaps with my counselling training (never with a client though) but don’t do content.

Yes like sometimes I see some people using it as more of a the***utic tool like that. That def sounds interesting I'm curious how you apply your counseling training to what you do with kink

[ra****]

12 hours ago, redfield165492 said:

I am definitely into the neuroscience of it all myself and I too am looking to learn and experience more I will be following this thread

Brains are so weird but yes I'm trying to learn too

[DT****]

I train subs
Be a sub

[Sq****]

We don't make content much because the demand just blatantly isn't worth the effort put in. I've written quite a few guides, I usually just point people to them when I get asked questions which happens periodically. Unfortunately, that's how it is.

[Sq****]

But, people like us do exist and have delved fairly deep into it. It's easier to find us and directly pick our brain if necessary. If it isn't sexualized then it doesn't get views or pay. Sure, the mental health aspects of it are amazing but it's still an extremely limited audience in an already niche realm. It's not impossible, but you would be hard pressed to even scratch the surface on being a content creator that can pay the bills while pumping out low engagement content.

[Ei****]

Handcuffs

[Deleted Member]

Are you talking about like maybe the dom/sub dynamic and how that may melt over into regular life? Some people find comfort in the structure of such a relationship. My sub, enjoys being able to be free of the responsibility of making decisions that I make for her as her Dom. It’s not always sexual and we both have troubled pasts, living the lifestyle has really helped both of us grow closer and face the world with confidence and conviction. It’s not always started out as just a little fun but has really grown to involve a large portion of our lives in a healthy way.

[Deleted Member]

It started***

[ho****]

9 hours ago, rabbit381619 said:

Yes like sometimes I see some people using it as more of a the***utic tool like that. That def sounds interesting I'm curious how you apply your counseling training to what you do with kink

It works best long distance I’ve found. It’s not the submission but the impulse to submit and to follow someone’s instruction knowing that you could get away with not doing it but choosing to do so anyway - that’s the kink and psychology link. Training a ‘sub’ in good habits that are mentally healthy and also socially ‘depraved’ is a powerful antidote to what our warped views of society are.

[ra****]

Thanks for sharing I appreciate this approach

[ra****]

13 hours ago, SquirrelandWrangler said:

But, people like us do exist and have delved fairly deep into it. It's easier to find us and directly pick our brain if necessary. If it isn't sexualized then it doesn't get views or pay. Sure, the mental health aspects of it are amazing but it's still an extremely limited audience in an already niche realm. It's not impossible, but you would be hard pressed to even scratch the surface on being a content creator that can pay the bills while pumping out low engagement content.

I've def noticed there doesn't seem to be as much of an interest, sad that it isn't lucrative. If you have anything on hand you feel like sharing please do, I'm new and not sure how to make it work but I'll try to open my messages to u

[ra****]

19 hours ago, SeduceMySynapse said:

Roleplaying with a narcissist and finally getting a bit of pleasure out of the blue was mind blowing hahaha.

OK I think I've experienced something similar curious how that went for u lmk if you want to msg