The Dom, the sub, and the subspace.

[kr****]

I'm with my sub, playfully teasing him and making him feel weak. Pushing every button I know that pushes him further into a submissive state. The physical aspect is just the beginning. Being physical is only foreplay.

When I know he's in the right state of mind, I know what choices I have. I let him beg to serve, or I make him fully submit. I choose submission. I know he trusts me, and he will do as told. No questions asked.

In a real D/s (in my opinion/experience) relationship, it's not about the physical touch. It's about the mental connection. The understanding of each other and each of your boundaries. When he fully submits, it is truly something else. It's almost like he's in a different world for a few moments - the subspace. From an outsider looking in, it's like a rush of euphoria that I know I can't feel, but love to create for him.

Does anyone want to share their experiences? I'm curious regardless of gender, what people think of this topic.

[no****]

Ive only recently discovered sub space. And it was only online but i felt it and was better than physical touch. Truly amazing

[kr****]

48 minutes ago, north-canton591866 said:

Ive only recently discovered sub space. And it was only online but i felt it and was better than physical touch. Truly amazing

That's great! It's a rare occurrence. Sometimes I'll think that I've made him cross that line and so many times it's "almost". But when it does actually happen it can be kind of indescribable. Even from my side.

[Ar****]

I’ve gone sooooo far into subspace before that I’ve gone dang near catatonic for up to 10 minutes it’s like extreme bliss like every nerve ending in my body is firing off all at once until I give out from the sheer overstimulation. And I will say the mental side is 90% of it for me and the physical is 10%

[kr****]

2 hours ago, ArmstrongPrincess said:

I’ve gone sooooo far into subspace before that I’ve gone dang near catatonic for up to 10 minutes it’s like extreme bliss like every nerve ending in my body is firing off all at once until I give out from the sheer overstimulation. And I will say the mental side is 90% of it for me and the physical is 10%

Thanks for sharing! That sounds pretty intense. I think the 10% physical you mentioned is mostly at the beginning too. I know a little physical tease followed by a lot of mental stimulation causes my sub to get kind of... Hazy-minded? He'll say his thoughts out loud sometimes, it's funny.