WHAT HOLDS ME BACK

[Deleted Member]

Being exposed by someone

[au****]

Shy need the rightperson tht dsntjudge

[Deleted Member]

Judgment. It’s hard to find open minded people even on an app like this. At least my experience.

[Ec****]

Trust. A lot of kink requires trust. Having had a bad experience trust takes time for me so patience as well

[Li****]

Control freaks mental and physical *** is why it

[mr****]

Not being anyone's type.

[ExploringSubmission]

It was family & friends but once I moved away I thought it would be better…no it’s location. This “city” feels more like a small town and everyone seems to be close knit so it it’s hard to actually get to know anyone that might be in the community

[Stallingfoot]

I live with my parents still and cant drive just yet

Edited May 6 by Stallingfoot

[Ju****]

Definitely ***, though in this past year or so I have opened myself a bit more and found out more about my submissive side

[Sl****]

Many people are so eager to throw limits out here. And so here we are wondering what’s keeping ourselves back. Bottom line for me is that I would never make a hard stand on anything because that’s projecting to everyone that I’m not approachable.
Even if I might not be into your kinks, I will try to meet people where their cravings are because life’s too short to push people away so quickly. It stinks to not have someone that you can unwind and simply be your unfiltered self.

[Re****]

Great question. I meet lots of guys and what’s holding me back the most is that so many guys get freaked out when I tell them what I want to do. They say they are kinky or into something but then they get uncomfortable when I ask to do it. So it’s the limitations set by others on me that hold me back the most. Which in a way is kind of funny because I am a slave and want to be controlled by a guy to serve and obey him and yet I want to fully demonstrate what I am capable of doing for a guy as well.

[Louise777]

Time...to grow trust...within an honest relationship