Types of subs

[Daddybrains]

Categories like these can become shortcuts we take instead of doing the work. I have a romantic notion that each person I dominate is like a different musical instrument that I need to learn. Different buttons to push, different places to blow, different ways to bend and stroke — as it were. The communication we so value in WIITWD helps a lot with learning how to play effectively!

[ChocolateRopeBunny]

I am in the first category. I think those in the second category do themselves and their respective D type a disservice. By not knowing who you are and what you want you're leaving that type of pleasure open to interpretation and putting the onus squarely on someone else's shoulders with no guidance. That's not fair in my opinion. If you don't know how to make you happy how do you expect someone else to make you happy?

[si****]

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[4U****]

There are at least seven types of subs, and some subs fit all in all archetypes ie. me. Am I confused? No! I know exactly what I want, when I want, but I have ADHD, so I don't want the same things every time.

[fm****]

Most people don't know how to achieve what they want out of their life. They think *** will fix their problems, but most of their personal problems are caused by an inner frustration . At not being allowed to be who they really are. All they have to do is step outside that box they live in, and that is the problem , they are afraid to take that first and most definitive step.
Just let the real u out and let it grow

[BlueGrace]

I am a few different types. I have a sexual sub side and a service sub side that is mainly performing platonic services for my dominants.

[jinxed]

On 1/29/2026 at 5:16 PM, Daddybrains said:

Categories like these can become shortcuts we take instead of doing the work. I have a romantic notion that each person I dominate is like a different musical instrument that I need to learn. Different buttons to push, different places to blow, different ways to bend and stroke — as it were. The communication we so value in WIITWD helps a lot with learning how to play effectively!

This is a beautiful way of putting it! Staying with this picture it becomes obvious that the musician also changes with each instrument. 
So while some people might be for whatever reason (be that trauma, preference, the need for simplification, ... ) limited to a certain way of interaction, I believe and have experienced that there is the possibility to be a shapeshifter, both as a Dom and a sub. A new person can bring out completely new behaviours, desires and abilities! In such cases, it all depends on the energies both are bringing that can create a unique interplay. Which is perhaps even necessary if you are a being that keeps developing and growing. Personally, I wouldn't want to have it any other way! 

[fm****]

A person is meant to grow and develop within themselves and surroundings, also with the people they come in contact with . If they can't achieve these simple goals, they need to move on