Hiding

[ol****]

@Curvykate - read a lot of what you post. You always seem grounded, honest and sensible.

Wishing you all that you need to find right now, stay strong.

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Kate,

I know it doesn't feel like it right now but the right person IS out there somewhere..... keep looking

x

[Leisa]

1 hour ago, RosebroomRoeshot said:

Have you just returned? Me too. It's nice to see familiar faces. I hope you've found the healing you needed. I tried to message you but your filters are keeping me out and that's ok x

Not yet but getting there. I will message you first. They’re incredibly high lol

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2 hours ago, Leisa said:

You’re one of the best. This community is part of who we are as individuals. When the time is right for you, you will come out to those closest to you. It’s a journey worth living.

🤗 Thank you 😙. Not sure about coming out, but I’m very grateful for this community.

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2 hours ago, Amy4U said:

I’m sorry you went through this and I feel you *** you have no idea how much

You too? 😔 We will be stronger the other side.

[LanceH]

Sorry to hear that you are in that position. For me personally my family knows. They don't really approve. However they accept me because I am family. Not trying to tell you what to do or say, but maybe it wouldn't be quite as bad as you think. By no means advocate you show up to family dinner in a full regalia mode, but a light touching with select people might help .......maybe. You know your people better than I.

[Deleted Member]

Hugs

[Deleted Member]

I'm so very sorry, sweetheart.  I send hugs and ice cream. 

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13 hours ago, LanceH said:

Sorry to hear that you are in that position. For me personally my family knows. They don't really approve. However they accept me because I am family. Not trying to tell you what to do or say, but maybe it wouldn't be quite as bad as you think. By no means advocate you show up to family dinner in a full regalia mode, but a light touching with select people might help .......maybe. You know your people better than I.

I’ve been more open about non-monogamy, but only my best friend knows a little about the kink. I hide it from myself too much still to be open with others. 😔

[LanceH]

Heal yourself before you try to heal others. It is hardest when you are passing judgement on yourself before they have a chance.

[LanceH]

Also ......... I Call Cuddle puddle!!!!!!!

[PixieDust]

Your words resonate with me so very much right now and I all can say is I'm so very sorry and sending you lots of love 💗 and big Aussie hugs 🤗🧚‍♀️

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1 hour ago, PixieDust said:

Your words resonate with me so very much right now and I all can say is I'm so very sorry and sending you lots of love 💗 and big Aussie hugs 🤗🧚‍♀️

Thanks so much, Pixie (mate) 🤗 I think so many of us have felt the same way. 🐨

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19 hours ago, LanceH said:

Also ......... I Call Cuddle puddle!!!!!!!

New to me!

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On 2/20/2021 at 7:30 PM, nickha said:

Kate,

I know it doesn't feel like it right now but the right person IS out there somewhere..... keep looking

x

Life is a journey of lessons and experiences,  some join us on our path for a short time,  some for a longer time,  those who we love and lose are all there for a reason.  It is sad when they finish their journey with us but I'm always grateful for the lessons and experiences.... its how we grow.  For this reason,  I don't think "searching for the one" is the way forward because otherwise you end up perpetually disappointed.  Giving thanks and being grateful for what has been brought to you is important  and know that what is for you won't pass you by.  Have faith

Much love 

🔥🔥🔥

[Erotes-72]

On 2/20/2021 at 11:40 AM, Curvykate said:

I can’t tell my family, I can’t tell my friends. I can’t explain why it hurts so much. When they ask, I say it was the distance. It got too much. But I would have travelled further for you, had you asked. It wasn’t too much for me. It seems I was too much for you and that’s a bitter pill to swallow. I’m hiding my needs now. They feel like something I should be ashamed of. You never said that. You just couldn’t accept them. You couldn’t accept me. And now I’m trying not to hide again.

What powerful and heartfelt words my sweet. I’m truly moved by both your emotions and the trust you display in sharing them with this community. I can so relate to these words as I’m sure so many others can. Be strong my love and know your a sensation lady who will be treasured by someone soon. Until then find peace amongst friends xx

[li****]

All this resonates with me so much as I hid for such a long time who I was and hid this lifestyle also, some people know some don't and I've chosen who I tell and who I don't ( it's mainly family that don't know ) but in time I will probably tell them the full me and about my lifestyle choice. But Kate you are a wonderful strong person inside and out and what you bring to this site and especially to this forum is that you speak your mind and that in itself is amazing. You give people advice and never back down which again is something special!!! My pm is always open to chat ❣️❣️

Edited February 22, 2021 by lil-monster

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23 hours ago, Firewitch said:

Life is a journey of lessons and experiences,  some join us on our path for a short time,  some for a longer time,  those who we love and lose are all there for a reason.  It is sad when they finish their journey with us but I'm always grateful for the lessons and experiences.... its how we grow.  For this reason,  I don't think "searching for the one" is the way forward because otherwise you end up perpetually disappointed.  Giving thanks and being grateful for what has been brought to you is important  and know that what is for you won't pass you by.  Have faith

Much love 

🔥🔥🔥

I have learnt a great deal so I absolutely agree - I don’t regret it one iota. I found someone who loved me and I loved in return. So I guess that romantic connection is something I still seek but I do think most of us can connect with many people on different levels. And it’s wonderful when you’re open to that.

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21 hours ago, Steve78 said:

What powerful and heartfelt words my sweet. I’m truly moved by both your emotions and the trust you display in sharing them with this community. I can so relate to these words as I’m sure so many others can. Be strong my love and know your a sensation lady who will be treasured by someone soon. Until then find peace amongst friends xx

It’s healing to share ***, I find and I’m very grateful to have this community. Thank you 🤗

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18 hours ago, lil-monster said:

All this resonates with me so much as I hid for such a long time who I was and hid this lifestyle also, some people know some don't and I've chosen who I tell and who I don't ( it's mainly family that don't know ) but in time I will probably tell them the full me and about my lifestyle choice. But Kate you are a wonderful strong person inside and out and what you bring to this site and especially to this forum is that you speak your mind and that in itself is amazing. You give people advice and never back down which again is something special!!! My pm is always open to chat ❣️❣️

☺️🤗 Thank you for your message. Warm inside now! 😚