Using Fet behind a partners back

[ja****]

It's cheating, it's wrong. Next question. Not sure why that's even something that's up for debate.

[Nylon-Nellie]

To be fair, how many men AND women use this app without their partners knowing what they are up to? There will be quite a fair few and it is all too easy to keep up with the lies until they are found out. Has anyone replied saying that they are cheating on their partner yet?

[Tr****]

4 hours ago, Nylon-Nellie said:

To be fair, how many men AND women use this app without their partners knowing what they are up to? There will be quite a fair few and it is all too easy to keep up with the lies until they are found out. Has anyone replied saying that they are cheating on their partner yet?

There are tons of cheats on this app and they are all in my inbox 😂😆 dirty dogs 🤬 that's all I get is whining men about how they are in sexless marriages um can you say RED FLAG

[Ro****]

20 hours ago, Nylon-Nellie said:

To be fair, how many men AND women use this app without their partners knowing what they are up to? There will be quite a fair few and it is all too easy to keep up with the lies until they are found out. Has anyone replied saying that they are cheating on their partner yet?

Yes there are, and it's a red flag that I will quietly pass by. That is a standard I stand by. There's less drama, less excuses and better conversation and communicationwith others who are interested. So why would I bother?

[So****]

As stated above, this is a large and vibrant red flag. If you're going behind your partners back, you aren't trustworthy. If you're not trustworthy, you don't have a place on either side of the slash.
In a world where polyam is becoming more recognized, sneaking and cheating is unacceptable. Say it with your whole chest.

[Ul****]

The question is how would you feel if you found out your partner was on dating apps and meeting other people for casual hook ups?

I think it's time to sit down and have a chat with your partner and talk about your kinks and desires.
Who knows, they might supries you, but its a conversation that you need to have, otherwise your going to end up with a lot of hurt and regret.

[zo****]

Going behind someones back is a big nope. If youre unhappy? Communicate. If you need more? Communicate. If you cant come to an agreement? Break up. Nah. Fuck that nonsense.

[CuriousRose]

Hands down this is a major NO! I have had numerous people men and women messaging me over the last few months about their partners being on here and them being unaware. This is cheating, zero grey area. And no justification can make this not cheating

[de****]

Monday at 09:28 AM, Nylon-Nellie said:

To be fair, how many men AND women use this app without their partners knowing what they are up to? There will be quite a fair few and it is all too easy to keep up with the lies until they are found out. Has anyone replied saying that they are cheating on their partner yet?

Yeah I was cheated on in a monogamous relationship on here. In the end of it,she said I did nothing wrong at all, just “wanted what’s best for her”. Said no, when I asked of interest in somebody else. Emotionless from someone wearing their emotions

[sa****]

I caught my spouse so that’s why I’m here

[Pe****]

Betraying your partner and then seeking validation from other scumbags? Be a better man. She deserves better than this.

[sa****]

Don’t need validation 😂

[Wh****]

Absolutely not. I am here bc I caught my husband cheating on me and got a divorce as soon as I found out. I did not find myself on any dating apps until after I was fully single and any man that finds himself in my inbox who is there without his partner's knowledge is a no from me dog. It is gross and unacceptable. On the bright side I am much happier now and able to explore a side of me that I didn't know existed until after I got divorced that being said I will never be the other woman and I will never put another person through what I went through. Be a better human being.