Should men pay for their women’s nails and hair?

[GeneGrey]

I think men should because their women put effort to look good for them. But what do you guys think?

[oh****]

Yessssss 😻😻

[ki****]

Yes and yes alwayss

[ta****]

Yes

[La****]

In general, if he can afford it, yes. If she's his Domme, then double yes.

[L_****]

I always thought they do it for themselves ?...

[Mr****]

See what the new trend that men send *** to a woman. So she could get her hair and nails done. I don't think that that is advantageous for men because that's not your woman. And I don't think a man needs to pay for anything. For a woman until they are in a relationship. Because the average woman goes on 3 to 4 dates. A week, so men are essentially funding her life and women want equal rights. Then, they can equally pay for their things.Until we get into a relationship

[Go****]

I think the vast majority do it to look and feel good for themselves, but to answer the question; yes I think they should - IF he wants to and they both are in agreement, otherwise, no.

[dr****]

I think adults taking care of their grooming needs is their own responsibility. If they choose to take care of it for their partner that’s a great gesture but should not be expected unless that is the dynamic they discussed and established with each other.

[Gr****]

Maybe if married or equivalents for the odd birthday treat or anniversary.

[Deleted Member]

I do not think thats a smart way of thinking, but it sounds like a Fet.com friendly post lol.

[Ar****]

Buying nails or a hairdo can be a nice gift for anybody, but as a regular thing/standard practice? The 1950s called, they want women keeping and back in the kitchen please.

If doing this sort of thing I want a partner who will treat me/pay for me in the same manner i.e. buy me grooming treatments as well... though personally I would prefer neither of us did and we just took ourselves away on regular spa breaks together.

[bo****]

No, because that is done for other woman not for guys becames we dont care or even notice it most of the time. 😂

[Go****]

5 minutes ago, Aranhis said:

Buying nails or a hairdo can be a nice gift for anybody, but as a regular thing/standard practice? The 1950s called, they want women keeping and back in the kitchen please.

If doing this sort of thing I want a partner who will treat me/pay for me in the same manner i.e. buy me grooming treatments as well... though personally I would prefer neither of us did and we just took ourselves away on regular spa breaks together.

But what about….spa break, with a theatre show afterwards? 😍

[Deleted Member]

is the fucking sky blue

[Deleted Member]

Only if that man expects his woman to have a fresh new haircut every week. In that case absolutely he should

[Ta****]

I personally like to have my hair & nails done for myself & see it as part of my own personal care but if either were gifted to me then maybe.
My submission or connection with someone is deeper than hair & nails but this is just how I see it plus if its negotiated to be this way then both parties have agreed & consented.

[Mo****]

It's depends me and my girl are long distance I'll pay when I visit because I like fresh sharp nails so because I want them I pay, if she wants them when I'm not visiting she pays or she might go with her mom who picks up the check but if she wants like tips or something that are nice looking but less practical to are kinks then those are for her and she handles is. Hair is completely done by ourselves but she doesn't do cosplay like me so really her hair is easy like twice a year get the splits taken care of I'm more likely to get color or something expensive so we also take care of are own hair needs.

[Ar****]

8 minutes ago, GoodGirlBetterBrat said:

But what about….spa break, with a theatre show afterwards? 😍

🤤🤤🤤😍😍😍 Don't tease me, you know what I'm going through at the moment 🤣🤣 (on a serious note I think we could both do with it!)

[Ta****]

And just to add Im not sure I would feel totally comfortable having someone pay what I pay because of where I choose to go but again this is just me

[La****]

I speak as a woman who pay for my girl/boy. When yall dating, doing it as occasional gifts, yes. Regularly, no. People have their own needs and responsibilities. So needing someone to keep paying for your secondary needs is just selfish imo. But if you dont mind to pay for everything everytime, then to each their own.

[to****]

I don’t think men should be expected to pay for everything for women. If it is your longtime gf or wife and you care that much about her hair and nails, sure, go for it. If you just met her, absolutely not. She will just leave you for the next guy that pays for more stuff and things than you can. The real kicker is that you are overall encouraging this method of selection by buying her a bunch of crap in the first place. Congrats. If only there weren’t plenty of guys out there with a bigger billfold that she would drop you like a hot potato for, your borderline prostitution plan might have worked.

[Deleted Member]

6 minutes ago, EntheogenWarrior said:

I don’t think men should be expected to pay for everything for women. If it is your longtime gf or wife and you care that much about her hair and nails, sure, go for it. If you just met her, absolutely not. She will just leave you for the next guy that pays for more stuff and things than you can. The real kicker is that you are overall encouraging this method of selection by buying her a bunch of crap in the first place. Congrats. If only there weren’t plenty of guys out there with a bigger billfold that she would drop you like a hot potato for, your borderline prostitution plan might have worked.

If that ain’t the truth then I don’t know what is. A woman that’s just with you for what you buy her is for the store. Got to throw that fish back, because she’s going to leave the second that well dries up or when she finds an even deeper well that provides more. I think most men have learned that lesson the hard way

[bl****]

Fuck no

[Ra****]

Nahh, I pay for pretty well anything out, the least she can do is upkeep her self, should she pay for the monthly $60 to keep the beard and fade fresh?