What’s a non-sexual thing that instantly makes someone more attractive in kink spaces?

[Cw****]

The way they carry themselves when they think no one is watching

[Vi****]

Confidence is the key in every relationship.

[mt****]

Intelligence

[Ke****]

Fully respecting mutual consent and being under the influence negates the ability to give consent. Understanding that revoking consent immediately terminates the scene. Consent now does not imply consent later in a subsequent scene. So fully understanding consent and how it is given, retracted and given again. That is very attractive.

[Ba****]

1 hour ago, Ken-Loves-Music said:

Fully respecting mutual consent and being under the influence negates the ability to give consent. Understanding that revoking consent immediately terminates the scene. Consent now does not imply consent later in a subsequent scene. So fully understanding consent and how it is given, retracted and given again. That is very attractive.

Wait
First which one of these is actually „a non-sexual thing“??
Second none of them are as black and white or as universal, things are a bit more complicated to the point that there can be contradictions and presumably unreasonable double standards just in the plain text of your comment without even looking deeper into it
So you are basically saying here that you like your partner to „fully understand consent“ while you yourself only display a specific kind of limited understanding of consent, implying that any potential deviation is „no true scotsman“

[Gi****]

Intellect and genuine intelligence are insanely attractive to me. Playing up a bubbly, airheaded persona as role play is one thing, but actually being shallow or unintelligent is a real turnoff.